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In Other Words: A Complete Mess of Conflicting Wills</title><content type='html'>&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/TPP_QjytFxI/AAAAAAAAEhc/uFaBjTvKAZY/s1600/broken%2Bwindshield.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="float: left; margin: 0pt 10px 10px 0pt; cursor: pointer; width: 200px; height: 150px;" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/TPP_QjytFxI/AAAAAAAAEhc/uFaBjTvKAZY/s200/broken%2Bwindshield.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5545056226174113554" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;em style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;"T&lt;/span&gt;here are two kinds of people: those who say to God&lt;/em&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;,&lt;br /&gt;"&lt;/span&gt;&lt;em style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;Thy will be done&lt;/em&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;," &lt;/span&gt;&lt;em style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;and those to whom God says&lt;/em&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;,&lt;br /&gt;"&lt;/span&gt;&lt;em style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;All right, then&lt;/em&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;, &lt;/span&gt;&lt;em style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;have it your way&lt;/em&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;”.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: right;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 102, 102);"&gt;~ C.S. Lewis&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 102, 102); font-weight: bold;"&gt;08/04/2010 OWATONNA, MN -- A 17-year-old boy was killed when a landscape block fell off a truc&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 102, 102); font-weight: bold;"&gt;k and crashed through&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 102, 102); font-weight: bold;"&gt; the windshield of a van in Steele County.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 102, 102); font-weight: bold;"&gt;  S&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 102, 102); font-weight: bold;"&gt;her&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 102, 102); font-weight: bold;"&gt;iff's d&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 102, 102); font-weight: bold;"&gt;eputies say some retaining wall&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 102, 102); font-weight: bold;"&gt; blocks were strapped on the truck's trailer, but one somehow fell off on Highway 14 west of Owatonna Tuesday afternoon killing the boy instantly. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:78%;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: right;"&gt;Overheard at the boy’s funeral: &lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;“[&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;Something, . . . something&lt;/span&gt;]. . . God’s will.”&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/TPQqaxXE6qI/AAAAAAAAEhk/l7_yBrbjkcY/s1600/elderly%2Bcouple%2Bon%2Bpark%2Bbench.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="float: right; margin: 0pt 0pt 10px 10px; cursor: pointer; width: 134px; height: 200px;" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/TPQqaxXE6qI/AAAAAAAAEhk/l7_yBrbjkcY/s200/elderly%2Bcouple%2Bon%2Bpark%2Bbench.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5545103680615017122" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 102, 102); font-weight: bold;"&gt;09/18/2010 BAXTER , MN -- It was a fairy tail wedding over 40 years in the making.  Joe Yoder left for Vietnam with a foreboding sense that his fate would leave his fiance' a young widow. He broke off their engagement and she was &lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 102, 102); font-weight: bold;"&gt;left alone and heartbroken. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 102, 102); font-weight: bold;"&gt;Pegge did eventually marry, but lost her husb&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 102, 102); font-weight: bold;"&gt;and to cancer only a year after their wedding.  &lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 102, 102); font-weight: bold;"&gt;In&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 102, 102); font-weight: bold;"&gt; 1973, Joe returned from Vietnam, forlorn and war-scarred.  He never married. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 102, 102); font-weight: bold;"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 102, 102); font-weight: bold;"&gt;Thirty-seven years later, Joe and Pegge were &lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 102, 102); font-weight: bold;"&gt;reunited in -- of all places -- a surgery waiting room at Mayo Clinic.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:78%;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: right;"&gt;Overheard at the couple’s wedding:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;“. . . how wonderful that they found each other.”&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;And once again&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt; we see how easily God gets blamed for a shocking tragedy and given zero credit for a tenderly orchestrated reunion of sweethearts.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);font-size:180%;" &gt;So...what is God’s Will?&lt;/span&gt;  And at what point does God give in to the human will and say, &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;"All right, then, have it your way"&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;em style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;em style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Before we can answer these questions, it is important to understand that there are two very different meanings for the term &lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;God's Will &lt;/span&gt;in the Bible.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/TPQ0mzCh5xI/AAAAAAAAEhs/WXWdO22ZNEE/s1600/Jesus%2Bin%2BGethsemane.jpeg"&gt;&lt;img style="float: left; margin: 0pt 10px 10px 0pt; cursor: pointer; width: 200px; height: 132px;" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/TPQ0mzCh5xI/AAAAAAAAEhs/WXWdO22ZNEE/s200/Jesus%2Bin%2BGethsemane.jpeg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5545114882340415250" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);font-size:180%;" &gt;Fir&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);font-size:180%;" &gt;st &lt;/span&gt;consider the words of Jesus when he prayed in Gethsemane:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;“My Father, if it is not possible for this cup to be taken away unless I drink it, may your will be done.”&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: right;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;~ Matthew 26:42&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;In this passage,&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt; "your will"&lt;/span&gt; refers to &lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;Go&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;d's Will of Decree&lt;/span&gt; -- that is, it relates to God's sovereignty over all that happens.  The &lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;Will of God&lt;/span&gt; was that Jesus die.  This was God's plan.  This was God's &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;decree&lt;/span&gt;.  There was nothing that could change it.  Jesus did ask that he not go through with the plan, but God had already decreed it.  God's sovereignty was at work.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);font-size:180%;" &gt;An unsettling fact&lt;/span&gt; for many Christians is that the fulfillment of &lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;God's Will of Decree &lt;/span&gt;does include the reality of sin.  To fulfill His sovereign plan,  someone usually commits sin.  And as a result, someone somewhere is hurt, killed, emotionally wounded, etc.  In Matthew 26 and 27,   Herod, Pilate, the soldiers, and the Jewish leaders all sinned -- thereby fulfilling &lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;God's Will &lt;/span&gt;that Jesus be crucified.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;A good summation of this kind of &lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;God's Will&lt;/span&gt; in terms of our lives today is found in the words of  I Peter 3:17:&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;"For it is better to suffer for doing good, if suffering should be God's will, than to suffer for doing evil."&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;And a perfect summation of this kind of &lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;God's Will&lt;/span&gt; in terms of Christ's incarnation is found in the words of Philippians 2:6-7:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;"Who, being in very nature God, did not consider equality with God something to be used to his own advantage; rather, he made himself nothing by taking the vary nature of a servant,&lt;br /&gt;being made in human likenes&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;s."&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: right;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 102, 102);"&gt;Did the 17-year old boy die instantly because God decreed it?&lt;br /&gt;Was his death the result of someone's sin&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;{-- which sin was part of another of God's decrees? . . . }&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I don't know.  I don't think anyone on this side of heaven can answer that.&lt;br /&gt;I do know that God is Sovereign. And I do know that we live in a world of sin.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Does God orchestrate love stories?&lt;br /&gt;Was it God's Will that Joe and Pegge find each other after nearly forty years?&lt;br /&gt;. . . You decide.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/TPQ9XGQ4LBI/AAAAAAAAEh0/VPfKK0PJCD0/s1600/ten-commandments.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="float: right; margin: 0pt 0pt 10px 10px; cursor: pointer; width: 200px; height: 154px;" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/TPQ9XGQ4LBI/AAAAAAAAEh0/VPfKK0PJCD0/s200/ten-commandments.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5545124508227611666" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);font-size:180%;" &gt;Now con&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);font-size:180%;" &gt;sider&lt;/span&gt; another meaning of &lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;God's Will:&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Jesus said in Matthew 7:21:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;"Not everyone who says to me, 'Oh Lord, Lord' will enter the kingdom of h&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;eaven, but only the one who does the will of my Father in heaven."&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Here we see &lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;God's Will of Command&lt;/span&gt;.  Here, God's Will is what he commands us to do through His Word; and this is the kind of &lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;God's Will&lt;/span&gt; that we can choose to either obey or disobey.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Romans 1:20-21 tells us,&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;"For since the creation of the world God's invisible qualities -- his eternal power and d&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;ivine nature -- have been clearly seen, being understood from what has been made, so that people are without excuse. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;For although they knew god, they neither glorified him as God nor gave thanks to him, but their thinking became futile and their foolish hearts were darkened."&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/TPSeGWQVyGI/AAAAAAAAEiE/ccN66o802Uo/s1600/goingtohellandproud.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="float: left; margin: 0pt 10px 10px 0pt; cursor: pointer; width: 142px; height: 200px;" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/TPSeGWQVyGI/AAAAAAAAEiE/ccN66o802Uo/s200/goingtohellandproud.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5545230873090443362" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;Humankind is without excuse&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt; when it comes to our awareness and knowledge of God.  And it is &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;our&lt;/span&gt; will to choose whether to glorify Him and obey his commandments -- or to dismiss His presence altogether.  Psalm 14:1 says,&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;"The fool&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt; says in his heart, 'There is no God.' They are corrupt, their deeds are vile; there is no one who does good."&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;~*~*~*~&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: right;"&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: left;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);font-size:180%;" &gt;In the Lord's Prayer&lt;/span&gt; (Matthew 6:10-14), Jesus says that &lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;God's Will&lt;/span&gt; is done &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;"in heaven  as it is on earth."&lt;/span&gt;   Here's the thing:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);font-size:180%;" &gt;In heaven,&lt;/span&gt; &lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;God's Will&lt;/span&gt; is done promptly,  perfectly, willingly and joyfully.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;On earth&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt; &lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102); font-weight: bold;font-size:180%;" &gt;→&lt;/span&gt; Not so much.  The  earth is full of human will -- a complete mess of conflicting wills even among  people.   &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;["There is no one who does good. . ."]&lt;/span&gt;  Add the &lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;Pe&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;rfect Will of God&lt;/span&gt;; and the whole theme of Scripture is embodied!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: left;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/TPSeX3JsjOI/AAAAAAAAEiM/qDYp_0oBAq4/s1600/jesus-cross-407x.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="float: right; margin: 0pt 0pt 10px 10px; cursor: pointer; width: 200px; height: 150px;" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/TPSeX3JsjOI/AAAAAAAAEiM/qDYp_0oBAq4/s200/jesus-cross-407x.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5545231173978721506" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;"But  he was pierced for our transgressions, he was crushed for our  iniquities; the punishment that brought us peace was on him, and by his  wounds we are healed.  We all, like sheep, have gone astray, each of us  has turned to our own way; and the LORD has laid on him the iniquity of  us all."&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt; &lt;div style="text-align: right;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 102, 102);font-size:85%;" &gt;~ Isaiah 53:5-6&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;C.S. Lewis certainly had a heavenly perspective when he penned those words. . .&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;em style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;"There are two kinds of people: those who say to God&lt;/em&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;, "&lt;/span&gt;&lt;em style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;Thy will be done&lt;/em&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;," &lt;/span&gt;&lt;em style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;and those to whom God says&lt;/em&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;, "&lt;/span&gt;&lt;em style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;All right, then&lt;/em&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;, &lt;/span&gt;&lt;em style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;have it your way&lt;/em&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;”.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: right; color: rgb(102, 102, 102);"&gt;But. . . Was Lewis referring to the two different kinds of God's Will?&lt;br /&gt;One specific kind of Will?&lt;br /&gt;Both?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: left;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;When we pray &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;"They will be done" we are saying first and foremost that God is Sovereign and that we submit to &lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;His Will&lt;/span&gt; [of Decree].   We relinquish our plans and ideas and allow His plan to be fulfilled. And . . .&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);font-size:180%;" &gt;Until we have surrendered&lt;/span&gt; our own will to &lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;God's Will &lt;/span&gt;[of Command], our will and behavior is centered on our self.  &lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;God's Will&lt;/span&gt; [of Command] challenges our self-righteousness, our lifestyle, and our personal values and desires.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;"Then I said, "Here I am, I have come -- it is written about me in the scroll.&lt;br /&gt;I desire to do &lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;"&gt;Your Will&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;, my God; your law is within my heart. . ."&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt; &lt;div style="text-align: right;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;~ Psalm 40:7-8&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;Unless&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt; &lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);font-size:180%;" &gt;we are recognizing&lt;/span&gt; that our will (i.e., our plans, our ideas, our desires, our behavior, our values, etc.) must be submissive to All of &lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;God's Will [of Decree &amp;amp; of Command]&lt;/span&gt;, then we are the one to whom God says:  "All right then -- have it your way."&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;We are the fool of Psalm 14. . . .&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;"Therefore God gave them up . . . "&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: right;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 102, 102);"&gt;~ Romans 1:24&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style=";font-family:&amp;quot;;font-size:10pt;"  &gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style=";font-family:&amp;quot;;font-size:12pt;"  &gt;&lt;/span&gt;  &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: right;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;~ Esthermay V. 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Because IT Changes Lives!</title><content type='html'>&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/TGBb00aH1jI/AAAAAAAAEWs/xFk8xYk1kow/s1600/manholdingbible.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="float: left; margin: 0pt 10px 10px 0pt; cursor: pointer; width: 198px; height: 200px;" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/TGBb00aH1jI/AAAAAAAAEWs/xFk8xYk1kow/s200/manholdingbible.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5503499707626280498" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;"T&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;he Gospel alone is sufficient to rule the lives of Christians everywhere. . . any additional ru&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;les made to govern men's conduct added nothing to the perfection already found in the Gospel of Jesus Christ."&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: right;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 102, 102);"&gt;~ John Wycliffe&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;The doctrine&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt; of Sufficiency of Scripture is hardly a 21st Century revelation to Bible-believing Christians. But remarkably, even for his day, John Wycliffe -- in 12th Century England -- regarded the Bible as a living and authoritative Book.  This indeed set him apart as not only a scholar, but a Bible-believing Christian.  Like many Christian conservatives of 2010, Wycliffe observed and commented on the many discrepancies between the standards set by Scripture and the practices of the church and governing bodies.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/TGCW0t-DRHI/AAAAAAAAEW0/_-Jln5UTZww/s1600/johnwycliffe.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="float: right; margin: 0pt 0pt 10px 10px; cursor: pointer; width: 161px; height: 200px;" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/TGCW0t-DRHI/AAAAAAAAEW0/_-Jln5UTZww/s200/johnwycliffe.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5503564577083966578" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;Despite the escalating tensions&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt; between King Edward III and the Roman Catholic Church which gave rise to much of Wycliffe's work, the quote could well have been written or voiced only yesterday for all its timely wisdom and significant application to our own generation's socio-political atmosphere and doctrinal disputes.  His words reflect timeless Truth.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: right;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 102, 102);"&gt;Why. . . ?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;It is an understatement&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt; to say that most evangelical churches in America function outside of the teachings for the New Testament Church.  It's also a given that many denominations put far more faith in a man-made doctrine than the Inerrant Word of God.  But it is a blaring and obvious &lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;fact&lt;/span&gt; that our United States' government employs little if anything that identifies with the Gospel of Jesus Christ by way of its &lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;"additional rules made to govern [our] conduct."&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;A strong movement exis&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;ts tod&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;ay&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;  to divorce America not only from its &lt;a href="http://www.wallbuilders.com/"&gt;Christian beginnings&lt;/a&gt;, but from the sufficiency of the Gospel of Redemption through Jesus Christ.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: right; color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 102, 102);"&gt;Why. . . ?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;This progressive trend&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt; is becoming less about  the debate between two opposing sides and more and more about defining and establishing the boundary between  what is true and what is false.  You either believe America is a &lt;a href="http://www.wallbuilders.com/"&gt;Christian nation&lt;/a&gt; which was founded upon the sufficiency of Scripture; or you don't.  It's black and white.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/TGCtD3gTphI/AAAAAAAAEXc/dXKb-4cfk3k/s1600/oneroomschoolhouse.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="float: left; margin: 0pt 10px 10px 0pt; cursor: pointer; width: 200px; height: 134px;" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/TGCtD3gTphI/AAAAAAAAEXc/dXKb-4cfk3k/s200/oneroomschoolhouse.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5503589026597414418" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;In the early public sch&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;ools&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt; of America, the BIBLE was one of the main textbooks -- if not the &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;only &lt;/span&gt;textbook.  Apparently, it was SUFFICIENT.  But on June 17, 1963, in Abington vs. Schempp, the United States Supreme Court removed the BIBLE and its readings from public education.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: right;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 102, 102);"&gt;Why. . . ?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Data from the Center for Disease Control and Department of Health and Human Resources and Human Services and Statistical/Abstracts of United States  PROVE that  rape, murder, alcohol abuse, robbery, suicide, gang warfare,  assault, absenteeism, pregnancies, burglary, vandalism, abortions,  arson, extortion, venereal disease, bombings, and drug abuse have  SKYROCKETED since 1963.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;Apparently&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt; . . . the  &lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;"additional rules made to govern [our] conduct"&lt;/span&gt; were not sufficient.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;Not surprisingly, &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;all of society including media, entertainment, criminal behavior, family trends, etc. (even the behaviors of those claiming to the "Christians") have followed the trend.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;There is no moral compass&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt; provided by the government or any other ruling body that is more sufficient that GOD's Word.  So, with the one and only moral compass provided to us as human beings removed by the "government,"  is it any wonder we are in the state we find ourselves? As Wycliffe said, &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;". . .any additional  rules made&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt; to govern men's conduct added nothing to the perfection  already found in the Gospel of Jesus Christ."&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: right;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 102, 102);"&gt;Why. . . ?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/TGCy2RinfXI/AAAAAAAAEXk/jLl_1cZHUDY/s1600/goingtohellandproud.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="float: right; margin: 0pt 0pt 10px 10px; cursor: pointer; width: 142px; height: 200px;" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/TGCy2RinfXI/AAAAAAAAEXk/jLl_1cZHUDY/s200/goingtohellandproud.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5503595390138023282" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;The willful rejection of the Bible&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt; as our source of divine authority is a direct cause of the current state of immorality in our country.  In the years that followed that devastating Supreme Court ruling -- and continuing to this day -- the Bible  and the Gospel of Jesus Christ continues to be persecuted, eliminated,  and otherwise rejected by both our government and society as a whole.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: right;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 102, 102);"&gt;Why. . . ?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;Progressives, Socialists, and atheists&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt; don't want Americans to know the  truth about our nation's Biblically based Christian heritage. They are strenuously trying to rewrite history to  match their propaganda and support their agenda. They are even more adamant about denying the Gospel of Jesus Christ.  They are attacking God's Word, its sufficiency, and its plan of Redemption from every angle including education, the political  arena and the legal system in an effort to change, reinvent and transform history to conform to  their radical beliefs.  In doing so they &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;will&lt;/span&gt; eventually destroy the very  foundation of America.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: right;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 102, 102);"&gt;Why. . . ?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;WHY? . . .What is it&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt; about the sufficiency of Scripture that has so many people set on a course to destroy that &lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;"perfection already found in the Gospel of Jesus Christ."&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;The doctrine o&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;f Sufficiency of Scripture&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt; is based primarily on &lt;a href="http://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=II%20Timothy%203:15-17&amp;amp;version=NIV"&gt;II Timothy 3:15-17&lt;/a&gt; and &lt;a href="http://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Jude%201:3&amp;amp;version=NIV"&gt;Jude 1:3&lt;/a&gt;.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center; color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/TGCY5S5aFqI/AAAAAAAAEW8/vQ0zGvkUJ6o/s1600/bible-page.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="float: left; margin: 0pt 10px 10px 0pt; cursor: pointer; width: 200px; height: 150px;" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/TGCY5S5aFqI/AAAAAAAAEW8/vQ0zGvkUJ6o/s200/bible-page.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5503566854739334818" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;The sacred writings . . . are able to &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;make you wise for salvation &lt;/span&gt;through faith in Christ Jesus.  All Scripture is breathed out by God and profitable for teaching, for reproof, for correction, and for training in righteousness, that the man of God may be competent, &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;equipped for every good work . . . &lt;/span&gt;Contend for the faith that was &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;once for all delivered to the saints. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 0, 0);"&gt;In other words the Bible is sufficient in that it is the only &lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic; color: rgb(102, 0, 0);"&gt;("once for all")&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 0, 0);"&gt; inspired  and therefore inerrant words of God that we need, in order to know the way of salvation and the way of obedience &lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic; color: rgb(102, 0, 0);"&gt;("equipped for every good work")&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 0, 0);"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;The sufficiency of Scripture does &lt;u&gt;not&lt;/u&gt; mean&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt; that the Bible is all we need to live obediently and function in society.  For example, in order to be obedient and lawfully drive a car, we need to obey traffic rules and observe state regulations for licensing. In order to be obedient and work in the realm of science, we need to read science and study God's creation.   In order to be obedient and function in the realm of economics we need to read and observe the world of business.  To be obedient and perform in the realm of sports, we need to know the rules of the game.  To be obedient in marriage, we need to know and understand our spouse's personality.  To be obedient and perform as a pilot, we need to know how to fly an airplane; etc, etc. etc. In other words, the Bible does not tell us all we need to know in order to be obedient stewards of this world.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: right; font-style: italic;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 0, 0);"&gt;It does tell us that Jesus is the way and the truth and the life and that no one comes to the Father except through CHRIST. (&lt;/span&gt;&lt;a style="color: rgb(102, 0, 0);" href="http://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=John+14%3A6&amp;amp;version=NIV"&gt;John 14:6&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 0, 0);"&gt;)&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);font-size:180%;" &gt;The sufficiency of Scripture means&lt;/span&gt; that we need NO further explanation or revelation from God or anyone in order to be competent and&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt; equipped for every good work&lt;/span&gt;.   We do not need a "Fundamental Transformation" of a nation already established in Christian principles.  We do not need to redefine marriage.  We do not need to redefine the family. We do not need to redistribute wealth.   We need NO further enlightenment. We need NO more inspired, inerrant words.  From anyone!!!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;God's Word is sufficient&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt; not only for the lives of Christians, but for all people. Through His Word, God has given us His plan of redemption along with the the absolute perfect standard for judging all other knowledge and all other philosophies.  Even when that knowledge helps support the Bible.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: right;"&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/TGCZerTeGGI/AAAAAAAAEXE/NV3quNtX-p8/s1600/Ant.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="float: right; margin: 0pt 0pt 10px 10px; cursor: pointer; width: 200px; height: 194px;" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/TGCZerTeGGI/AAAAAAAAEXE/NV3quNtX-p8/s200/Ant.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5503567496946260066" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;For example:&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;(John Piper explains this beautifully.)  The word "ant" occurs twice in the Bible.  Once in &lt;/span&gt;&lt;a style="font-style: italic;" href="http://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Proverbs%206:6&amp;amp;version=NIV"&gt;Proverbs 6:6&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt; and again in &lt;/span&gt;&lt;a style="font-style: italic;" href="http://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Proverbs%2030:25&amp;amp;version=NIV"&gt;Proverbs 30:25&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;.  Yet, the word "ant" is never defined in the Bible.  The Bible expects us to know what an ant is from another body of knowledge (language) along with our life experience.   But even if we misinterpret the verses to mean that ants actually teach us that laziness is profitable, Scripture again is the standard for testing our interpretation.  Numerous other passages in the Bible will prevent us from misinterpreting the meaning of the verses containing the word "ant" regardless of our ability or inability to know the word's definition.  The Bible is all-sufficient for judging and proving or disproving Itself and all other bodies of knowledge.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;"The Gospel alone is sufficient to rule the lives of Christians everywhere. . . any additional ru&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;les made to govern men's conduct added nothing to the perfection already found in the Gospel of Jesus Christ."&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: right;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 102, 102);"&gt;~ John Wycliffe&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;Christianity is entrenched&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt; in American culture.  The sufficiency of Scripture permeates our heritage. From the founding documents consistent mentioning of "Creator," to "In God We Trust" on our coinage, to politicians almost universally ending speeches with "God bless American," Christianity is such a part of America that the effort to remove it may likely result in the collapse of our nation.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;So what is it about this Perfect Gospel&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt; of Jesus Christ that makes all other rules to govern futile and utterly useless?  Why are so many progressives and socialists and atheists so intent on destroying it?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Here's why: John Wycliffe, like many scholars across the time-line of history knew this:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:200%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 0, 0);"&gt;GOD's Word Changes Lives!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 102, 102);"&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/TGC2kRNnv9I/AAAAAAAAEXs/_q3nA3sAJTo/s1600/ChristianNation.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="display: block; margin: 0px auto 10px; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 320px; height: 240px;" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/TGC2kRNnv9I/AAAAAAAAEXs/_q3nA3sAJTo/s320/ChristianNation.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5503599478858825682" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;"The reason  that Christianity is the best friend of Government is because&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;Christianity is the only religion that changes the heart."&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: right;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 102, 102);"&gt;~ President Thomas Jefferson&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Is it possible -- &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;just maybe &lt;/span&gt;-- that there is a force behind this movement that seeks to destroy our Christian heritage?  A force that does not want to see&lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 0, 0);"&gt; changed lives&lt;/span&gt;. . . ?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: right;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;~ Esthermay V. 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Because IT Changes Lives!'/><author><name>Esthermay Bentley-Goossen</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/17353385912611151311</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='32' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-rXkJTzkh05w/Twy4o_DKmAI/AAAAAAAAEms/F5ct_u5V6dY/s220/profile%2Bpicture.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/TGBb00aH1jI/AAAAAAAAEWs/xFk8xYk1kow/s72-c/manholdingbible.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>14</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17856112.post-1696762438847993342</id><published>2010-05-29T16:13:00.001-04:00</published><updated>2010-05-29T19:19:21.893-04:00</updated><title type='text'>In Honor of Memorial Day . . . And in Memory of Paul Martin Wehlan</title><content type='html'>&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/TACDft2XCAI/AAAAAAAAEG0/tvxEeBi30G0/s1600/unclepaul.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="display: block; margin: 0px auto 10px; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 400px; height: 326px;" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/TACDft2XCAI/AAAAAAAAEG0/tvxEeBi30G0/s400/unclepaul.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5476521727789303810" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center; color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;MEMORIAL DAY&lt;br /&gt;Remembering PAUL MARTIN WEHLAN&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;The memory of the righteous will be a blessing&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;~Proverbs 10:7&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;This is a rather famous photo taken during World War II in Sicily (1943). An Army medic is administering blood plasma to a soldier (Paul M. Wehlan) who later died as the result of his injuries.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The photo has been in the archives of the American Red Cross for decades. It appeared in the Chicago Tribune three days prior to the U.S. Army's official visit to my Grandparents' home to inform them of their son's death.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;My grandparents (and my mother -- then age 12) were convinced the moment they saw the photo in the newspaper that it was their Paulie. It wasn't until some fifty years later that my mother was able to establish for absolute certainty that the dying soldier was her brother.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;We discovered the photo on the Internet in 1993 and contacted the Red Cross. We were able to obtain the names of both the Army medic and the photographer. The medic confirmed that the soldier was indeed PAUL MARTIN WEHLAN. The photographer was deceased, but we spoke to his son.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;As I understand the further unfolding of this story, my uncle Paulie had written many  letters home explaining to his momma that he was ready to meet Jesus; and that he knew in his heart he would not be coming home again to his family.  These letter were -- of course -- received months after his death.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Following the war, a fellow-soldier contacted my grandparents to share with them that Paulie had taken &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;his&lt;/span&gt; place on the "front line." Paulie's selfless act had cost him his life.  The man whose place Paulie took that day -- June 28, 1943 -- was not a Christian.  He was not ready to meet Jesus.  My grandparents lost touch with the young man, but continued for years to pray for his salvation.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;THANK YOU, Uncle Paulie for giving your life for our GREAT COUNTRY -- and sparing the life of a friend who had not yet met the LORD. May we never forget the sacrifice of your generation and so many generations who have followed.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;font-size:130%;" &gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;font-size:130%;" &gt;Blessed is the nation whose God is the Lord.”&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;~Psalm 33:12&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/17856112-1696762438847993342?l=theheartofapastorswife.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://theheartofapastorswife.blogspot.com/feeds/1696762438847993342/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=17856112&amp;postID=1696762438847993342' title='8 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/17856112/posts/default/1696762438847993342'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/17856112/posts/default/1696762438847993342'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://theheartofapastorswife.blogspot.com/2010/05/in-honor-of-memorial-day-and-in-memory.html' title='In Honor of Memorial Day . . . &lt;br&gt;&lt;/br&gt;And in Memory of Paul Martin Wehlan'/><author><name>Esthermay Bentley-Goossen</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/17353385912611151311</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='32' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-rXkJTzkh05w/Twy4o_DKmAI/AAAAAAAAEms/F5ct_u5V6dY/s220/profile%2Bpicture.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/TACDft2XCAI/AAAAAAAAEG0/tvxEeBi30G0/s72-c/unclepaul.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>8</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17856112.post-7811168909782811776</id><published>2010-04-06T03:00:00.012-04:00</published><updated>2010-04-07T17:29:52.218-04:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Salvation'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='In Other Words'/><title type='text'>I Am the Wretch the Song Refers To. . .</title><content type='html'>&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/S7ri8otOf9I/AAAAAAAAD1E/HVo_wsr384I/s1600/churchpew2.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="float: left; margin: 0pt 10px 10px 0pt; cursor: pointer; width: 168px; height: 111px;" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/S7ri8otOf9I/AAAAAAAAD1E/HVo_wsr384I/s200/churchpew2.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5456923429859917778" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;"I&lt;/span&gt; &lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;am the wretch the song refers to."&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: right;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 102, 102);font-size:85%;" &gt;~Todd Friel&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;In the introduction&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt; to his book, “&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102); font-style: italic;"&gt;Hard to Believe – The High Cost and Infinite Value of Following Jesus&lt;/span&gt;,” John MacArthur writes, “The world is filled with millions of people who think they are headed for heaven – but they are deadly wrong.    . . .what is especially sad, is that many of those people sit in evangelical churches misinformed!”&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: right; color: rgb(102, 102, 102);"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;I agree with MacArthur.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;So what is&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt; the "misinformation?"&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The misinformation is nothing less that a complete misinterpretation of the Gospel.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;The message &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;of most Christian concerts, youth events, women’s conferences, men’s rallies, etc., and seeker-sensitive churches is &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;“Jesus lo&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;ves you!  Jesus will free you from all your pain!  Come to Jesus now!”&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;It’s a distorted message &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;and a message that advances the thought that being a Christian is easy and freeing and fun.  It’s called easy believe’ism, and it is anything but biblical!  And it only touches the very surface of True Gospel of Salvation.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/S7rjWygkRfI/AAAAAAAAD1M/GNDTmEa8PZM/s1600/woman_at_the_well.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="float: right; margin: 0pt 0pt 10px 10px; cursor: pointer; width: 200px; height: 161px;" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/S7rjWygkRfI/AAAAAAAAD1M/GNDTmEa8PZM/s200/woman_at_the_well.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5456923879167772146" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;Consider how J&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;esus&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt; approached personal evangelism when he walked on earth as a man.  Jesus did not say to people, “Pray this simple prayer” or “Just make a decision to follow Me.”&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 102, 102);"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: right;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 102, 102);"&gt;Not at all.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;Je&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;sus confronted peo&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;ple&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt; with the reality of their own sin.  (Consider, for example, the woman at the well in John Chapter 4.)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Those who “accepted” Jesus were truly convicted of their sin and they repented.  Those who refused Jesus rejected the fact that they were sinful.  Instead they boasted and bragged of their own righteousness.  (See, for example, the account of Jesus and the rich young ruler in Mark 10:17-22)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;Do you suppose&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt; if the rich young ruler in Mark Chapter 10 had simply been told to repeat a simple prayer of salvation, he would have done so? And would he have walked away counting himself as saved?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: right;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 102, 102);"&gt;Maybe. . .&lt;/span&gt; &lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 102, 102);"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;But&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 102, 102);"&gt; would he have really be saved?&lt;/span&gt; &lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 102, 102);"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Where&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 102, 102);"&gt; has our culture gone wrong that we think we can do this very thing?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I don’t think we can identify the exact point that we began drifting from the Truth, but . . .&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/S7rjy6APTvI/AAAAAAAAD1U/eupqd3Jx57E/s1600/selfesteem.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="float: left; margin: 0pt 10px 10px 0pt; cursor: pointer; width: 132px; height: 200px;" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/S7rjy6APTvI/AAAAAAAAD1U/eupqd3Jx57E/s200/selfesteem.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5456924362216001266" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;Robert Schuller&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt; made one of the most absurd and anti-Gospel statements ever in his 1982 book “&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102); font-style: italic;"&gt;Self Esteem: The New Reformation&lt;/span&gt;” when he wrote (on page 98), “Once a person believes he is an unworthy sinner, it is doubtful if he can really honestly accept the saving grace God offers in Jesus Christ.”&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 102, 102);"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: right;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 102, 102);"&gt;Absurd!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;. . . this is where the drifting went terribly bad.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;So . . . &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;(see if&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt; I understand this. . . )&lt;/span&gt; if you want to be saved according to this new reformation of self esteem, you cannot believe yourself to be an unworthy sinner?  And to follow the logic further, there really is no reason at all for Christ’s death on the Cross.  Right?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: right;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 102, 102);"&gt;Again: Absurd!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;. . . The very idea erases the entire story of redemption beginning in Genesis and culminating in Revelation!  To do away with the notion of sin, essentially eliminates the entire Bible!!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;II&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt; Timothy 3:2 &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;reminds us that “Dangerous times will come, for men will be lovers of themselves.”&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;It is indeed this new man-centered gospel of self-esteem that has hijacked the Gospel. And it is this gospel of self-esteem that has permeated the seeker-sensitive evangelical churches of today.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: right;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(153, 51, 0);"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;*&lt;/span&gt; And therein we find the “misinformation.”&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;Here’s the Truth:&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;  The Gospel of Salvation has as its bedrock the very idea of sinfulness and scripture confirms it repeatedly.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/S7rklRk4I5I/AAAAAAAAD1c/eOvSO42CqqM/s1600/wretch.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="float: right; margin: 0pt 0pt 10px 10px; cursor: pointer; width: 200px; height: 125px;" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/S7rklRk4I5I/AAAAAAAAD1c/eOvSO42CqqM/s200/wretch.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5456925227537146770" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;Bottom line:  I am a wretch.  I am the wretch the song refers to. You are a wretch.  Every human being to ever walk the earth is and was… a wretch.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;Amazing Grace!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt; &lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;H&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;ow&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt; sweet the sound,&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt; &lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;That saved a WRETCH like me. . .&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;Yet, to confront this&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt; by acknowledging sin in our culture today makes you a Bible-thumping Pharisaical fundamentalist&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt; [I mean that in a bad way.]&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Leaders of the self-esteem reformation look down on the True Gospel of Salvation, pointing out that we should not “judge” others, but instead tolerate and love each other.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: right;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 102, 102);"&gt;Wrong!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;We ca&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;nnot be saved&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt; without first acknowledging our own wretchedness before God; and we cannot share the Gospel of Salvation without first pointing out to others their wretchedness before God.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/S7rlDe1agkI/AAAAAAAAD1k/kX6hASeErnY/s1600/Bible.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="float: left; margin: 0pt 10px 10px 0pt; cursor: pointer; width: 200px; height: 150px;" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/S7rlDe1agkI/AAAAAAAAD1k/kX6hASeErnY/s200/Bible.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5456925746492244546" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;“For all have sinned and fallen short of the glory of God.”&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 102, 102);"&gt;~ Romans 3:23&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt; &lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;“If we say that we have no sin, we deceive ourselves, and the truth is not in us.”&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 102, 102);"&gt;~ I John 1:8&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt; &lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;“And when he [the Holy Spirit&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;] is come, he&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt; will convict the w&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;orld of sin…”&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 102, 102);"&gt;~ John 16:8&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;It has been said&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt; that repentance is the stuff saints are made of…&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;Isaiah &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;the Prophet said,&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;“Woe is me! For I am unclean; because I am a man of unclean lips…”&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 102, 102);font-size:85%;" &gt;~ Isaiah 6:5&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;Job&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt; said,&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;“I abhor myself, and repent in dust and ashes.”&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 102, 102);font-size:85%;" &gt;~ Job 42:6&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;Peter&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt; said,&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;“Depart from me, for I am a sinful man, O Lord.”&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 102, 102);font-size:85%;" &gt;~ Luke 5:8&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;The Apostle Paul&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt; said,&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;"What a wretched man I am!"&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 102, 102);font-size:85%;" &gt;~ Romans 7:24&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: right;"&gt;…you will also find the repentance of &lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102); font-weight: bold;"&gt;Daniel&lt;/span&gt; and &lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102); font-weight: bold;"&gt;Abraham&lt;/span&gt; in the Old Testament and &lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102); font-weight: bold;"&gt;John&lt;/span&gt; in the Book of Revelation. These saints recognized, acknowledged and professed their wretchedness before God and others.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;Lo&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/S7rwopDmG0I/AAAAAAAAD10/-PvcHRVWQ1U/s1600/self+esteem.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="float: right; margin: 0pt 0pt 10px 10px; cursor: pointer; width: 200px; height: 98px;" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/S7rwopDmG0I/AAAAAAAAD10/-PvcHRVWQ1U/s200/self+esteem.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5456938479519144770" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;ok n&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;ow &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;at some biblical examples of Schuller’s gospel of self-esteem:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;Cain&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt; did not see his wretchedness.  He saw instead his own righteousness in the fruits brought by his own hands to the altar.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;Saul&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt; – before his conversion – did not see his wretchedness.  He saw instead his own pedigree as a high ranking religious leader.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;The ri&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;ch young ruler&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt; did not see his wretchedness.  He saw instead his superior knowledge and achievements.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Hopefully, we can see here that the gap between the Gospel of Salvation and the gospel of self-esteem is gaping.  The consequence of each is eternal.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;“If anyone desires to come after Me, let him deny himself,&lt;br /&gt;and take up his cross daily, and follow me.”&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 102, 102);"&gt;~Luke 9:23&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;“If we confess our sins, He is faithful and just and will forgive&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt; us&lt;br /&gt;and cleanse us from all unrighteousness.”&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 102, 102);"&gt;~ I John 1:9&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/S7rww7OAI0I/AAAAAAAAD18/IRIEliCO3HA/s1600/cross.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="float: left; margin: 0pt 10px 10px 0pt; cursor: pointer; width: 150px; height: 200px;" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/S7rww7OAI0I/AAAAAAAAD18/IRIEliCO3HA/s200/cross.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5456938621833585474" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;Yes, Jesus loves you!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;  Jesus will free you from all your pain.  Come to Him. &lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102); font-weight: bold;"&gt;But. . .&lt;/span&gt; the Bible in full context shows us very clearly that until we recognize that we are indeed wretched sinners, we cannot appreciate the Cross and we cannot know His Grace.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;Amazing Grace!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;How sweet the sound,&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt; &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;That saved a WRETCH like me. . .&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: right;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(153, 51, 0);"&gt;I AM the wretch the song refers to. . . .&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: right;"&gt;Esthermay V. 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float: left; cursor: pointer; width: 200px; height: 150px;" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/S3CUi3kGQ5I/AAAAAAAADs0/OSpNcWf0VlI/s200/whatisthechurch.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5436008076988007314" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;“C&lt;/span&gt;hristian is a great noun and a poor adjective.”&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: right;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 102, 102);"&gt;–Rob Bell&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;Nearly thirty years ago,&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt; Robert Schuller wrote a book called &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;Self-Esteem: The New Reformation.  &lt;/span&gt;The book did indeed usher in a new "reformation"   -- a reformation of anti-biblical, anti-Christian thought that has permeated the culture and effectively turned out a great many Christians in our generation who are anything &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;bu&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;t &lt;/span&gt;a reflection of the very first Christians of the New Testament.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;So, can the same terminology used in the First Century to describe Christ-Followers be used today?  Has the meaning changed? Have Christians changed?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;Rob Bell's ministry &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;is the direct result of Mr. Schuller's "reformation" so you do have to wonder what he's really thinking; and how he defines the term &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;Christian.&lt;/span&gt;  But when Mr. Bell tells us that the word &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;"Christian is a great noun and a poor adjective," &lt;/span&gt;it's easy to agree with the last half of the statement.   The word "Christian is indeed a poor &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;adjective&lt;/span&gt; as used to describe the majority of mainline churches today.  Especially when you consider the message of the New Testament Church and compare it with the message of a great number of today's churches.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;But the word "Christian" is also an incredibly loosely used &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;noun&lt;/span&gt; ascribed to most churchgoers of our culture. . .  Thanks to Mr. Schuller's &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;New Reformation&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt; &lt;/span&gt;and the resulting &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;Seeker-Sensitive Movement.&lt;/span&gt;  Biblically and properly defined, however, &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;Christian is a great noun.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: right; color: rgb(102, 102, 102);"&gt;It really does depend on how you &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;&lt;u&gt;define&lt;/u&gt;&lt;/span&gt; "Christian."&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;Mr. Bell is a prominent leader&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt; in &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;The Seeker-&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;Sensitive Movement&lt;/span&gt;. Are you familiar with this term?  &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;Seeker-Sensitive Churches &lt;/span&gt;give their audience what they want -- what they "seek."  They "seek" relevant sermons and exciting programs that may or may not have anything to do with Biblical Christianity.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;Seeker &lt;/span&gt;churches rarely use expository preaching and seldom do they ever bring up &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;redemption, &lt;/span&gt;or &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;sin&lt;/span&gt;.   These are the recurring themes of the Bible, but they are not themes that people "seek."  The &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;Seeker Movement&lt;/span&gt; is a church "style" that dominates American churches; and it is anything but reflective of the New Testament Church.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: right; color: rgb(102, 102, 102);"&gt;I'm not sure what Mr. Bell is trying to tell us in his quote&lt;br /&gt;Because I'm not sure what he means by "Christian."&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/S3CfrqQuv4I/AAAAAAAADs8/IeE39h-6vPw/s1600-h/empty+bible.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0pt 0pt 10px 10px; float: right; cursor: pointer; width: 200px; height: 90px;" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/S3CfrqQuv4I/AAAAAAAADs8/IeE39h-6vPw/s200/empty+bible.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5436020322663841666" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;Christianity,&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt; in the hands of these &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;Seeker-Sensitive &lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;churches&lt;/span&gt; has diluted (and in many cases completely misrepresented) the divine message of Salvation as revealed in the Bible beginning in the Book of Genesis!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;Seeker Sensitive churches&lt;/span&gt; have replaced the Glory of God with the satisfaction of human beings.  They have neglected to teach -- or even understand -- the entire Story of Redemption which unfolds in every single page of the Bible.  They have effectively done away with the Word of GOD.  Except -- of course -- for it's soundbites:  those selected "feel-good," "Jesus-loves-you" verses taken out of context to give the audience what it wants to hear.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: right;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 102, 102);"&gt;. . . &lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 102, 102);"&gt;'cause who wants to hear the that we are sinners who deserve Hell?&lt;br /&gt;To be sure, the Book of Romans has been&lt;br /&gt;completely ripped out of the &lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic; color: rgb(102, 102, 102);"&gt;Seeker-Sensitive&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 102, 102);"&gt; Bible.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;John MacA&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;rthur calls &lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;the trend&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt; "quasi-Christian, narcissism" and it is vividly characteristic of the false teaching we are warned about in II Timothy 3 where we are reminded, "Dangerous times will come, for men will be lovers of themselves." (&lt;a href="http://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=II%20Timothy%203:1-2&amp;amp;version=NIV"&gt;II Timothy 3:1-2&lt;/a&gt;)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;And because so much of the &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;Seeker-Sensitive Movement&lt;/span&gt; has infiltrated our churches, the Church of 2010 bears little -- if any -- similarity to the New Testament Christian Church.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;In today's culture, the use, meaning and expression of the word &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;"Christian"&lt;/span&gt; is indeed a poor descriptive of a person who has been saved by grace through faith. (&lt;a href="http://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Ephesians%202:8&amp;amp;version=NIV"&gt;Ephesians 2:8&lt;/a&gt;)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;"Christian is . . . a poor adjective."&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: right; color: rgb(153, 153, 153);"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 102, 102);"&gt;Indeed!&lt;/span&gt; &lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 102, 102);"&gt;. . . so how did this all start?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/S3Df8RujgpI/AAAAAAAADt8/HxkGHlIyYyQ/s1600-h/selfesteem.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0pt 10px 10px 0pt; float: left; cursor: pointer; width: 132px; height: 200px;" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/S3Df8RujgpI/AAAAAAAADt8/HxkGHlIyYyQ/s200/selfesteem.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5436090976880001682" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;In his bestselli&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;ng book,&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt; Schuller aggressively attacks the Protestant Reformation which began when Martin Luther published &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;The Ninety-Five Theses&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt; &lt;/span&gt;in 1517.  Schuller writes: &lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51);"&gt;"It is precisely at this point that classical theology has erred in its insistence that theology be 'God-centered' and not 'man-centered.'"&lt;/span&gt; &lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 102, 102);font-size:78%;" &gt;(1)&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: right;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 102, 102);"&gt;Excuse me??  But. . . &lt;span style="color: rgb(153, 51, 0);"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(153, 51, 153);"&gt;*&lt;/span&gt;W&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(0, 102, 0);"&gt;h&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 102);"&gt;a&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 0, 0);"&gt;T&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(153, 51, 0);"&gt;!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(0, 102, 0);"&gt;!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 102);"&gt;?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 51, 0);"&gt;?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: left;"&gt;In an attempt to define this "man-centered theology," Schuller explains,&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51);"&gt; "This master plan of God is de&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51);"&gt;signed around the deepest needs of human beings -- self-dignity, self-respect, self-esteem." &lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:78%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 102, 102);"&gt;(2)&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: right; color: rgb(102, 102, 102);"&gt;Again: Huh??&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;He goes on. . . &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51);"&gt;"Success is to be defined as the gift of self-esteem that God gives us as a reward for our sacrificial service in building self-esteem in others.  Win or lose: If we follow God's plan as faithfully as we can, we will feel good about ourselves.  That is success!"&lt;/span&gt; &lt;span style="font-size:78%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 102, 102);"&gt;(3)&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: right; color: rgb(102, 102, 102);"&gt;So. . . Self Esteem trumps Salvation??!!&lt;br /&gt;Anything but Biblical, Mr. Schuller.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;"If anyone desires to come after Me, let him deny himself,&lt;br /&gt;and take up his cross daily, and follow Me."&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;~ Jesus&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;Schuller's not done.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt; Perhaps his most preposterous assertion comes when he writes, "Once a person believes he is an 'unworthy sinner,' it is doubtful if he can rally honestly accept the saving grace God offers in Jesus Christ."&lt;span style="font-size:78%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 102, 102);"&gt;(4)&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: right;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 102, 102);"&gt;Mr. Schuller, do you own a Bible?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 102, 102);"&gt;Have you read it?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;". . . for all have sinned and fall short of the Glory of God."&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center; color: rgb(102, 102, 102);"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;~ Romans 3:23&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/S3Cr6gQbf0I/AAAAAAAADtU/1JrrdPiiSOY/s1600-h/allaboutme.JPG"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0pt 0pt 10px 10px; float: right; cursor: pointer; width: 200px; height: 150px;" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/S3Cr6gQbf0I/AAAAAAAADtU/1JrrdPiiSOY/s200/allaboutme.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5436033771815796546" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;Sadly,&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt; this "man-centered theology" is precisely the theology that the &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;Seek&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;er-Sensitive Movement &lt;/span&gt;is teaching.  And it exists at some level in  the majority of mainline "Christian" churches today.  Christianity is no longer about Christ.  It's all about the &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;seeker.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: right; color: rgb(102, 102, 102);"&gt;What does the &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;seeker &lt;/span&gt;want?&lt;br /&gt;What does the &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;seeker &lt;/span&gt;think they need?&lt;br /&gt;What is truth according to the &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;seeker?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;And how does the &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;seeker &lt;/span&gt;feel about that?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;If you want to be saved,&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt; according to this new "gospel," you do not believe yourself to be a sinner.   You just "accept Christ" because "God is Love."   And -- more importantly -- you can't ever (ever!) tell anyone else that they are a sinner or even mention the word &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;hell&lt;/span&gt;!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: right; color: rgb(102, 102, 102);"&gt;How distorted that?!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;Any minister or teacher &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;who waters down the message of Salvation so that it is &lt;u&gt;less&lt;/u&gt; confrontational and &lt;u&gt;more&lt;/u&gt; popular, politically correct and appealing to the &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;seekers&lt;/span&gt;,  is doing one thing and one thing only: promoting a cheap imitation of the Christian life, and corrupting the use, meaning and expression of the word &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;CHRISTIAN.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: right; color: rgb(102, 102, 102);"&gt;Mr. Bell's quote is completely dependent on how you define the term &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;Christian&lt;/span&gt;.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;“C&lt;/span&gt;hristian is a great noun and a poor adjective.”&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;  &lt;div style="text-align: right;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 102, 102);"&gt;–Rob Bell&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;*~*~*~*~*&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: right; color: rgb(102, 102, 102);"&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/S3CzomW3aYI/AAAAAAAADts/myWtFt9z0DI/s1600-h/sataninchurch.JPG"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0pt 10px 10px 0pt; float: left; cursor: pointer; width: 200px; height: 144px;" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/S3CzomW3aYI/AAAAAAAADts/myWtFt9z0DI/s200/sataninchurch.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5436042260308781442" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt; &lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);font-size:100%;" &gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;"O&lt;/span&gt;ne of our great allies at present is the Church itself.&lt;br /&gt;Do not misunderstand me. I do not mean the Church&lt;br /&gt;as we see her spread out through all time and space&lt;br /&gt;and rooted in eternity, terrible as an army with banners.&lt;br /&gt;That, I confess, is a spectacle which makes&lt;br /&gt;our boldest tempters uneasy.&lt;br /&gt;But fortunately it is quite invisible to these humans."&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: right;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;~ Screwtape, &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;A senior devil, instruction a junior devil&lt;br /&gt;on how to tempt and trap humans.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;C.S. Lewis,&lt;/span&gt; The Screwtape Letters&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: right;"&gt;~ Esthermay V. Bentley-Goossen&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: right;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;© 2010 The Heart of a Pastor's Wife&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a class="a2a_dd" href="http://www.addtoany.com/share_save?linkname=The%20Heart%20of%20a%20Pastor%27s%20Wife%20--%20Christian.%20.%20.%20or%20Not%3F&amp;amp;linkurl=http%3A%2F%2Ftheheartofapastorswife.blogspot.com%2F2010%2F01%2Fchristian-or-not.html"&gt;&lt;img src="http://static.addtoany.com/buttons/share_save_171_16.png" alt="Share/Bookmark" width="171" border="0" height="16" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;script type="text/javascript"&gt;a2a_linkname="The Heart of a Pastor's Wife -- Christian. . . or Not?";a2a_linkurl="http://theheartofapastorswife.blogspot.com/2010/01/christian-or-not.html";&lt;/script&gt;&lt;script type="text/javascript" src="http://static.addtoany.com/menu/page.js"&gt;&lt;/script&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://www.facebook.com/photo.php?pid=3191372&amp;amp;id=92465456191#/pages/Esthermay-Bentley-GoossenWriter-Counselor/54555841235"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0pt 0pt 10px 10px; float: right; cursor: pointer; width: 125px; height: 19px;" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/S1aJ6vqQgAI/AAAAAAAADmU/IluEJkfuhPc/s200/followmeonfacebook.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5428678043160838146" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;NOTES:&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:78%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 102, 102);"&gt;(1)&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt; &lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;Robert Schuller, Self-Esteem: The New Reformation (Waco, Tex.: Word Publishing, 1982), 64.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:78%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 102, 102);"&gt;(2)&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt; &lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;Ibid., 71.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:78%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 102, 102);"&gt;(3) &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;Ibid., 76.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:78%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 102, 102);"&gt;(4) &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;Ibid., 98.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;* * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * *&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt; * * * * * * * &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: left;"&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://www.facebook.com/home.php#/group.php?gid=52290975388"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0pt 10px 10px 0pt; float: left; cursor: pointer; width: 70px; height: 95px;" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/Sootcfh-rNI/AAAAAAAAC8E/zECpcB6Vr2Q/s200/InOtherWords.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5371155473116343506" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:100%;"&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: left;"&gt;This installment of InOtherWords is hosted by &lt;a href="http://tamiboesiger.blogspot.com/"&gt;Tami&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="text-decoration: underline;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;on her blog, &lt;a href="http://tamiboesiger.blogspot.com/"&gt;The Next Step&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.heartchoices.com/"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/17856112-754183762457853621?l=theheartofapastorswife.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://theheartofapastorswife.blogspot.com/feeds/754183762457853621/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=17856112&amp;postID=754183762457853621' title='31 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/17856112/posts/default/754183762457853621'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/17856112/posts/default/754183762457853621'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://theheartofapastorswife.blogspot.com/2010/01/christian-or-not.html' title='Christian . . . or Not?'/><author><name>Esthermay Bentley-Goossen</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/17353385912611151311</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='32' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-rXkJTzkh05w/Twy4o_DKmAI/AAAAAAAAEms/F5ct_u5V6dY/s220/profile%2Bpicture.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/S3CUi3kGQ5I/AAAAAAAADs0/OSpNcWf0VlI/s72-c/whatisthechurch.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>31</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17856112.post-6373947059532926553</id><published>2010-01-26T00:15:00.032-05:00</published><updated>2010-01-26T16:47:15.530-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='division'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='In Other Words'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Matthew 10'/><title type='text'>Christians Will Have Enemies - No Doubt . . .</title><content type='html'>&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/S14xyZNp6EI/AAAAAAAADok/WMck5RGxvms/s1600-h/sword1.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0pt 10px 10px 0pt; float: left; cursor: pointer; width: 200px; height: 148px;" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/S14xyZNp6EI/AAAAAAAADok/WMck5RGxvms/s200/sword1.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5430832942486775874" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span&gt;"D&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;o not suppose that I have come&lt;br /&gt;to bring peace to the earth.&lt;br /&gt;I did not come to bring peace,&lt;br /&gt;but a sword."&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: right;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 102, 102);font-size:85%;" &gt;~ Matthew 10:34&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Taken all by itself&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt; and completely out of context, Matthew 10:34 surely implies that Jesus' mission on earth was one of violence -- that He was most certainly &lt;u&gt;not&lt;/u&gt; a &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;peacekeeper &lt;/span&gt;as so much theology likes to underscore.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;In fact&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt; most of &lt;a href="http://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Matthew%2010&amp;amp;version=NIV"&gt;Matthew Chapter 10&lt;/a&gt;, finds Jesus proclaiming something seemingly and directly contrary to the message the angels proclaimed at His birth:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center; font-style: italic; color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;“Glory to God in the highest, and on earth peace, goodwill to men.”&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: right; color: rgb(102, 102, 102);"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;~ Luke 2:14&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;So were those angels misinformed?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;  And what about Jesus' own words elsewhere in Scripture where He seems to agree with the angels and contradict Himself?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center; font-style: italic;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;"Peace I leave with you, my peace I give unto you: not as the world &lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;gives, give I unto you.&lt;br /&gt;Let not your heart be troubl&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;ed, neither let it be afraid"&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: right; color: rgb(102, 102, 102);"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;~ John 14:27&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: right; color: rgb(102, 102, 102);"&gt;. . . No sword here.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: left;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;Confused?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/S152TYWnNYI/AAAAAAAADo0/4-Xpt0TZ36E/s1600-h/JesusTeaching.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0pt 0pt 10px 10px; float: right; cursor: pointer; width: 200px; height: 122px;" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/S152TYWnNYI/AAAAAAAADo0/4-Xpt0TZ36E/s200/JesusTeaching.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5430908275982284162" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;Remember the Book of Matthew was written to all of us, but in terms of a specific audience, the Book is addressed to the Jewish people of Jesus' day.  The Jewish people were expecting a Messiah who &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;would &lt;/span&gt;wage war.  The use of the word &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;sword&lt;/span&gt; certainly fits with the image of war.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: right;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic; color: rgb(102, 102, 102);"&gt;Cont&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic; color: rgb(102, 102, 102);"&gt;ext is everything.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;But it goes further&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt; than the context of speaking to a Jewish audience.  Look at the verses immediately following this idea of &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;"a sword"&lt;/span&gt;   where Jesus quotes a passage from Micah 7:6 having to do with mistrust and betrayal within families:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;"For I have come to turn &lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;'a man against his father, a daughter against her mother, a daughter-in-law against h&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;er mother-in-law - a man's enemies will be the members of his own household.'"&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: right; color: rgb(102, 102, 102);"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;~ Matthew 10:35-36&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Sounds very much like a passage earlier in the same Chapter:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center; color: rgb(51, 102, 102); font-style: italic;"&gt;"Brother will betray brother to death, and a father his child;&lt;br /&gt;children will rebel against their parents and have them put to death."&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: right; color: rgb(102, 102, 102);"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;~ Matthew 10:21&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;It seems then&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt; that the &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;"sword"&lt;/span&gt; that Jesus came to bring is symbolic of the division that will occur within families and friends (and even bodies of &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;apparent&lt;/span&gt; believers) as a result of His ministry.    So the use of the word &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;"sword"&lt;/span&gt; is typical of Jesus' figurative way of speaking. He used a sharply definitive word to convey a very disturbing reality.&lt;div style="text-align: right; color: rgb(102, 102, 102);"&gt;The reality being:  &lt;u&gt;Christians &lt;span style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;"&gt;will&lt;/span&gt; have enemies.&lt;/u&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Look at the parallel verse in the Gospel of Luke:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center; color: rgb(51, 102, 102); font-style: italic;"&gt;"Do you think I came to bring peace on earth? No, I tell you, but division."&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: right;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 102, 102);"&gt;~ Luke 12:51&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: right;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 102, 102);"&gt;See how Luke changes the metaphor into a factual statement?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;Throughout Scripture&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt; we are confronted with the reality that Christians &lt;u&gt;will&lt;/u&gt; have enemies.  There will be division. Jesus Himself caused much division and had many enemies. &lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 102, 102); font-style: italic;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: right;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 102, 102); font-style: italic;"&gt;(There's an understatement!)&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: right;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;►&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt; &lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/S16Q9tDAcaI/AAAAAAAADo8/wrgjWVQVQ5g/s1600-h/Judas.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0pt 10px 10px 0pt; float: left; cursor: pointer; width: 144px; height: 200px;" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/S16Q9tDAcaI/AAAAAAAADo8/wrgjWVQVQ5g/s200/Judas.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5430937590394024354" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;Isaiah prophesied that Jesus would be despised and rejected by men some 700 years before His birth.  Clearly the division was foreseen. (&lt;a href="http://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=isaiah%2053:3&amp;amp;version=NIV"&gt;Isaiah 53:3&lt;/a&gt;)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;►&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt; While blessing Jesus as a very small child, Simeon prophesied that His life would indeed act as a &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;"sword"&lt;/span&gt; and bring division in Israel. Clearly the division was forseen. (&lt;a href="http://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Luke%202:33-35&amp;amp;version=NIV"&gt;Luke 2:33-35&lt;/a&gt;)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;►&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt; Judas -- one of the Twelve Disciples -- betrayed Jesus.  Clearly there was division between Jesus and one of His own followers.&lt;br /&gt;(&lt;a href="http://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Mark%2014:10-11&amp;amp;version=NIV"&gt;Mark 14:10-11&lt;/a&gt;)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;►&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt; The Apostle Paul instructed believers that if an unbelieving spouse chooses to leave, that we should &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;"let them leave."&lt;/span&gt; Clearly being a believer can cause division in a marriage.  (&lt;a href="http://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=I%20Cor%207:15&amp;amp;version=NIV"&gt;I Corinthians 7:15&lt;/a&gt;)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;►&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt; In the Apostle Paul's closing words to Timothy, he warns about a man named Demas who deserted him.  Paul also mentions Alexander the copper-smith, a man who opposed the message of the Gospel and did great harm to Paul.  Clearly there was division between Paul and those who knew him.&lt;br /&gt;(&lt;a href="http://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=2%20Timothy%204:9-18&amp;amp;version=NIV"&gt;II Timothy 4:9-18&lt;/a&gt;)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;►&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/S16RNcboUuI/AAAAAAAADpE/tcjvjTPvTgU/s1600-h/ananias.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0pt 0pt 10px 10px; float: right; cursor: pointer; width: 200px; height: 122px;" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/S16RNcboUuI/AAAAAAAADpE/tcjvjTPvTgU/s200/ananias.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5430937860811805410" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt; In Acts Chapter 5, Peter exposes the lies and piousness of Ananias and Sapphira.   Clearly there was even great division in the body of Christians known as the &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;Church&lt;/span&gt;.  (&lt;a href="http://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Acts%205&amp;amp;version=NIV"&gt;Acts 5&lt;/a&gt;)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;It becomes clear&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt; as we read the New Testament that Jesus considered it a given that the world would despise Him and his Church.  He says, &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;"The world . . . hates Me because I testify of it that its works are evil"&lt;/span&gt; (&lt;a href="http://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=John%207:7&amp;amp;version=NIV"&gt;John 7:7&lt;/a&gt;).&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;In other words,&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt; the world's contempt for Jesus, His Church and His followers stems not from simple differences, but from a huge chasm -- a chasm created by a refusal to accept that human ways &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;(human thought, human behavior, human philosophies. . . )&lt;/span&gt; are  evil.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center; color: rgb(51, 102, 102); font-style: italic;"&gt;"This is the verdict: Light has come into the world, but men loved the darkness instead&lt;br /&gt;of light because their deeds were evil.  Everyone who does evil hates the light, and will&lt;br /&gt;not come into the light for fear that his deeds will be exposed."&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: right; color: rgb(102, 102, 102);"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;~ John 3:19-20&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: right; color: rgb(102, 102, 102);"&gt;Christian Truth will &lt;u&gt;never&lt;/u&gt; be popular with the world.  It will &lt;u&gt;always divide.&lt;/u&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;Yes. . .  Jesus brought &lt;/span&gt;&lt;a style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/S16bA56YUbI/AAAAAAAADpM/7UkFGOttTGU/s1600-h/sword2.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0pt 10px 10px 0pt; float: left; cursor: pointer; width: 200px; height: 173px;" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/S16bA56YUbI/AAAAAAAADpM/7UkFGOttTGU/s200/sword2.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5430948640503386546" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;peace&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt; to earth. But that peace comes as an inner peace that is available only to those who put their full faith in Him as their Savior.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Otherwise. . . His presence and His message only bring conflict.  No accurate reading of Scripture can conclude anything different.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The coming of Christ did not bring the peace the Jews had hoped for.  Instead it brought even greater conflict because the presence of Truth causes those who deny it to become even more enraged and evil.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;Wishing and hoping &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;for world peace is a ridiculous, hopeless and pointless task.  Sin &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;is  &lt;/span&gt;the dominant force on this earth.  The Bible tells us so.  Scripturally speaking, &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;"Peace on Earth"&lt;/span&gt; is reserved &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;only &lt;/span&gt;for those who surrender to Him and live according to His will.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;The Christian &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;will make enemies.  No doubt.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;". . . but if to do the right, and to believe the true,&lt;br /&gt;should cause him to lose every earthly friend,&lt;br /&gt;he will count it but a small loss,&lt;br /&gt;since his great Friend in heaven will be yet more friendly,&lt;br /&gt;and reveal Himself to him more graciously than ever. . . .  &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;"Better a brief warfare and eternal rest, than false peace and everlasting torment."&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: right; color: rgb(102, 102, 102);"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;~Charles H. Spurgeon&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: right;"&gt;~ Esthermay V. 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Thoughts for Sanctity of Human Life Sunday...</title><content type='html'>&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/S1tlxGY-AcI/AAAAAAAADmc/yxFfxqEHJn4/s1600-h/Precious+Little+One.JPG"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0pt 10px 10px 0pt; float: left; cursor: pointer; width: 200px; height: 126px;" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/S1tlxGY-AcI/AAAAAAAADmc/yxFfxqEHJn4/s200/Precious+Little+One.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5430045669928600002" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);font-size:130%;" &gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;I&lt;/span&gt;f you were born after 1972, consider yourself a Survivor of the Abortion Holocaust. ONE-THIRD of your generation has been killed by abortion in the United States of America.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center; color: rgb(102, 102, 102);"&gt;~ ~ ~ ~ ~&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/S1t3oXVuhVI/AAAAAAAADnc/9I-Ukyi1IFM/s1600-h/FiveMonths.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0pt 0pt 10px 10px; float: right; cursor: pointer; width: 133px; height: 200px;" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/S1t3oXVuhVI/AAAAAAAADnc/9I-Ukyi1IFM/s200/FiveMonths.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5430065311068882258" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic; color: rgb(51, 102, 102);font-size:130%;" &gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;"Y&lt;/span&gt;ou created my inmost being;&lt;br /&gt;you knit me together in my mother's womb.&lt;br /&gt;I praise you because I am fearfully and&lt;br /&gt;wonderfully made; your works are wonderful,&lt;br /&gt;I know that full well."&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: right;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 102, 102);font-size:85%;" &gt;~Psalm 139:13-14&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 102, 102);"&gt;~ ~ ~ ~ ~&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: right;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);font-size:130%;" &gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/S1t3uyLphqI/AAAAAAAADnk/QTktdJv1zUE/s1600-h/abortionmurder.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0pt 10px 10px 0pt; float: left; cursor: pointer; width: 200px; height: 136px;" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/S1t3uyLphqI/AAAAAAAADnk/QTktdJv1zUE/s200/abortionmurder.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5430065421353584290" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);font-size:130%;" &gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;"T&lt;/span&gt;hen said He unto the disciples,&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);font-size:130%;" &gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt; 'It is impossible but that offenses will come: but woe unto him, through whom they &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);font-size:130%;" &gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;come! It were better for him that a &lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 51, 0); font-weight: bold;"&gt;&lt;u&gt;millstone&lt;/u&gt;&lt;/span&gt; were hanged about his neck, and he cast into the sea, than than he should offend one of these little ones.'"&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 102, 102);font-size:85%;" &gt;~Luke 17:1-2&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 102, 102);"&gt;~ ~ ~ ~ ~&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/S1tnVydITiI/AAAAAAAADm0/QStcIBE04Lo/s1600-h/Baby+Rowan.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0pt 0pt 10px 10px; float: right; cursor: pointer; width: 200px; height: 133px;" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/S1tnVydITiI/AAAAAAAADm0/QStcIBE04Lo/s200/Baby+Rowan.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5430047399744130594" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;"If they [my daughters] make a mistake, I don't want them punished with a baby."&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: right;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 102, 102);font-size:85%;" &gt;~ The President of the United States&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;"The first thing I'd do as President is sign the Freedom of Choice Act.  That's the first thing I'd do."&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: right;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 102, 102);"&gt;~A Politician running for President of the &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 102, 102);"&gt;United States&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 102, 102);"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;~ ~ ~ ~ ~&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/S1tuOzJ59gI/AAAAAAAADnM/IIWv3ptcnW0/s1600-h/Proverbs.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0pt 10px 10px 0pt; float: left; cursor: pointer; width: 200px; height: 115px;" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/S1tuOzJ59gI/AAAAAAAADnM/IIWv3ptcnW0/s200/Proverbs.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5430054976254244354" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;"G&lt;/span&gt;ood leaders abhor wrongdoing of all kinds: sound leadership has a moral foundation."&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: right;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 102, 102);"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;~Proverbs 16:12&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 102, 102);"&gt;~ ~ ~ ~ ~&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Who wears the &lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 51, 0); font-weight: bold;"&gt;&lt;u&gt;millstone?&lt;/u&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/S1tuYkh3agI/AAAAAAAADnU/CWrZ1A9aXME/s1600-h/deadinfants.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0pt 0pt 10px 10px; float: right; cursor: pointer; width: 200px; height: 132px;" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/S1tuYkh3agI/AAAAAAAADnU/CWrZ1A9aXME/s200/deadinfants.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5430055144126900738" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: right;"&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: right;"&gt;The abortionist?&lt;br /&gt;The mother who chooses it?&lt;br /&gt;The citizens who support it?&lt;br /&gt;The politicians who fight for it?&lt;br /&gt;The electorate who vote for them?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;The citizens who look the other way?. . .&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;&lt;u&gt;Who wears the &lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 51, 51); font-weight: bold;"&gt;millstone?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/u&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: right;"&gt;&lt;a class="a2a_dd" href="http://www.addtoany.com/share_save?linkname=Who%20Wears%20the%20Millstone%3F%20Thoughts%20for%20Sanctity%20of%20Human%20Life%20Sunday%20...&amp;amp;linkurl=http%3A%2F%2Ftheheartofapastorswife.blogspot.com%2F2010%2F01%2Fwho-wears-millstone-thoughts-for.html"&gt;&lt;img src="http://static.addtoany.com/buttons/share_save_171_16.png" alt="Share/Bookmark" width="171" border="0" height="16" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;script type="text/javascript"&gt;a2a_linkname="Who Wears the Millstone? 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Here's what God says:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;The wrath of God is being revealed from heaven against all the godlessness and wickedness of men who s&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;uppress the truth by their wickedness&lt;/span&gt;. . .&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: right;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 102, 102);"&gt;~Romans 1:18&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;Does disaster come to a city, unless the Lord has done it?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: right; color: rgb(102, 102, 102);"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;~Amos 3:6&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;Pat Robertson is wrong&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt; when he claims to know why the Haitian earthquake happened.  Deuteronomy 29:29 says,&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;The secret things belong to the LORD our God, but the things revealed belong to us and to our children forever, that w&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;e may follow all the words of th&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;is law.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;Christian Apologi&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;st &lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;Malcolm&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt; Muggeridge&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt; does offer up some wisdom, however, when he says,&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center; font-style: italic;"&gt;Every happening, great or small, is a parable whereby God speaks to us,&lt;br /&gt;and the art of life is to get the message.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;So what's the message?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;  Is there a message in an earthquake?  Is there a message in any natural disaster?  And if the art of life is to "get the message," how do we go about deciphering that message?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;Much bad theol&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;ogy&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt; inevitably surfaces when Christians confront human suffering and look for answers.  However, as John Piper writes, "&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;Wimpy worldviews make wimpy Christians.  And wimpy Christians won't survive the days ahead.&lt;/span&gt;"  It's the wimpy Christians who will question human suffering and remain confused and bewildered, asking "Why?"&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;If we have a solid biblical worldview, we will understand the message in a catastrophe like the recent earthquake in Haiti, for it is indeed found in God's Word . . .&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;Let's look at the principle players&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt; involved in the unfolding of a natural disaster as outlined in Scripture so we can "get the message."&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;. . . We've got GOD, Satan and -- of course -- Human Beings.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div id="text_expose_id_4b5544e2c34412a6c2354" class="comment_actual_text text_exposed"&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;font-size:180%;" &gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;&lt;u&gt;GOD&lt;/u&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/S1Yr-GFMAjI/AAAAAAAADls/FPUIraz8_AA/s1600-h/haitiearthquake2.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0pt 0pt 10px 10px; float: right; cursor: pointer; width: 200px; height: 124px;" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/S1Yr-GFMAjI/AAAAAAAADls/FPUIraz8_AA/s200/haitiearthquake2.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5428574746625966642" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;In His design for the world, God allows many events to run their course according to "time and chance" (see &lt;a href="http://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Ecclesiastes%209:11&amp;amp;version=NIV"&gt;Ecclesiastes 9:11&lt;/a&gt;) and so -- for those affected --these many tragedies are seen as accidental and unforeseeable.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;God has also told us in His Word that natural disasters would grow in frequency and intensity as the end of the age approaches.  This is to happen so that people will be shaken out of their complacency and lead them to seek Him.  (See &lt;a href="http://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Matthew%2024:7&amp;amp;version=NIV"&gt;Matthew 24:7&lt;/a&gt;; &lt;a href="http://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Luke%2021:25-26&amp;amp;version=NIV"&gt;Luke 21:25-26&lt;/a&gt;; &lt;a href="http://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Revelation%206:12&amp;amp;version=NIV"&gt;Revelation 6:12&lt;/a&gt;, &lt;a href="http://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Revelation%2011:13&amp;amp;version=NIV"&gt;11:13&lt;/a&gt;, and &lt;a href="http://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Revelation%2016:18&amp;amp;version=NIV"&gt;16:18&lt;/a&gt;.)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;Even so, &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;as Christians, we are given these verses of comfort:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;Therefore, there&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt; is now no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: right;"&gt; &lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 102, 102);"&gt;~ Romans 8:1&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;God is our refuge and strength, an ever-present help in troubl&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;e. Therefore we will not fear, though the earth give way and the mountains fall into the heart of the sea, though its waters roar and foam and the mountains quake with their surging. &lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 102, 102);font-size:85%;" &gt;Selah&lt;/span&gt;. There is a river whose streams make glad the city of God, the holy place where the Most High dwells. God is within her, she will not fall; God will help her at break of day. Nations are in uproar, kingdoms fall; he lifts his voice, the earth melts. The LORD Almighty is with us; the God of Jacob is our fortress. &lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 102, 102);font-size:85%;" &gt;Selah&lt;/span&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: right; color: rgb(102, 102, 102);"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;~ Psalm 46:1-7&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt; &lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;Ultimate&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;ly,&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt; God controls everything either directly or indirectly by restraining His grace or allowing Satan a little longer leash.  Either way, God is sovereign over everything and happily accepts responsibility for both "human suffering" &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;and&lt;/span&gt; "blessings."&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;I form the light and create darkness, I bring prosperity and create disaster;&lt;br /&gt;I, the LORD, do all these things.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: right;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 102, 102);font-size:85%;" &gt;~Isaiah 45:7&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;font-size:180%;" &gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;&lt;u&gt;Satan&lt;/u&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Eph%202:2&amp;amp;version=NIV"&gt;Ephesians 2:2&lt;/a&gt; does tell us that Satan is the ruler of the kingdom of the air and that his spirit is at work in those who are disobedient.  We should never underestimate the power of Satan.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;He does indeed rule in the hearts of many including some world leaders.  It could be -- and has been -- argued that Satan therefore controls the nations.  This would be a stretch!  Satan does prowl about like a lion. . .  but &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;nowhere&lt;/span&gt; in God's Word can we construe that Satan has control of nations or natural disasters.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Satan does &lt;span&gt;&lt;u&gt;not&lt;/u&gt; control the weather or rule the nations.  God alone is Sovereign.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;font-size:180%;" &gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;&lt;u&gt;Human Beings&lt;/u&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: left;"&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/S1YvywzVBYI/AAAAAAAADmE/QK2hb7U2Oys/s1600-h/haitiearthquake4.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0pt 10px 10px 0pt; float: left; cursor: pointer; width: 200px; height: 124px;" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/S1YvywzVBYI/AAAAAAAADmE/QK2hb7U2Oys/s200/haitiearthquake4.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5428578949981865346" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span&gt;There are only two groups of people on earth: pagans and Christians.  Perhaps a over simplification?  Yes.  &lt;span style="font-style: italic; color: rgb(102, 102, 102);"&gt;(i.e., natural man, carnal man, spiritual man. . .) &lt;/span&gt; But for purposes of this discussion, Scripture is clear when it comes to human suffering:&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;He causes his sun to rise on the evil and the good, and sends rain on&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt; the righteous and the unrighteous.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: right;"&gt;&lt;span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 102, 102);"&gt;~Matthew 5:45&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: right;"&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: left;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;Jesus g&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;ave us&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt; a very definitive statement on human suffering by way of catastrophes in Luke 13:1-5:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;Now there were some present at that time who told Jesus about the Galileans&lt;br /&gt;whose blood Pilate had mixed with their sacrifices.  Jesus answered, "Do you think that&lt;br /&gt;these Galileans were worse sinners than all the other Galileans bec&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;ause they&lt;br /&gt;suffered this way?  I tell you, No!  But unless you repent, you too will all perish.&lt;br /&gt;Or those eighteen who died when the tower in Siloam fell on them --&lt;br /&gt;do you think they were more guilty than all the others living in Jerusalem?&lt;br /&gt;I tell you No!  But unless you repent, you too will all perish.&lt;/span&gt;"&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: left;"&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/S1YsHqhThmI/AAAAAAAADl8/LrlBa9u6BSs/s1600-h/haitiearthquake3.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0pt 0pt 10px 10px; float: right; cursor: pointer; width: 200px; height: 124px;" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/S1YsHqhThmI/AAAAAAAADl8/LrlBa9u6BSs/s200/haitiearthquake3.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5428574911026398818" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;Both believers and non-believers&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt; are affected when God sends or allows a disaster.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;When God sends or allows disaster to non-believers, it could be for one of two reasons:  either as judgment or as a call to repentance.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Clearly a natural disaster such as an earthquake does not come close to the eternal punishment of hell, but it is a &lt;span style="font-style: italic; color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;taste&lt;/span&gt; of God's wrath.  How a non-believer responds to a disaster is far more important than the reality of the disaster in-and-of itself.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;When God sends or allows disaster to believers, He does so -- again -- for one of two reasons:  to prune/refine us or to take us home to heaven!  Christians are never victims of collateral damage and we should never think such.  While there may or may not be a primary reason God sends or allows a disaster &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;(Remember:  God is GOD!)&lt;/span&gt;, He always orchestrates every single detail.  As Christian onlookers to disaster, we can respond in one of two ways:  apathy or kindness.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;When God sends or allows disaster -- or judgment -- to come to an entire nation, each individual involved needs to determine why God caused or allowed him/herself to be harmed.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;font-size:180%;" &gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;&lt;u&gt;Bottomline&lt;/u&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/S1Y20niFcVI/AAAAAAAADmM/V34J-IjevfU/s1600-h/crosspeople.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0pt 10px 10px 0pt; float: left; cursor: pointer; width: 200px; height: 140px;" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/S1Y20niFcVI/AAAAAAAADmM/V34J-IjevfU/s200/crosspeople.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5428586678434754898" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;God gets the credit for the earthquake. Yet he is not to "blame" since God is never to "blame" for anything.  He is sovereign and always does the exact right thing at precisely the correct time.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;God sends a taste of His wrath to non-believers that they might look to the Cross and find Salvation.  God prunes and refines Christians that we will live in greater gratitude for what Jesus did to rescue us from eternal destruction.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;As Christians, we should use the tragedy of the recent earthquake in Haiti as a reminder of the brevity of life and the equality of death as it happens on this earth.  More importantly, we should use it as a springboard in sharing the ultimate solution to this world's problems.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;God seeks to glorify His Son&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt; in all He does.  Including catastrophes.  Catastrophes -- like everything else in life -- are about finding our way to the Cross of Jesus Christ!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;~ Esthermay V. 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height: 95px;" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/Sootcfh-rNI/AAAAAAAAC8E/zECpcB6Vr2Q/s200/InOtherWords.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5371155473116343506" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:100%;"&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: left;"&gt;This installment of InOtherWords is hosted by &lt;a href="http://www.expectanthearts.blogspot.com/"&gt;Kathryn&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;on her blog, &lt;a href="http://www.expectanthearts.blogspot.com/"&gt;Expectant Hearts&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.heartchoices.com/"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/17856112-7221953816803617929?l=theheartofapastorswife.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://theheartofapastorswife.blogspot.com/feeds/7221953816803617929/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=17856112&amp;postID=7221953816803617929' title='27 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/17856112/posts/default/7221953816803617929'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/17856112/posts/default/7221953816803617929'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://theheartofapastorswife.blogspot.com/2010/01/message-of-earthquake-points-to-cross.html' title='The Message of the Earthquake --&lt;br&gt;&lt;/br&gt;Ultimately Points to the Cross. . .'/><author><name>Esthermay Bentley-Goossen</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/17353385912611151311</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='32' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-rXkJTzkh05w/Twy4o_DKmAI/AAAAAAAAEms/F5ct_u5V6dY/s220/profile%2Bpicture.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/S1Yr53cjlCI/AAAAAAAADlk/4gP4lUNy4mg/s72-c/haitiearthquake.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>27</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17856112.post-2964575512746702108</id><published>2010-01-13T02:00:00.007-05:00</published><updated>2010-01-13T02:11:07.266-05:00</updated><title type='text'>The Treasures of the Snow . . .</title><content type='html'>&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/S01xuksThQI/AAAAAAAADi8/MGMiSZIGZYM/s1600-h/Treasuresofsnow.JPG"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; 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float: left; cursor: pointer; width: 138px; height: 200px;" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/S0vyzefIX4I/AAAAAAAADh8/OOrp4-A4TOc/s200/raining.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5425697142268780418" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);font-size:210%;" &gt;"G&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102); font-weight: bold;"&gt;od can pour on the blessings in astonishing ways."&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: right; color: rgb(102, 102, 102);"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;~ 2 Corinthians 9:9 (The Message)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;So what precisely &lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic; color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;is&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt; a blessing?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;  Is it a reward?  Is it a miracle?  According to Scripture, what exactly does it mean to be &lt;span style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold; color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;blessed&lt;/span&gt; by God?  And should it be a mystery to us?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;Ther&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;e are numerous&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt; Hebrew and Greek words throughout Scripture which when translated mean &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold; color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;bless&lt;/span&gt;, &lt;span style="font-weight: bold; color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;blessed &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;or&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt; &lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102); font-weight: bold;"&gt;blessing&lt;/span&gt;.  &lt;/span&gt;Viewed collectively they mean "&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;to declare happy, to speak well of, v&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;ery happy. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;Lamentably,&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt; popular Christianity has twisted the concept of being blessed by God to mean something entirely different than what God intended.  Way too many Christians have readily bought into the lie that to be &lt;span style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold; color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;blessed&lt;/span&gt; is to enjoy material favor with God as a result of &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;faith&lt;/span&gt;.   And the avenue by which these &lt;span style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold; color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;blessings&lt;/span&gt; reach us can be surprising, unsuspecting, even magical.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: right; color: rgb(51, 51, 51);"&gt;If we follow this logic, then the wealth gained by way of Wall-Street is a &lt;span style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;"&gt;blessing.  &lt;/span&gt;Right?&lt;br /&gt;Why are the results of a person's free will classified as sinful &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;greed&lt;/span&gt; in one case,&lt;br /&gt;and as a &lt;span style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;"&gt;blessing&lt;/span&gt; in another?&lt;br /&gt;The logic is flawed.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center; color: rgb(0, 102, 0);"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;The mystery remains. . . &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;Much of the hear&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;t&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt; of New Testame&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/S0zBVc1MzmI/AAAAAAAADis/S6oUCYHYoEQ/s1600-h/moneyblessing.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0pt 0pt 10px 10px; float: right; cursor: pointer; width: 141px; height: 200px;" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/S0zBVc1MzmI/AAAAAAAADis/S6oUCYHYoEQ/s200/moneyblessing.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5425924225335348834" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;nt Christianity has been completely corrupted in the pursuit of being &lt;span style="font-style: italic; color: rgb(51, 102, 102); font-weight: bold;"&gt;blessed&lt;/span&gt;.  Too many teachers and preachers have taken the focus off of sound doctrine and true worship and placed it instead to the idea of being &lt;span style="font-style: italic; color: rgb(51, 102, 102); font-weight: bold;"&gt;blessed&lt;/span&gt; with things, stuff, money, bigger buildings, larger ministries -- which even non-believers know cannot bring real happiness.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The &lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;[wrong]&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt; thinking is that if God loves you and you are in His will, you exercise faith, and His favor rests upon you, then He will &lt;span style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold; color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;bless&lt;/span&gt; you with a lot of extra things above and beyond what you'd have if you were just an ordinary believer.  And we've fooled ourselves into thinking that if we do have some material wealth, it was God who &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold; color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;blessed&lt;/span&gt; &lt;/span&gt;us with it.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;This is no&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;t &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;what the Bible teaches.  What &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;is &lt;/span&gt;a &lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102); font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;"&gt;blessing&lt;/span&gt;? And is it a result of faith?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: right;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;Herein lies the mystery. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;Hebrews Chapter 11&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt; is often called the "Hall of Faith" It is the Scriptural record of those individuals throughout biblical history who had great faith.  The examples we find here are a roadmap -- a guide --  to understanding true faith and the result of that faith.  Look at verses 36-40:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/S0zAwQAzl8I/AAAAAAAADik/a24kou1LX80/s1600-h/desert.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0pt 10px 10px 0pt; float: left; cursor: pointer; width: 200px; height: 130px;" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/S0zAwQAzl8I/AAAAAAAADik/a24kou1LX80/s200/desert.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5425923586239207362" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;Some faced jeers and flogging, while still others were chained and put in prison. They were stoned; they were sawed in two; they were put to d&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;eath by the sword. They went about in sheepskins and goatskins, destitute, persecuted and mistreated -- the world was not worthy of them. They wandered in deserts and mountains, and in caves and holes in the ground. These were all commended for their faith, yet none of them received what had been promised. God had planned something better for us so that only together with us would they &lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;be made perfect.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: right;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 102, 102);"&gt;Wow!  Where are the "astonishing" blessings here??!&lt;br /&gt;. . . Certainly doesn't match the depiction of being &lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 102, 102); font-weight: bold;"&gt;blessed&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 102, 102);"&gt; as taught by &lt;/span&gt;&lt;a style="color: rgb(102, 102, 102);" href="http://www.bennyhinn.org/default.cfm"&gt;Benny Hinn&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 102, 102);"&gt;,&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;a style="color: rgb(102, 102, 102);" href="http://www.paulawhite.org/"&gt;Paula White&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 102, 102);"&gt;, &lt;/span&gt;&lt;a style="color: rgb(102, 102, 102);" href="http://www.joelosteen.com/Pages/Index.aspx"&gt;Joel Osteen&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 102, 102);"&gt; or a host of others.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Even well-intended Christians have tainted the notion of being &lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102); font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;"&gt;blessed&lt;/span&gt; by God to mean something other than simply enjoying what God has intended.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;What did God intend?  &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;What is God's idea of a &lt;span style="font-style: italic; color: rgb(51, 102, 102); font-weight: bold;"&gt;blessing&lt;/span&gt;?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic; color: rgb(51, 51, 51);"&gt;Behold, children are a gift of the Lord, the fruit &lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic; color: rgb(51, 51, 51);"&gt;of the womb is a &lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102); font-weight: bold;"&gt;reward&lt;/span&gt;.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51);"&gt;~Psalm 127:3&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;  &lt;span style="font-style: italic; color: rgb(51, 51, 51);"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;[Esau] lifted his eyes and saw the women and children, and said, "Who are these with you?" So he said, "The children whom God has &lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102); font-weight: bold;"&gt;graciously given&lt;/span&gt; your servant."&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51);"&gt;~Genesis 33:5&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic; color: rgb(51, 51, 51);"&gt;Joseph said to his father, "They are my sons, whom God has given me here." So &lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic; color: rgb(51, 51, 51);"&gt;he s&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic; color: rgb(51, 51, 51);"&gt;aid, "Br&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic; color: rgb(51, 51, 51);"&gt;ing them to me, please, that I may &lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102); font-weight: bold;"&gt;bless &lt;/span&gt;them."&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51);"&gt;~Genesis 48:9&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/S0zAlrtOBRI/AAAAAAAADic/TZpkjaQz9Nk/s1600-h/childrenhappy.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0pt 0pt 10px 10px; float: right; cursor: pointer; width: 200px; height: 124px;" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/S0zAlrtOBRI/AAAAAAAADic/TZpkjaQz9Nk/s200/childrenhappy.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5425923404694684946" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic; color: rgb(51, 51, 51);"&gt;God &lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102); font-weight: bold;"&gt;blessed&lt;/span&gt; them; and God said to them,&lt;br /&gt;"Be fruitful and multiply..."&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51);"&gt;~Genesis 1:28&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;  &lt;span style="font-style: italic; color: rgb(51, 51, 51);"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;For I will &lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102); font-weight: bold;"&gt;have respect unto you&lt;/span&gt;, and make you fruitful, and multiply you, and &lt;span style="font-weight: bold; color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;establish my covenant&lt;/span&gt; with you.&lt;br /&gt;~Leviticus 26:9&lt;/span&gt; &lt;span style="font-style: italic; color: rgb(51, 51, 51);"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The Lord &lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102); font-weight: bold;"&gt;blessed &lt;/span&gt;the latter days of Job more than his beginning and. . . he had seven sons and three daughters." Job 42:12-13&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic; color: rgb(51, 51, 51);"&gt;Now the time had come &lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic; color: rgb(51, 51, 51);"&gt;for Elizabeth to give birth and she gave birth to a son. Her neighbors and her relatives heard that the Lord had &lt;span style="font-weight: bold; color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;displayed his great mercy&lt;/span&gt; toward her&lt;br /&gt;and they were rejoicing with her.&lt;br /&gt;Luke 1:58&lt;/span&gt; &lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;And as Eugene Peterson puts it&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt; &lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;in &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic; color: rgb(51, 102, 102);font-size:180%;" &gt;The Message&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;, &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;God can and does pour out His blessings in "astonishing" ways.  Revisit &lt;a href="http://www.biblegateway.com/passage/index.php?search=genesis%2012&amp;amp;version=NIV"&gt;Genesis Chapter 12 &lt;/a&gt; where the Lord told Abram:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;"I will make you into a great nation and I will bless you; I will make your name great, and you will be a blessing. I will bless those who bless you, and whoever curses you I will curse;&lt;br /&gt;an&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;d all peoples on earth will be blessed through you."&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Genesis 12:3-2&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: right; color: rgb(51, 51, 51);"&gt;. . . and how did God do this?&lt;br /&gt;Yes. . . By way of the blessing him with children.  &lt;u&gt;Many&lt;/u&gt; of them!&lt;br /&gt;Culminating in the lineage of JESUS CHRIST! (&lt;a href="http://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=matthew%201&amp;amp;version=NIV"&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;Matthew 1:1-16&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt; &lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;The idea of being &lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic; color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;blessed&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt; with children as emphasized over and over in Scripture is one of the most overlooked lessons in God's Word.  The family is no longer considered a &lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102); font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;"&gt;blessing&lt;/span&gt; by today's standards.  Christians no longer guard their families at all costs.  We see children as a nuisance instead of gifts from God.  Children are often a burden, not a joy.  We complain about the cost of raising them.  Mothers &lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/S0y_pH4RmRI/AAAAAAAADiU/jvdketV4Uw0/s1600-h/sad+children.JPG"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0pt 10px 10px 0pt; float: left; cursor: pointer; width: 200px; height: 120px;" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/S0y_pH4RmRI/AAAAAAAADiU/jvdketV4Uw0/s200/sad+children.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5425922364285229330" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;complain that children are a hindrance to their career.  Dad's lament that children are a drain on the finances.  Children often become trophies for soccer moms and dads who have to keep up appearances.   And the number of women choosing to kill God's&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102); font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;"&gt; blessing&lt;/span&gt; of a child is approaching 50 million since 1973.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: right; color: rgb(51, 51, 51);"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 102, 102);"&gt;Yet, when the parent or family burdened by&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 102, 102);"&gt;[&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic; color: rgb(102, 102, 102);"&gt;the &lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 102, 102); font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;"&gt;blessing&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic; color: rgb(102, 102, 102);"&gt; of&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 102, 102);"&gt;] children receives an unexpected&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 102, 102);"&gt;check or materialistic serendipity, they call it a &lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold; color: rgb(102, 102, 102);"&gt;blessing&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 102, 102);"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 102, 102);"&gt;That's backwards thinking!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center; color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;This must be a mystery to God.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;And lest you believe&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt; I've concluded the only blessing of the Bible is children, lets look at some more:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center; font-style: italic;"&gt;Praise be to the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, who has&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102); font-weight: bold;"&gt; blessed&lt;/span&gt; us in the heavenly realms&lt;br /&gt;with every &lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102); font-weight: bold;"&gt;spiritual &lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102); font-weight: bold;"&gt;blessing&lt;/span&gt; in Christ. For he chose us in him before the creation&lt;br /&gt;of the world to be holy and blameless in his sight.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;~Ephesians 1:3-4&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;Blessed be the Lord, who daily &lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102); font-weight: bold;"&gt;loadeth &lt;/span&gt;us with benefits, even the God of our salvation. &lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 102, 102);"&gt;Selah.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;~Psalm 68:19&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;Are we to assume&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt; that God is going to &lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102); font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;"&gt;bless&lt;/span&gt; us in any materialistic way (either personally or as a society) when we've chosen to ignore the biblical definition of &lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102); font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;"&gt;blessing&lt;/span&gt;??&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102); font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;"&gt;God  can pour on the blessings in astonishing ways.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;~ 2 Corinthians 9:9 (The Message)&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: right; font-style: italic; color: rgb(51, 51, 51);"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;I like Eugene Peterson's &lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;Message&lt;/span&gt;; and in context is a wonderful story of redemption&lt;br /&gt;beginning in Genesis all the way through to Revelation.  But as with any translation&lt;br /&gt;of the Bible, a single verse set aside as a lesson can be seriously misinterpreted.&lt;br /&gt;Take time to read the full text of 2 Corinthians 9:6-9 in the&lt;a href="http://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=II%20Corinthians%209:6-9&amp;amp;version=NIV"&gt; NIV&lt;/a&gt; or &lt;a href="http://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=II%20Corinthians%209:6-9&amp;amp;version=KJV"&gt;KJV &lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;and see if you have the same impression of the term &lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102); font-weight: bold;"&gt;"blessing&lt;/span&gt;. "&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;Let's just not be so nearsighted&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt; that we misunderstand what a &lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102); font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;"&gt;blessing&lt;/span&gt; really is.    Joel Osteen is absolutely right in saying that the Gospel promises our "best life now." He’s just utterly and thoroughly mistaken on what the form of that life is.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Throughout the Bible we come to understand the theme of redemption and that Jesus was God’s &lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102); font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;"&gt;blessing&lt;/span&gt; to us -- &lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;sent as a child&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt; to live among us and He alone is the example, shape, description and picture of our "best life. . . ."&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;For even the Son of man came not to be ministered unto,&lt;br /&gt;but to minister, and to give his life a ransom for many.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;~Mark 10:45&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;But godliness with contentment is great gain. For we brought nothing into this world, and it is certain we can carry nothing out.  And having food and raiment let us be therewith content.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;~I Timothy 6:6-8&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: right;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;Mystery solved!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102); font-weight: bold;"&gt;~~*~*~*~~&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I asked God for strength that I might achieve.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102); font-weight: bold;"&gt;I was made weak that I might learn humbly to obey.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102); font-weight: bold;"&gt;I asked for health that I might do greater things.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102); font-weight: bold;"&gt;I was given infirmity that I might do better things.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102); font-weight: bold;"&gt;I asked for riches that I might be happy.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102); font-weight: bold;"&gt;I was given poverty that I might be wise.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102); font-weight: bold;"&gt;I asked for power that I might have the praise of men.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102); font-weight: bold;"&gt;I was given weakness that I might feel the need of God.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102); font-weight: bold;"&gt;I asked for all things that I might enjoy life.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102); font-weight: bold;"&gt;I was given life that I might enjoy all things.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102); font-weight: bold;"&gt;I got nothing that I asked for, but everything I hoped for.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102); font-weight: bold;"&gt;Almost despite myself, my unspoken prayers were answered.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102); font-weight: bold;"&gt;I am, among all men, most richly &lt;u&gt;BLESSED&lt;/u&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: right;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;~The Prayer of an Unknown Confederate Soldier&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: right;"&gt;~ Esthermay V. 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* * * * * * * &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: left;"&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://www.facebook.com/home.php#/group.php?gid=52290975388"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0pt 10px 10px 0pt; float: left; cursor: pointer; width: 70px; height: 95px;" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/Sootcfh-rNI/AAAAAAAAC8E/zECpcB6Vr2Q/s200/InOtherWords.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5371155473116343506" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:100%;"&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: left;"&gt;This installment of InOtherWords is hosted by &lt;a href="http://deborahshank.blogspot.com/"&gt;Deborah&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;on her blog, &lt;a href="http://deborahshank.blogspot.com/"&gt;Chocolate and Coffee&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.heartchoices.com/"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/17856112-1342273418112795008?l=theheartofapastorswife.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://theheartofapastorswife.blogspot.com/feeds/1342273418112795008/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=17856112&amp;postID=1342273418112795008' title='14 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/17856112/posts/default/1342273418112795008'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/17856112/posts/default/1342273418112795008'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://theheartofapastorswife.blogspot.com/2010/01/blessing-mystery-of-its-meaning.html' title='Blessing: The Mystery of its Meaning . . .'/><author><name>Esthermay Bentley-Goossen</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/17353385912611151311</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='32' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-rXkJTzkh05w/Twy4o_DKmAI/AAAAAAAAEms/F5ct_u5V6dY/s220/profile%2Bpicture.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/S0vyzefIX4I/AAAAAAAADh8/OOrp4-A4TOc/s72-c/raining.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>14</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17856112.post-7362065955205921869</id><published>2010-01-06T12:59:00.006-05:00</published><updated>2010-01-06T13:12:53.065-05:00</updated><title type='text'>. . . and I did eat them~Jeremiah 15:16</title><content type='html'>&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/S0TSX-fV0lI/AAAAAAAADhY/fIE3PQEwL7Y/s1600-h/eatthemcopyright.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; 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float: left; cursor: pointer; width: 200px; height: 148px;" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/SzDq7e1IB6I/AAAAAAAADeI/sGNcn_Dyn9A/s200/incarnateChrist.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5418088659335776162" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);font-size:180%;" &gt;“L&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;et us remember the proclamation of the angel: 'I bring you good news of great joy that will be for all the people. Today in the town of David a Savior has been born to you; He is Christ the Lord' (&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic; color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;Luke 2:10-11&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;).&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center; color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;M&lt;/span&gt;ay our hearts go out to the unconverted people…who have no blessed Christmas day. 'Go and enjoy choice food and sweet drinks, and send some to those who have nothing prepared. This day is sacred to our Lord.'” (&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;Nehemiah 8:10&lt;/span&gt;).&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: right; color: rgb(51, 51, 51);"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;~ Mrs. L.B. Cowm&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;an&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;Strea&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;ms in the Desert&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;It is entirely accurate&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt; to say that Christians get too caught up in the “story” of  Baby Jesus at Christmastime.  We take the whole manger thing way too far.  We revel in the tender side of God’s nature and we completely set aside the reality of sin and redemption which is the premise of the entire Bible!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;We dress up children&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt; in costumes and sing angelic-sounding songs. It’s really all very precious, isn't it?   . . . Listening to a child read from the Book of Luke?  . . . As other little ones parade about as angels and shepherds?  It's almost too much to bear if you're a parent or grandparent.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic; color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;I bring you good news of great joy that will be for all the people.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic; color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt; Today in the town of David a Savior has been born to you; He is Christ the Lord&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/SzCFfOsy-NI/AAAAAAAADdo/1keOxgt-V4M/s1600-h/FocusOfScripture.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0pt 0pt 10px 10px; float: right; cursor: pointer; width: 163px; height: 200px;" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/SzCFfOsy-NI/AAAAAAAADdo/1keOxgt-V4M/s200/FocusOfScripture.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5417977123295131858" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;Don’t get me wrong.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt; This aspect of Jesus’ story is important -- even vital to understanding the Messiah. But the biblical focus on Jesus is not on His birth. The real focus is some thirty years later at an execution scene. There was no tender angelic moment at that place. Instead, the air was ripe with evil. The baby of the manger was murdered.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102); font-style: italic;"&gt;May our hearts go out to the unconverted people…who have no blessed Christmas day. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Do the "unconverted" understand that He was murdered for them?  Do they understand that &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;[really rather simple]&lt;/span&gt; theology of "The Incarnation?"&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;Birth brought God’s Son&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt; into the world and gave Him a human body -- just like you and me -- for one reason and one reason only:  To redeem us back unto Himself.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: right; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-style: italic;"&gt;The Christian'ese terminology would be "to covert us."&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;So doesn't it follow &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;that the celebration of His birth be focused on those who have not yet been redeemed?  Should we not focus our energy on reaching out to those who don't yet celebrate His redeeming power, but instead focus on the angels and shepherds &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;(and choice foods and sweet drinks)&lt;/span&gt;?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;In all reality,&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt; the "unconverted" do not have a "blessed Christmas day," -- as Mrs. Cowman puts it.  They do not understand why He came in the first place!  All they really have are the pretty angel songs and precious visions of all those Children's Christmas Pageants -- and of course the food and festivities of the Season.   They do not hold to the truth of -- nor really even understand -- the words of John 1:14:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center; font-style: italic;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;The Word became flesh and made His dwelling among us.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/SzCGkp7D2uI/AAAAAAAADdw/NX7lQI_kHsE/s1600-h/incarnation.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0pt 10px 10px 0pt; float: left; cursor: pointer; width: 184px; height: 200px;" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/SzCGkp7D2uI/AAAAAAAADdw/NX7lQI_kHsE/s200/incarnation.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5417978316013689570" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;Why?  Why did He come? &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;Surely the Incarnation of Christ is one of the hardest truths to grasp.  Let alone explain to someone who has no "blessed Christmas day."  Some of the greatest theologians have taken great effort to offer a good clarification.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;But the infamous Paul Harvey provides one of the most unique explanations of the Incarnation.  One very special installment of &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;The Rest of The Story&lt;/span&gt; which first aired in 1981 revealed wonderful insight into the verses in John Chapter 1:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102); font-style: italic;"&gt;In the beginning was the Word, and the&lt;/span&gt; &lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102); font-style: italic;"&gt;Word was with God, and the word was God. . . .&lt;/span&gt; &lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102); font-style: italic;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The word became flesh and dwelt among us.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;~*~*~*~&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: left;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;...the story opens&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt; with an apathetic, disinterested husband and father who just was not getting into the Christmas spirit. He turned down an invitation to attend a church Christmas program with his family, boldly stating his disbelief in the miracle of the Incarnation. He simply did not believe that God became a man.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;His family left&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt; for the program and he settled in for a quiet evening at home. Outside a winter storm was gathering force. The winds were beginning to pick up when he heard a strange noise -- a tapping sound on the windowpanes. Opening the curtains, he discovered a flock of birds desperately seeking shelter from the storm and being attracted to the light emanating from the window.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/SzDdQ-3n4TI/AAAAAAAADd4/K_tPuvAWjKs/s1600-h/Flockofbirds.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0pt 0pt 10px 10px; float: right; cursor: pointer; width: 200px; height: 134px;" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/SzDdQ-3n4TI/AAAAAAAADd4/K_tPuvAWjKs/s200/Flockofbirds.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5418073635550650674" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;Feeling compassion &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;for these birds, he threw on his wraps and headed towards the barn. He flung open the doors for the birds, but they did not come. He turned the barn lights on to attract them, but that did not work either. He got bread from the house and made a trail of crumbs, but that too failed. He rushed behind the flock to steer them toward the barn, but they only scattered.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;Finally in disgust,&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt; he thought to himself,&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: right;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 0, 0); font-style: italic;"&gt;If only I could become a bird to show them where to go for warmth and safety. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;Just then &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;in the distant village, he heard the church bells and an illuminating truth began to dawn in his soul:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: right;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 0, 0); font-style: italic;"&gt;Is it possible that the reason for that first Christmas&lt;br /&gt;– with a tiny baby named Jesus –&lt;br /&gt;was for God to become like us in order to help us?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;~*~*~*~&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;A&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;nd now,&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt; &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;you know the rest of the story. . . .&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;. . . Share it with someone&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt; who doesn't have a blessed Christmas day.  "Go and enjoy choice food and sweet drinks, and send some to those who have nothing prepared."  Generosity, unexpected kindnesses and "good will" have come to exemplify the Christmas Season to even the "unconverted."&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/SzDqQHHTVPI/AAAAAAAADeA/l6gB1C5o3nI/s1600-h/bible21.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0pt 10px 10px 0pt; float: left; cursor: pointer; width: 200px; height: 135px;" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/SzDqQHHTVPI/AAAAAAAADeA/l6gB1C5o3nI/s200/bible21.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5418087914235188466" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;. . . But more important&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt; than sharing the food and sweet drinks and other unexpected kindnesses, share the Incarnation of Christ.  "The day is most assuredly sacred to to our Lord."&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;There are far too many in our world -- you know some!! -- who do not believe in CHRISTmas at all!   And more tragic is the very real fact that many who call themselves Christians and &lt;u&gt;do&lt;/u&gt; believe in Christmas have not accepted the Plan of Redemption that the Incarnation brings!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;It's tragic because . . . &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102); font-style: italic;"&gt;. . .at the name of Jesus every knee should bow, in heaven and on earth and under the earth, and every tongue confess that Jesus Christ is Lord, to the glory of God the Father."&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51);"&gt;~ Pilippinas 2:10&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;-11&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;The Incarnation&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt; is is the single most important fact of all history.  There will most assuredly come a day when when His Incarnation is undeniable.  Share it!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: right;"&gt;~ Esthermay V. Bentley-Goossen&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: right;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;© 2009 The Heart of a Pastor's Wife&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;* * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * *&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt; * * * * * * * &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: left;"&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://www.facebook.com/home.php#/group.php?gid=52290975388"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0pt 10px 10px 0pt; float: left; cursor: pointer; width: 70px; height: 95px;" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/Sootcfh-rNI/AAAAAAAAC8E/zECpcB6Vr2Q/s200/InOtherWords.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5371155473116343506" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:100%;"&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: left;"&gt;This installment of InOtherWords is hosted by &lt;a href="http://www.typingone-handed.com/"&gt;Patricia&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;on her blog, &lt;a href="http://www.typingone-handed.com/"&gt;Typing One Handed&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.heartchoices.com/"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/17856112-1820714659821646337?l=theheartofapastorswife.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://theheartofapastorswife.blogspot.com/feeds/1820714659821646337/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=17856112&amp;postID=1820714659821646337' title='10 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/17856112/posts/default/1820714659821646337'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/17856112/posts/default/1820714659821646337'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://theheartofapastorswife.blogspot.com/2009/12/i-bring-you-good-news-of-incarnation.html' title='&quot;I Bring You Good News. .  .&quot;&lt;br&gt;&lt;/br&gt;&lt;i&gt;Of Incarnation!&lt;/i&gt;'/><author><name>Esthermay Bentley-Goossen</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/17353385912611151311</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='32' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-rXkJTzkh05w/Twy4o_DKmAI/AAAAAAAAEms/F5ct_u5V6dY/s220/profile%2Bpicture.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/SzDq7e1IB6I/AAAAAAAADeI/sGNcn_Dyn9A/s72-c/incarnateChrist.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>10</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17856112.post-7536361230922906088</id><published>2009-12-16T00:01:00.002-05:00</published><updated>2009-12-16T00:58:33.544-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='WordFilled Wednesday'/><title type='text'>WordFilled Wednesday . . . The Birds of the Heavens</title><content type='html'>&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/SyhozHdUW8I/AAAAAAAADcM/HhJOuEXxzh8/s1600-h/birdtracks.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 400px; height: 314px;" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/SyhozHdUW8I/AAAAAAAADcM/HhJOuEXxzh8/s400/birdtracks.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5415693779297655746" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;font-size:85%;" &gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: right;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;font-size:85%;" &gt;This week's hostess for WordFilled Wednesday is &lt;a href="http://crittyjoy.typepad.com/"&gt;Christy&lt;/a&gt; @ &lt;a href="http://crittyjoy.typepad.com/"&gt;Critty Joy&lt;/a&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/17856112-7536361230922906088?l=theheartofapastorswife.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://theheartofapastorswife.blogspot.com/feeds/7536361230922906088/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=17856112&amp;postID=7536361230922906088' title='16 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/17856112/posts/default/7536361230922906088'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/17856112/posts/default/7536361230922906088'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://theheartofapastorswife.blogspot.com/2009/12/wordfilled-wednesday-birds-of-heavens.html' title='WordFilled Wednesday . . . &lt;br&gt;&lt;/br&gt;&lt;i&gt;The Birds of the Heavens&lt;/i&gt;'/><author><name>Esthermay Bentley-Goossen</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/17353385912611151311</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='32' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-rXkJTzkh05w/Twy4o_DKmAI/AAAAAAAAEms/F5ct_u5V6dY/s220/profile%2Bpicture.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/SyhozHdUW8I/AAAAAAAADcM/HhJOuEXxzh8/s72-c/birdtracks.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>16</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17856112.post-6752104325997479015</id><published>2009-12-01T12:49:00.009-05:00</published><updated>2009-12-01T17:42:00.005-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='In Other Words'/><title type='text'>The Danger of Sunday Morning Church . . .</title><content type='html'>&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/SxS3bcgK4LI/AAAAAAAADX8/pVdF92zXDr8/s1600/Worship+Service.JPG"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0pt 10px 10px 0pt; float: left; cursor: pointer; width: 200px; height: 134px;" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/SxS3bcgK4LI/AAAAAAAADX8/pVdF92zXDr8/s200/Worship+Service.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5410150734514282674" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;“M&lt;/span&gt;artha was busy for Jesus,&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;and that left her too busy to be with Jesus.”&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: right; color: rgb(51, 51, 51);"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;~ Jon Walker&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;Growing with Purpose: Connecting with God Every Day&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: right; font-style: italic;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;I haven't seen&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt; the government warnings yet, but there are some very real risks for Christians who attend church on Sunday mornings.    Seriously!  See, for a lot of us Christians, church has just become a &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;habit --&lt;/span&gt; an event on our busy, busy calendar – we come, we sing, we worship, we listen (&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;hopefully!&lt;/span&gt;) to Truth from God's Word which explains life:  our wretched condition before God, how to remedy that, how we should live, what we are supposed to do, and how we are to react to the situations which confront us.    And we all pay attention.  We are encouraged.   We are stirred.  We nod our heads in agreement.  We are spiritually fed. Sometimes we even leave on a spiritual high. Right?.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/SxVB-97LAlI/AAAAAAAADYU/zSIWed73sVY/s1600/kitchenwork.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0pt 0pt 10px 10px; float: right; cursor: pointer; width: 150px; height: 200px;" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/SxVB-97LAlI/AAAAAAAADYU/zSIWed73sVY/s200/kitchenwork.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5410303077385962066" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;Then Monday morning arrives&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt; and we go back to our families, our work, our business, our classes, our kitchen, our homes -- the plain-old, everyday circumstances of life -- and we forget all about our spiritual high of twenty-four hours earlier!  Right?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: right; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-style: italic;"&gt;It puts us in spiritual jeopardy!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt; &lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;This is precisely&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt; the dilemma presented by the account of Martha in the Gospels. . .&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;. . . Mary and Martha had been to the synagogue together that day and evidently Jesus had been teaching there.  It was of course unlike any church service that you or I would attend.  But surely they did leave with something similar to that spiritual high that we've experienced at our own churches.   It had to have been an exciting morning when Jesus Himself began to open the Scriptures!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt; &lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;But then Mary and Martha went home&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;.   And guess who came for dinner that day?   JESUS Himself was their guest! Martha went into the kitchen and completely and utterly forgot everything and all she had learned in synagogue.   She began to stew and fret about how to get dinner ready. She bustled around, and couldn't find things, and spilled the coffee, and scorched the potatoes, and burned her fingers. She got all upset, and distracted, and then finally came bursting into the living room and blamed the whole mess on Jesus.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: right; color: rgb(51, 51, 51);"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;. . . and I totally get this.  Martha was clearly a kitchen-nut.  I am a kitchen-nut who blames others for the less-than-perfect condition of things in my precious kitchen.  We could examine all this kitchen-nuttery and that would be fun -- comparing notes and such.  But that's not the point here.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;Here's what Martha cried out:&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt; &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic; color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;"Lord, why didn't you tell my sister to come out and help me? It's all your fault!"&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51);"&gt;~Luke 10:40 &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;And do you remember &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;how Jesus replied?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/SxU4dbLUqlI/AAAAAAAADYM/81yDC5hi_dA/s1600/marymartha.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0pt 10px 10px 0pt; float: left; cursor: pointer; width: 122px; height: 200px;" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/SxU4dbLUqlI/AAAAAAAADYM/81yDC5hi_dA/s200/marymartha.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5410292605518129746" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102); font-style: italic;"&gt;"Martha, Martha, you are full of care. You've gotten everything out of perspective. Life is out of focus for you, and you've let these insignificant little trivialities mount up to a tremendous problem.&lt;br /&gt;But only one thing is necessary. . ." &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51);"&gt;~ Luke 10:41-42 &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;What is that &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;o&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;ne thing&lt;/span&gt;?&lt;/span&gt; What is the one fundamental thing which is necessary?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;The one thing is&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt; to see things the way they really are!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: right;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic; color: rgb(51, 51, 51);"&gt;Really . . . Did Jesus come to observe Martha's culinary genius?&lt;br /&gt;Or did He come to fellowship and commune with the women?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;The one thing is&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt; to face reality and to deal with things realistically -- to know and understand and live-out what the Apostle Paul came to realize: "For me, to live is Christ!"&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-style: italic;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: right;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-style: italic;"&gt;Is it realistic for Martha to blame Jesus for her short-temper and less-than-perfect kitchen skills?&lt;br /&gt;If Martha were "living for Christ," would she blame Him for anything?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;Martha's fault&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt; was not that she chose to celebrate so grand-a-guest by serving a feast.   Her fault was that she threw her entire soul into the process and grew encumbered by the task.  In doing that she forgot JESUS!  The only thing on her mind and her heart was her service.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: right; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-style: italic;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;This happens a lot in churches. . . ever notice at Christmastime how the decorating or the children's program or the live nativity or the &lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;[you-name-the-program] &lt;/span&gt;takes away from the real meaning.  I've witnessed it first-hand.  It breaks your heart when you see it from reality-perspective.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;It is way easier&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt; to serve and work and get caught up in our tasks for Jesus (or our church) than to simply commune with HIM. . .&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: right; font-style: italic; color: rgb(51, 51, 51);"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-style: italic;"&gt;As a counselor, I believe this explains the phenomena of the perfectionist spot-on.&lt;br /&gt;But that's for another time  &lt;/span&gt;:-)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;We ought to be Mary and Martha in one!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;  After all, faith by itself, if it is not accompanied by action, &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;is  &lt;/span&gt;dead. (James 2:17)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102); font-style: italic;"&gt;"Mary has chosen that good portion.&lt;br /&gt;She has taken the time to sit and listen and get her perspectives straight,&lt;br /&gt;to put things back into focus, and I'm not going to take it away from her," Jesus said.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51);"&gt;~Luke 10:42&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;If this "good portion" &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;is not the basis of your operations in your family, your work, your business, your classes, your kitchen, your homes, your church, then you are off to the wrong start in the Kingdom of God.  And of course everything is going to go awry!  What's the point of going to church on Sunday morning in the first place?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;If you are familiar&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt; with the beautiful symbols of the Old Testament, you can easily interpret this passage:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102); font-style: italic;"&gt;"The LORD said to Moses, "Command the people of Israel to bring you pure oil&lt;br /&gt;from beaten olives for the lamp, that a light may be kept burning continually.&lt;br /&gt;Outside the veil of the testimony, in the tent of meeting, Aaron shall keep it in order&lt;br /&gt;from evening to morning before the Lord continually; it shall be a statute for&lt;br /&gt;ever throughout your generations. He shall keep the lamps in order upon the&lt;br /&gt;lampstand of pure gold before the LORD continually." &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51);"&gt;~Leviticus 24:1-4&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/SxVQFHLpiGI/AAAAAAAADYc/TdUFnyP9gWQ/s1600/25-aaron-with-lampstand.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0pt 0pt 10px 10px; float: right; cursor: pointer; width: 200px; height: 150px;" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/SxVQFHLpiGI/AAAAAAAADYc/TdUFnyP9gWQ/s200/25-aaron-with-lampstand.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5410318576112994402" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;Pure olive oil &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;brought by the people was to be the fuel which produced the light of the candelabra. It was to burn continuously and it was especially not be allowed to go out at night. From evening to morning Aaron was responsible to keep the light going to illuminate the tabernacle with that light placed on the golden candlestick.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;There is nothing &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;more desperately needed for today's Christians than to personally and individually expose our hearts and minds and thoughts to the LIGHT &lt;u&gt;continuously&lt;/u&gt;.   (Not just when surrounded by other Christians in church on Sunday and/or church functions and programs throughout the week.)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;What is our LIGHT today&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt; -- some four-thousand years after the time of Aaron and the golden lampstand?  It is Christ Jesus and the Truth of His Word; and we need to expose our hearts and minds and thoughts to it continuously.  We simply cannot leave it at church [synagogue] and go on with our tasks like Martha did.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;When we do this and consistently practice looking at life as HE tells us &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;-- not as the world outside of Sunday morning church tells us -- and not as our feelings tell us -&lt;/span&gt;- we will learn how to be  both Mary and Martha in one!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;The Apostle Paul &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;understood the habit of church.  He understood religiosity.  But when he found Christ, his passion was ignited in a whole new way -- he learned how to be Mary and Martha in one:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;sup class="versenum" id="en-NIV-29367"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/sup&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102); font-style: italic;"&gt;"For to me, to live is Christ and to die is gain.   If I am to go on living in the body, this will mean fruitful labor for me. Yet what shall I choose? I do not know! I am torn between the two: I desire to depart and be with Christ, which is better by far; but it is more necessary for you that I remain in the body."&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51);"&gt;~Philippians 1:21-24&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;span style="visibility: visible; color: rgb(51, 102, 102); font-style: italic;" id="main"&gt;&lt;span style="visibility: visible;" id="search"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;span style="visibility: visible; color: rgb(51, 102, 102); font-style: italic;" id="main"&gt;&lt;span style="visibility: visible;" id="search"&gt;"Whatever you &lt;em&gt;do&lt;/em&gt; whether you eat or drink, &lt;em&gt;do unto the glory of God&lt;/em&gt;" &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="visibility: visible; color: rgb(51, 51, 51);" id="main"&gt;&lt;span style="visibility: visible;" id="search"&gt;~1 Corinthians 10:31&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center; color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;~~~&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center; font-style: italic;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;Martha was busy and hurried,&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;Serving the friend divine,&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;Cleansing the cups and platters,&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;Bringing the bread and wine;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;But Martha was careful and anxious&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;Fretted in thought and in word,&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;She had no time to be sitting&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;While she was serving the Lord,&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;For Martha was "cumbered with serving,&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;Martha was "troubled" with "things"---&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;Those that would pass with the using---&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;She was forgetting her wings.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;Mary was quiet and peaceful,&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;Learning to love and to live.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;Mary was hearing His precepts,&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;Mary was letting Him give---&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;Give of the riches eternal,&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;Treasures of mind and of heart;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;Learning the mind of the Master,&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;Choosing the better part.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;Do we ever labor at serving&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;Till voices grow fretful and shrill,&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;Forgetting how to be loving,&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;Forgetting how to be still?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;Do we strive for "things" in possession,&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;And toil for the perishing meat,&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;Neglecting the one thing needful---&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;Sitting at Jesus' feet?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;Service is good when he asks it,&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;Labor is right in it's place,&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;But there is one thing better,&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;Looking up in his face;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;There is so much he can tell us,&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;Truths that are precious and deep;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;This is the place where he wants us,&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;Things are the things we can keep.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51);font-size:85%;" &gt;~Annie Johnson Flint&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: right;"&gt;~ Esthermay V. 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And we want them yesterday.&lt;br /&gt;We want them without too much pondering&lt;br /&gt;and too much pain....&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;We have developed all kinds of Chris&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;t-coated remedies that are shallow and short-lived.  We are not, by and large, the deeply grounded saints that some of our forefathers were."&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: right;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51);"&gt;~ John Piper&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt; &lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;Christian theologian&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt; &lt;a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/J._I._Packer"&gt;James Packer&lt;/a&gt; has compared the Puritans of our early American history to the Great Redwoods of California:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;"The Puritans were giants whose roots were incredibly deep in the Bible,&lt;br /&gt;and whose branches reached to the heavens, and whose trunks were so strong and durable they could endure forest fires that scar them but don't kill them. . . "&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;But then Packer looks out over the pragmatic American landscape of our quick fixes for life's problems and our impatience with depth and complexity and pain and adds,&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center; font-style: italic;"&gt;"Affluence seems for the past generations to have been making dwarfs and deadheads of all of us."&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;So what exactly is "Pragmatism?" &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: right; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-weight: bold;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(153, 51, 0);font-size:180%;" &gt;*&lt;/span&gt; See &lt;a href="http://theheartofapastorswife.blogspot.com/2009/11/dangers-of-pragmatism.html"&gt;John MacArthur&lt;/a&gt; discuss Pragmatism &lt;a href="http://theheartofapastorswife.blogspot.com/2009/11/dangers-of-pragmatism.html"&gt;HERE&lt;/a&gt;.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/SvjHGTi4j4I/AAAAAAAADUA/rwvEZoNqadw/s1600-h/pragmatism.png"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0pt 0pt 10px 10px; float: right; cursor: pointer; width: 198px; height: 200px;" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/SvjHGTi4j4I/AAAAAAAADUA/rwvEZoNqadw/s200/pragmatism.png" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5402286664170639234" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;The first time&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt; I heard the word "Pragmatism," my thoughts were not immediately drawn to the concept of a really bad school of philosophy which is in complete opposition to the Truth of God's Word.  No.  Instead, I was thinking &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;. . . old-fashion disease&lt;/span&gt;.  You know, like the story your grandma told you about how she came down with the &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;Pragmatism&lt;/span&gt; when she was a girl.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Sadly, this is about as deep as most Christians go when they hear the word.  That's alarming since Pragmatism is a completely unbiblical worldview that has been gaining a foothold in churches for the last 100 years.  It is destroying the Gospel of Salvation -- replacing it with man-made quick-fixes.  And when true Christians are unable to identify it, they can very easily be caught up in its snare!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;The Philosop&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;hy &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;of Pragmatism was founded by &lt;a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Charles_Sanders_Peirce"&gt;Char&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Charles_Sanders_Peirce"&gt;les Peirce&lt;/a&gt;, popularized by &lt;a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/William_James"&gt;William James&lt;/a&gt; and &lt;a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/John_Dewey"&gt;John Dewy&lt;/a&gt; and recognized as a movement in the early 1900's. Pragmatism argues that the best way to determine whether or not to embrace a certain idea or proposition is not by its &lt;u&gt;truth&lt;/u&gt;fulness but by its &lt;u&gt;use&lt;/u&gt;fulness. Essentially, it makes no difference if the idea or proposition is true. The important thing is that it &lt;u&gt;works&lt;/u&gt;.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;Pragmatism&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt; gets its name from the Greek word pragma (δράση) which means &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;action&lt;/span&gt;.  Consequently, pragmatism is a philosophy of action.  It says basically that if an idea or belief does not have some sort of practical application, consequence, or immediate resulting action then it is of no use.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/SvjIDBE4u5I/AAAAAAAADUI/lwbkTJwLscM/s1600-h/Bible3.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0pt 10px 10px 0pt; float: left; cursor: pointer; width: 143px; height: 200px;" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/SvjIDBE4u5I/AAAAAAAADUI/lwbkTJwLscM/s200/Bible3.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5402287707185003410" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;Imagine the implications&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt; on the Truth of God's Word?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Pragmatists don't believe in universal Truth.  Pragmatists do not embrace the Bible as the inerrant Word of God.  Rather, they think that what we know and hold as fact is simply that which &lt;span style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;"&gt;works&lt;/span&gt; -- not necessarily that which is &lt;span style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;"&gt;True&lt;/span&gt;.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Again, imagine the implications on the Truth of God's Word?!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;Here's one example:&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;  If the desired "action" is to get people saved and grow membership, the pragmatic church appeals not to the Truth of Salvation by Grace, but to the idea that receiving Jesus will bring peace to our lives -- completely skipping over the issue of sin and the cost of salvation!  After all, preaching that we are sinners might be offensive to someone!!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: right; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-style: italic;"&gt;Jesus' approach was markedly different.&lt;br /&gt;Jesus  pointed out sin and the need for repentance and forgiveness.&lt;br /&gt;He also warned those who wanted to follow Him to consider the cost.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I agree with James Packer.  "Affluence [or simply living in today's society] seems to have been making dwarfs and deadheads of all of us."  I yearn to be the kind of deeply-grounded saint John Piper refers to . . . .&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;If you think&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt; you haven't been affected, here are a few ways that pragmatism has inched its way into our churches:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;A great number&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt; of churches and denominations h&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/SvjYYFDBRvI/AAAAAAAADUU/dITEV3i7OiU/s1600-h/empty+bible.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0pt 0pt 10px 10px; float: right; cursor: pointer; width: 200px; height: 90px;" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/SvjYYFDBRvI/AAAAAAAADUU/dITEV3i7OiU/s200/empty+bible.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5402305661214213874" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;ave adopted the idea that the &lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;Bible&lt;/span&gt; is simply not adequate to meet the challenges of today's society, or sufficient for winning people to Christ.  So . . . they turn to "felt-need" and "feel-good" sermons, entertainment, drama, and exciting music that can manipulate people's egos and focus on fairly insipid subjects like human relationships, self esteem, successful living, emotional issues and other practical but completely worldly themes.  They are providing "Christ-coated remedies" often without any mention of Scripture at all! &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: right;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic; color: rgb(51, 51, 51);"&gt;Nothing deeply-grounded here.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;A great number&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt; of churches and denominations have come to believe that God's Word is insufficient for achieving Christian growth, so they turn to therapy groups and popular psychology which rely on worldly methods.    Even Bible studies have turned into the study of books written &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;by&lt;/span&gt; people &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;about&lt;/span&gt; the Bible.  To rely solely on God's Word would indicate weakness and a refusal to accept man's scientific advancement and &lt;span style="font-style: italic; color: rgb(51, 51, 51);"&gt;blah, blah, blah . . . &lt;/span&gt;  Again:  "Christ-coated remedies."&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: right;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic; color: rgb(51, 51, 51);"&gt;Nothing deeply-grounded here.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt; &lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;A great number&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt; of churches and denominations  hold that God's Word is insufficient for making God's Will known; so they look for external signs and revelations.  "Christ-coated remedies."&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;A great number&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt; of churches and denominations see that God's Word is inadequate for changing our societal and political troubles, so they establish evangelical lobby groups and work to elect "Christian" politicians. They seek to change the status quo by power and politics and money and lose sight completely of the Truth of God's Word.  They become as confused as the candidate they fight against. . . .&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;Don't get me wro&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;ng.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;  None of these methods is wrong in and of itself.  Even Jesus used parables to get people's attention.  But . . .&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/SvH8ztNMLkI/AAAAAAAADSQ/w_Khm-7a328/s1600-h/selfconfidence.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0pt 10px 10px 0pt; float: left; cursor: pointer; width: 200px; height: 104px;" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/SvH8ztNMLkI/AAAAAAAADSQ/w_Khm-7a328/s200/selfconfidence.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5400375393432383042" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;If any of these "methods"&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt; is giving new meaning to -- or replacing -- the Bible's words, pouring secular, therapeutic content into spiritual terminology because that is what seems to &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;work&lt;/span&gt;  . . . well, that's pragmatism.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;If sin&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt; has become "dysfunctional" behavior, that's pragmatism.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;If the gospel &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;of self-esteem or wholeness has replaced the Gospel of Salvation, that's pragmatism.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;If Jesus&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt; has become an example of morality and right living and not "&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;. . . the way and the truth and the life. [No one comes to the Father except through me]&lt;/span&gt;" . . . that's pragmatism.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;If Sunday after Sunday&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt; people are told how to have happy marriages and prosper financially and get along with co-workers, but not how to get right with God . . . that's pragmatism.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;If the m&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;essage&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt; from the pulpit is tolerance instead of taking the Gospel of Salvation to those we are called to tolerate. . .  that's pragmatism.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: right; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-style: italic;"&gt;Do you see the pattern here?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/Svjj8EKxiBI/AAAAAAAADUc/bbhKHr7wPgQ/s1600-h/happiness.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0pt 0pt 10px 10px; float: right; cursor: pointer; width: 200px; height: 138px;" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/Svjj8EKxiBI/AAAAAAAADUc/bbhKHr7wPgQ/s200/happiness.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5402318374081497106" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;Pragmatis&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;m lies to people&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt; about what they really need.  Pragmatists have no particular interest in the Truth of the Bible because it does not cultivate an immediate fix for any given human predicament at any given moment. . . .&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt; &lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;. . . and that &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;brings us back&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt; to the very definition of Pragmatism:  If an idea or belief does not have some sort of practical application or consequence, then it is of no use.  The important thing is that is &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;works&lt;/span&gt;.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;The number one agenda&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt; of the Christian is God's Will.  The method for carrying out God's Will is found in Scripture.  It's Truth.  It's God's Word. The trouble begins when we look for what works best &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;right now &lt;/span&gt; instead of what works for &lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;God's Glory&lt;/span&gt;.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;John Piper is absolutely right when he says we want &lt;span style="font-style: italic; color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;results yesterday&lt;/span&gt; and that,&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center; font-style: italic; color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;". . .we are not, by and large, the deeply grounded saints that some of our forefathers were."&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Lamentably, our forefather's Puritan values have evolved into a satirical label for "what's wrong with America." Some mainline denominations even believe that too much Puritanism survives and that it hinders "free thought" and "tolerance."&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: right;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic; color: rgb(51, 51, 51);"&gt;Probably the pragmatists.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/Svjlt_o8jLI/AAAAAAAADUk/yPTnlyU0jkE/s1600-h/bible_open_glasses.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0pt 10px 10px 0pt; float: left; cursor: pointer; width: 200px; height: 150px;" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/Svjlt_o8jLI/AAAAAAAADUk/yPTnlyU0jkE/s200/bible_open_glasses.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5402320331370958002" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);font-size:180%;" &gt;There are others&lt;/span&gt; who sincerely believe that the breakdowns of our society -- including the emergence of pragmatism in the church -- are the direct consequence of the dilution of Puritan disciplines and ideals of our forefathers.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: right; font-style: italic; color: rgb(51, 51, 51);"&gt;I think I am of this belief.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;God's Word&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt; is ABSOLUTE TRUTH.  Our deeply grounded forefathers understood that.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I'm not sure many of us today really do . . . .&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: right;"&gt;~ Esthermay V. 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Is a Guarded Heart</title><content type='html'>&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/SvCLvMJ4L_I/AAAAAAAADSA/M14iDZu7mjo/s1600-h/doxology.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0pt 0pt 10px 10px; float: right; cursor: pointer; width: 200px; height: 150px;" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/SvCLvMJ4L_I/AAAAAAAADSA/M14iDZu7mjo/s200/doxology.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5399969596049993714" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);font-size:130%;" &gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;"P&lt;/span&gt;eace of Christ guards our heart when&lt;br /&gt;we pray with thanksgiving.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);font-size:130%;" &gt;A thankful heart is a guarded heart.”&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: right;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;~ Wayne Cordeiro&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/SvCLza26lNI/AAAAAAAADSI/OdybdhbNTxc/s1600-h/facebook-logosquare.png"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0pt 10px 10px 0pt; float: left; cursor: pointer; width: 60px; height: 60px;" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/SvCLza26lNI/AAAAAAAADSI/OdybdhbNTxc/s200/facebook-logosquare.png" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5399969668716467410" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;Are you on Facebook?  &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;I admit it . . .   I misuse and discard valuable time on Facebook.  But, I have noticed a trend on my homepage lately: So many of my friends use their status update to offer up their &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;dilem&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;ma of the &lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;day&lt;/span&gt; only to then use the opportunity to quote Ephesians 5:20:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center; font-style: italic; color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;"Speak to one another with psalms, hymns and spiritual songs.&lt;br /&gt;Sing and make music in your heart to the Lord, always giving thanks to God the Father for everything, in the name of our Lord Jesus Christ. "&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Or Philippians 4:6:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center; font-style: italic;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;“Be anxious for nothing, but in everything by prayer and supplication, with thanksgiving,&lt;br /&gt;let your requests be made known to God.”&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I do have to ask myself, "Do people quote these verses only for the value of being able to quote Scripture?  Or are they really living out the verse?"&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: right; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-style: italic;"&gt;Honestly, I don't always live out the verse.  Do you?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;It's probably a toss up&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt; -- some people do just like to put up a Bible verse.  But I give the benefit of the doubt to my Facebook friends.  Some of them truly are suffering &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;yet &lt;/span&gt;sincerely live out the act of thanksgiving!  And not-so-surprisingly, they are somehow supernaturally &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;guarded &lt;/span&gt;from the discouragement, despair, hollowness, and hopelessness that so many others dwell in . . . .&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I have Facebook friends enduring cancer treatments.  I have Facebook friends with terminally-ill children.  I have Facebook friends  who are military moms -- daily facing the uncertainty, uneasiness, and horror of our world's unstable political and military conditions.  I have Facebook friends who are in &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;true &lt;/span&gt;financial despair. I have a Facebook friend whose son was murdered last month. . .&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;Yet . . .&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt; in the midst of their suffering, they seem to possess a peace.  I really believe that the peace of Christ has guarded their hearts in the midst of some greatly undeserved suffering.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;The quandary of undeserved suffering&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt; is a puzzling mystery and an age-old question. Why does God allow the righteous to suffer? And why is it so hard for us to understand that resting in His peace is as easy as simply being &lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102); font-weight: bold;"&gt;Thankful?&lt;/span&gt;  It’s the question that the Book of Job addresses:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/SvBwJ9b4ilI/AAAAAAAADRQ/Z3IMtdE5QSI/s1600-h/job.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0pt 0pt 10px 10px; float: right; cursor: pointer; width: 180px; height: 200px;" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/SvBwJ9b4ilI/AAAAAAAADRQ/Z3IMtdE5QSI/s200/job.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5399939269629872722" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;In just a matter of hours&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt; an especially righteous and notably wealthy man loses &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;all&lt;/span&gt; of his material possessions, each of his children are killed, and his good health is snatched away from him.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Next, to add misery to despair, Job’s friends condemn him rather than console him.  And then his wife turns on him! Worst of all, the God he loves and serves refuses to answer his cries and rise to his defense and do something.  Anything!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;By the time&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt; we reach Chapter 38 in the Book of Job, we’ve come to appreciate the depth of Job’s affliction. We’ve wallowed in his misery, we’ve undeniably considered our own suffering, we’ve listened to Job's smart-aleck friends offer their own pretentious and useless wisdom, and we’ve perhaps ourselves questioned God’s role in the whole mess. At this point we are left pretty much famished for spiritual food and drink.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);font-size:180%;" &gt;Enter: &lt;span&gt;GOD.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;. . .Not through another “counselor,” but by direct revelation!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;God speaks for 70 verses&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt; in these next two chapters before Job has an opportunity to respond. And when he does, Job only mumbles words suggesting that God’s speech has undone him:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;font-size:100%;" &gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;"I am unworthy—how can I reply to you?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I put my hand over my mouth. &lt;/span&gt; &lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;I spoke once, but I have no answer—&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;twice, but I will say no more."&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51);"&gt;~ Job 40:3-5&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;font-size:180%;" &gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;Q:&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;  What is it in the words of Job Chapters 38 and 39 that evoke such a change from the defiant Job of &lt;a href="http://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Job%2031:35&amp;amp;version=NIV"&gt;Job 31:35&lt;/a&gt; to the abashed Job of &lt;a href="http://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Job%2040:3-4&amp;amp;version=NIV"&gt;Job 40:3&lt;/a&gt;?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/SvCDsooOoUI/AAAAAAAADRY/T4ZkY4gXPao/s1600-h/to_touch_heaven.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0pt 10px 10px 0pt; float: left; cursor: pointer; width: 200px; height: 146px;" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/SvCDsooOoUI/AAAAAAAADRY/T4ZkY4gXPao/s200/to_touch_heaven.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5399960756060856642" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;A:&lt;/span&gt; Speaking from a whirlwind&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt; of a mighty storm, God – surprisingly – does not answer any of Job’s questions. Instead of answering Job’s charge of abandonment, God challenges Job to respond as He defends the design of His creation and the very existence of the entire universe.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;As we read these poetic verses, it is obvious that God’s questions could not possibly be answered by any human. The Divine questions reveal to Job that he does not know the ways of God. And if Job is ignorant of the earth’s natural order, it’s ridiculous to think that he (or any human) could comprehend the moral order of God!!!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;There is a purpose&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt; in creation that God knows but Job does not.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);font-size:180%;" &gt;There is a purpose&lt;/span&gt; in human suffering that God knows but Job does not.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;God's great power and wisdom&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt; is certainly a contrast to Job's limited ability and understanding. Overwhelmed, Job admits his unworthiness and inability to answer. But, God is not through with Job yet. God continues for 53 more verses! You could say Job was silenced and humiliated by his own self-centeredness and pity.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Henry M. Morris writes these words&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102); font-style: italic;"&gt;. . . even Christians have become self-centered instead of God-centered. We emphasize personal Christianity, personal experience, self-image, inter-personal&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102); font-style: italic;"&gt; relationships, and what Jesus can do to meet our needs. All these have their place in the Christian life, but not when they relegate God and his purpose in creation to only a peripheral role. . . .&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: right;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic; color: rgb(51, 51, 51);"&gt;(The Remarkable Record of Job &lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51);"&gt;©1988&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic; color: rgb(51, 51, 51);"&gt;)&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;I would contend&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt; that most Christians in today's world have become so self-centered that we have completely and utterly forgotten to be &lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102); font-weight: bold;"&gt;THANKFUL&lt;/span&gt; for our very existence. We have forgotten to be &lt;span style="font-weight: bold; color: rgb(51, 102, 102);font-size:100%;" &gt;THANKFUL&lt;/span&gt; for the very existence of the universe.  We have forgotten to be &lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102); font-weight: bold;font-size:100%;" &gt;THANKFUL&lt;/span&gt; that God is GOD.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/SvCFmECpRlI/AAAAAAAADRg/7cjMBgITX5M/s1600-h/doxology.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0pt 0pt 10px 10px; float: right; cursor: pointer; width: 200px; height: 150px;" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/SvCFmECpRlI/AAAAAAAADRg/7cjMBgITX5M/s200/doxology.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5399962842183583314" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;. . . When faced with majesty and sovereignty and power and wisdom of GOD, there is little else to do but be thankful, to submit our suffering to Him, to rest &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;guardedly&lt;/span&gt; in his care.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;"Peace of Christ guards our heart when we pray with thanksgiving.&lt;br /&gt;A thankful heart is a guarded heart.”&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: right;"&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt; ~ Wayne Cordeiro&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: right;"&gt;~ Esthermay V. 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First, they have the problem that has troubled them – probably for quite some time -- for which they want a solution. &lt;/div&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt; &lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p style="text-align: left;" class="MsoNormal"&gt;But their second (often more pronounced) problem is the depressed, distressed, agitated attitude they have toward their problem: the frayed and burdened feelings they have about the problem that blocks their reasoning power and reduces them to a very narrow and rigid view of the problem.&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt; &lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p style="text-align: left;" class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;A good counselor&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt; knows that there is no use trying to address the person’s initial problem until you first solve the obvious problem they present: Themselves!&lt;span style=""&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p style="text-align: left;" class="MsoNormal"&gt;They need to be taught how to have peace.  If and when they can approach the initial problem with a sense of peace, the  dilemma unravels itself.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: left;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;Jesus said,&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;“Peace I leave with you; My peace I give to you; not as t&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;he world gives do I give to you. Do not let your heart be troubled, nor let it be fearful.” &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;~John 14:27 &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;This peace&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt; that Jesus gives is what a good counselor might well describe as "the ability to cope."&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/SuaYSqqGh8I/AAAAAAAADPw/8f4IanDycMQ/s1600-h/selfhelp.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0pt 0pt 10px 10px; float: right; cursor: pointer; width: 200px; height: 142px;" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/SuaYSqqGh8I/AAAAAAAADPw/8f4IanDycMQ/s200/selfhelp.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5397168649906063298" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;Yet, sadly,&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt; one of the spirituality-coated social phenomena of our culture is the &lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;self-help &lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;movement&lt;/span&gt;, wherein peace with ourselves and our circumstances and our past and our future is found miraculously in human achievement.  And way too often, when the self-help route takes too long, we resort to other measures like drugs -- prescription and otherwise.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);font-size:180%;" &gt;The self-help movement&lt;/span&gt; preserves the notion that somewhere and somehow there are secret powers out there that when honed can -- and do -- develop hidden abilities to bring us into a new and higher level of life and experience and spirituality. . .&lt;div style="text-align: right;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic; color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;. . . and blah blah blah.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I will say this straight-up: As a Christian counselor, I very much dislike the whole self-help movement.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;See, as long we remain in and of the world and apart from Jesus, we will never know the remarkable secret of HIS peace! Apart from Jesus, peace is just another humanistic pursuit.  We spend valuable time and resources  searching for and learning techniques and secrets and in the pursuit, are led farther and farther away from the real thing!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;Peace is the bequest&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt; of Jesus to His followers – the inheritance of true Christians.  Without HIM, we can only resort to self-help; and it is a pathetic substitution for the real thing.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;Q:  How does the world give peace?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style=""&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt; &lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;A:  &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;The self-help movement is a given.  And at the risk of being labeled judgmental and narrow-minded and other colorful things, (I've certainly already alienated the self-help crowd) I’m just going to say it:&lt;span style=""&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style=""&gt; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;Prescription drugs.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt; &lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/SucU4ODFouI/AAAAAAAADQI/JDhezNGEZVc/s1600-h/pills.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0pt 10px 10px 0pt; float: left; cursor: pointer; width: 200px; height: 133px;" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/SucU4ODFouI/AAAAAAAADQI/JDhezNGEZVc/s200/pills.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5397305634503107298" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;We’re all familiar&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt; with the scenario:&lt;span style=""&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;If/when we are altogether upset over something to the point of being unable to function normally – we probably visit our family doctor for help.&lt;span style=""&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;It’s just the way we’ve learned to do things in our culture.&lt;span style=""&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;We ask the doctor for help and he probably gives us some Zanax or Valium or Klonapin or Librium -- chemical peace! &lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt; &lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;But it wears off.&lt;span style=""&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;And we’re right back where we were before we took the pill. We have to take more until our mind is dulled and we are half-sedated. This is how the world gives peace.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;Oh!  Absolutely there are situations&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt; where pharmaceuticals are warranted.  There aren't too many Christian counselors that have a zero-tolerance policy toward prescription drugs.  We do live in a fallen world. But understand:  Pharmaceuticals are the WORLD's way to give peace.  Not God's!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/SucVLpTolNI/AAAAAAAADQQ/6Xa4I2nsWhc/s1600-h/passion-of-the-christ.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0pt 0pt 10px 10px; float: right; cursor: pointer; width: 165px; height: 200px;" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/SucVLpTolNI/AAAAAAAADQQ/6Xa4I2nsWhc/s200/passion-of-the-christ.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5397305968237778130" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;Consider God's Peace:  &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt; Consider the serenity with which Jesus moves through all the striking events of his last week on this earth.  Consider the moments He stood as a prisoner before Pilate and Herod and the chief priests and the angry mob.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Now consider the peace and  serenity He possessed and realize fully what he says . . .&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;"&lt;u&gt;My&lt;/u&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt; peace I give unto you."&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: right;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;In other words:&lt;br /&gt;"The peace I possess, I want to give to YOU.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;"&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;Jesus speaks here &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;of what Paul calls "peace that passes understanding" (&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;Philippians 4:7)&lt;/span&gt;. Events do not affect it.  Circumstances do not affect it.  Our past does not affect it.  Our uncertain future does not affect it.  Trials and tribulations do not affect it.  Other people do not affect it. Political upheaval does not effect it.  Economic turmoil does not affect it.  (Get the picture?)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: left;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt; Peace from Jesus is internal.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;  It is  not subject to anything external.    It is not subject to any self-help formula.  It is not contingent upon complimentary drug therapy.  It is a peace that is entirely baffling to the world, but freely imparted to the true believer.  It baffles the world because there is nothing scientific or medical or even "spiritual" &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;(in the word's definition)&lt;/span&gt; to explain it.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;The peace&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt; that "passes understanding" is ours because a part of the &lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;Triune God of the Universe&lt;/span&gt; dwells IN us.  And that Spirit in us  is able to handle and overcome every external problem in this world . . . .  We have complete and  &lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;TRUE PEACE.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;“Peace I leave with you; My peace I give to you; not as the world gives do I give to you. Do not let your heart be troubled, nor let it be fearful.” &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;~John 14:27 &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: left;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;Need Peace? It begins at the Cross:&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);" href="http://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Romans%205:1&amp;amp;version=NIV"&gt;Romans 5:1,&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);" href="http://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Romans%2010:15&amp;amp;version=KJV"&gt;Romans 10:15,&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);" href="http://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Ephesians%202:14&amp;amp;version=NIV"&gt;Ephesian 2:14,&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);" href="http://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Colossians%201:20&amp;amp;version=NIV"&gt;Colossians 1:20,&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);" href="http://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Isaiah%2026:3&amp;amp;version=NIV"&gt;Isaiah 26:3,&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: right;"&gt;~ Esthermay V. Bentley-Goossen&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;© 2009 The Heart of a Pastor's Wife&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;* * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * *&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: left;"&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://www.facebook.com/home.php#/group.php?gid=52290975388"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0pt 10px 10px 0pt; float: left; cursor: pointer; width: 70px; height: 95px;" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/Sootcfh-rNI/AAAAAAAAC8E/zECpcB6Vr2Q/s200/InOtherWords.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5371155473116343506" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:100%;"&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: left;"&gt;This installment of InOtherWords is hosted by &lt;a href="http://www.typingone-handed.com/2009/10/i-am-hosting-in-other-words-today-true.html"&gt;Patricia&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;on her blog, &lt;a href="http://www.typingone-handed.com/2009/10/i-am-hosting-in-other-words-today-true.html"&gt;Typing One Handed&lt;/a&gt;.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/17856112-981271368718318945?l=theheartofapastorswife.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://theheartofapastorswife.blogspot.com/feeds/981271368718318945/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=17856112&amp;postID=981271368718318945' title='15 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/17856112/posts/default/981271368718318945'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/17856112/posts/default/981271368718318945'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://theheartofapastorswife.blogspot.com/2009/10/self-help-vs-peace.html' title='Self-Help vs. PEACE . . .'/><author><name>Esthermay Bentley-Goossen</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/17353385912611151311</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='32' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-rXkJTzkh05w/Twy4o_DKmAI/AAAAAAAAEms/F5ct_u5V6dY/s220/profile%2Bpicture.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/SuaVh07VNCI/AAAAAAAADPo/I6McCx1ev8k/s72-c/counselor.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>15</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17856112.post-4601565361465049556</id><published>2009-10-22T16:44:00.001-04:00</published><updated>2009-10-22T13:01:04.059-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Can the Government Help Us?</title><content type='html'>&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/StzS-QdwXjI/AAAAAAAADJw/2NgldOaDnTE/s1600-h/gov2.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0pt 10px 10px 0pt; float: left; cursor: pointer; width: 200px; height: 100px;" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/StzS-QdwXjI/AAAAAAAADJw/2NgldOaDnTE/s200/gov2.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5394418420696505906" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;My nephew Jacob Bentley&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt; is conducting a survey for his Senior Government Class and he e-mailed me a link to a survey he'd set up on &lt;a href="http://www.surveymonkey.com/"&gt;SurveyMonkey.com&lt;/a&gt;.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I took his survey, but the open-ended essay question at the end of the survey absorbed me entirely.  Jacob asked, &lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102); font-weight: bold;"&gt;"What can the government do to help with problems like teen drinking, smoking, underage sex leading to unwanted pregnancies and STD's?"&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;You could say the question struck a nerve in me.   Because the truth is . . .&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);font-size:180%;" &gt;There is very little - if anything -&lt;/span&gt;  the government can do at this point in our country's history to "fix" the issues of teen drinking, smoking, underage sex leading to unwanted pregnancies, STD's, etc.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Each of these issues is a matter of personal responsibility which choices are based entirely upon one's own moral compass.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;There is no moral compass&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt; provided by the "government."   The one and only moral compass provided to us as human beings was removed from the public school system by the "government" decades ago.  The willful rejection of the Bible as our source of divine authority is a direct cause of the current state of immorality in our country.  In the years that followed -- and continuing to this day -- the Bible and the Gospel of Jesus Christ continues to be persecuted, eliminated, and otherwise rejected by both our government and society as a whole.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;In the early public schools&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt; of this country, the BIBLE was one of the main textbooks -- if not the &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;only &lt;/span&gt;textbook.  But on June 17, 1963 in Abington vs. Schempp, the United States Supreme Court removed the BIBLE and it's readings from public education.  The matters suggested in Jacob's question are a direct result of this decision.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/StzR_avkb1I/AAAAAAAADJY/POvoOdNCXOI/s1600-h/chartdisease.gif"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0pt 0pt 10px 10px; float: right; cursor: pointer; width: 137px; height: 200px;" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/StzR_avkb1I/AAAAAAAADJY/POvoOdNCXOI/s200/chartdisease.gif" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5394417341123817298" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;Data from the Center for Disease Control and Department of Health and Human Resources and Human Services and Statistical/Abstracts of United States PROVE that  rape, murder, alcohol abuse, robbery, suicide, gang warfare, assault, absenteeism, pregnancies, burglary, vandalism, abortions, arson, extortion, venereal disease, bombings, and drug abuse have SKYROCKETED since 1963.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;Not so surprisingly,&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt; all of society including media, entertainment, criminal behavior, family trends, etc.  (even the behaviors of those claiming to be "Christians")  have followed the trend.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/StzSZAMSl3I/AAAAAAAADJg/1RaZUH0zYKU/s1600-h/noahwebster.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0pt 10px 10px 0pt; float: left; cursor: pointer; width: 176px; height: 200px;" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/StzSZAMSl3I/AAAAAAAADJg/1RaZUH0zYKU/s200/noahwebster.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5394417780673124210" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;When it came to education,&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt; Noah Webster (of Webster's Dictionary  fame) stated: "Education is useless without the  BIBLE  . God's word, contained in the BIBLE  , has furnished all necessary rules to direct our conduct."&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The apostle Paul said, "all the treasures of wisdom and knowledge" (Colossians 2:3) are hid in Christ Jesus. Education without Christ, who is "The Word of God" (Revelation 19:13, &amp;amp; John 1:1-3) will be void of the wealth of wisdom and knowledge that comes only from our Creator.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/StzSrR5DmmI/AAAAAAAADJo/1I_TVtggyqo/s1600-h/declaration_400x300_image.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0pt 0pt 10px 10px; float: right; cursor: pointer; width: 200px; height: 150px;" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/StzSrR5DmmI/AAAAAAAADJo/1I_TVtggyqo/s200/declaration_400x300_image.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5394418094661933666" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;The ONLY thing&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt; government should be doing to fix the issues suggested in Jacob's question is to humble itself before God and return to the fundamental documents on which our country was founded: The Declaration of Independence, The U.S. Constitution and the Bill of Rights.  Virtually every one of the ten articles contained in the Bill of Rights has &lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102); font-weight: bold;"&gt;Biblical foundation.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Even America's constitutional form of government consisting of three co-equal branches, legislative, executive and judicial is taken directly from Isaiah 33:22.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;Our current government&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt; -- including our lawmakers, our court systems, and the current presidential administration -- is completely ignoring and egregiously violating the laws and principles contained in our founding documents.  As such, our lawmakers have destroyed the country. . . .&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;font-size:130%;" &gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;There is a way that seems right to a man, &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;but in the end it leads to death.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51);"&gt;~Proverbs 16:25&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;font-size:130%;" &gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;"The fool says in his heart, "There is no God."&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51);"&gt;~Psalm 14:1&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: right;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51);"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0);font-size:100%;" &gt;~ Esthermay V. Bentley-Goossen&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;font-size:85%;" &gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51);"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0);font-size:100%;" &gt;© 2009 The Heart of a Pastor's Wife&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/17856112-4601565361465049556?l=theheartofapastorswife.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://theheartofapastorswife.blogspot.com/feeds/4601565361465049556/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=17856112&amp;postID=4601565361465049556' title='10 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/17856112/posts/default/4601565361465049556'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/17856112/posts/default/4601565361465049556'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://theheartofapastorswife.blogspot.com/2009/10/can-government-help-us.html' title='Can the Government Help Us?'/><author><name>Esthermay Bentley-Goossen</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/17353385912611151311</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='32' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-rXkJTzkh05w/Twy4o_DKmAI/AAAAAAAAEms/F5ct_u5V6dY/s220/profile%2Bpicture.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/StzS-QdwXjI/AAAAAAAADJw/2NgldOaDnTE/s72-c/gov2.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>10</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17856112.post-4608984790088821727</id><published>2009-08-18T00:30:00.020-04:00</published><updated>2009-08-18T09:30:41.831-04:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='In Other Words'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='God&apos;s Word'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Epehsians 6'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='John Calvin'/><title type='text'>Are We Defending God's Truth? Or Tolerating the Enemy's Lies . . . </title><content type='html'>&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/Sone3_kF2MI/AAAAAAAAC7k/H3sq61yU79U/s1600-h/dog_barking.JPG"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0pt 10px 10px 0pt; float: left; cursor: pointer; width: 205px; height: 136px;" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/Sone3_kF2MI/AAAAAAAAC7k/H3sq61yU79U/s200/dog_barking.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5371069084153010370" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;"A&lt;/span&gt; &lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;dog barks when his master is attacked.&lt;br /&gt;I would be a coward if I saw that God's truth is attacked and yet would remain silent."&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: right;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 102, 102);font-size:85%;" &gt;~ John Calvin&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;. . . It's sorta' the theme of my entire blog.  &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;(See the definition of &lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;Apologia &lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;in scrolling text of the header.)&lt;/span&gt;  And I have learned over the years that one of the most challenging places to stand firm and defend the truth of God's Word is in the company of other church-goers.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: right;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic; color: rgb(102, 102, 102);"&gt;Are you tilting yo&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic; color: rgb(102, 102, 102);"&gt;ur head wondering, "uHmmm??!"&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;It doesn't take &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;too many clicks of your television remote, or even a trip through a grocery store checkout aisle, to be convinced that we live in a time of complete spiritual confusion and blind exploration.  Satan has indeed conquered the world in terms of winning it over.  Which makes one of Satan's most preferred workplaces in our current culture -- the "church."  The spiritual confusion is just as readily found inside the church as it is outside the church.  Just because you're sitting in a church building does not mean you are surrounded by Bible-believing saints!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center; color: rgb(51, 102, 102); font-style: italic;"&gt;"The god of this age has blinded the minds of unbelievers,&lt;br /&gt;so that they cannot see the light of the Gospel . . . "&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: right;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 102, 102);"&gt;~ II Corinthians 4:4&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;Peer pressure&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt; within the Christian world to "match-up" our faith with fellow Christians is great.   And the pressure to accept and &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;tolerate&lt;/span&gt; ideas and doctrines and theories that are flat-out against God's Word is rampant.  Satan has become very proficient at working within this subset of culture known as the Evangelical Church.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Making matters worse in the fact that so few churches really offer expository preaching/teaching &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;from&lt;/span&gt; the Bible anymore -- nor do they teach people how to &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;study&lt;/span&gt; the Bible.  One well-known mainstream Christian pastor has admitted that certain passages of Scripture are offensive to his followers and he will not preach from them.  How can Christians defend something they are not familiar with?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;The Result:&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;  Satan has been given  a place of honor in the life of every Christian who is unable to or refuses to defend God's Word.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/SonqqUgR0-I/AAAAAAAAC7s/rJyB56sjBR8/s1600-h/harry-potter2.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0pt 0pt 10px 10px; float: right; cursor: pointer; width: 200px; height: 150px;" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/SonqqUgR0-I/AAAAAAAAC7s/rJyB56sjBR8/s200/harry-potter2.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5371082043395527650" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;Take the Harry Potter&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt; craze for an example.  The Bible is very clear about the sin of witchcraft, abstaining from the appearance of evil, and about casting down imaginations that exalt themselves against the knowledge of God.   End of discussion.&lt;div style="text-align: right;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 102, 102); font-style: italic;"&gt;Or is it?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;Satan's job&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt; is to attack God's Word and to twist it and to confuse its true message and cause Christians to accept or &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;tolerate &lt;/span&gt;the &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;un&lt;/span&gt;truths and he does not rest in his quest to achieve this goal.  Enter: J.K. Rowling.  How many Christian kids do you know who are fans of J.K. Rowling and her Harry Potter series?  And how many Christian parents do you know who &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;tolerate  &lt;/span&gt;it.  Whose fault is this?&lt;div style="text-align: right;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 102, 102); font-style: italic;"&gt;The parents?&lt;br /&gt;The church?&lt;br /&gt;The pastor?&lt;br /&gt;How about anyone who sees God's Truth attacked and remains silent!?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;What about the self-help industry?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;  Consumer psychology and the self-help industry are among the biggest money generators in our society.  And the biggest problem in the self-help industry is that many (not all) promoters make false promises.  They promise hugely unrealistic results, as if reading a single book or attending a single seminar will produce all the permanent changes you need to make your life absolutely perfect.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/SonsH6l-dII/AAAAAAAAC70/01IPlnuBHMk/s1600-h/selfhelplies.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0pt 10px 10px 0pt; float: left; cursor: pointer; width: 200px; height: 125px;" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/SonsH6l-dII/AAAAAAAAC70/01IPlnuBHMk/s200/selfhelplies.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5371083651347805314" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;Yet Christians still purchase these products as frequently as non-Christians because they really want to believe the marketers are telling the truth.  And probably more notably, people are keenly aware that they do indeed need help.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;For the most part&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;,  secular psychology has attacked if not completely dismissed God's Word.  And lamentably, many Christians have accepted it.  And if they haven't accepted secular psychology for their own lives, they have learned to accept and  &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;tolerate&lt;/span&gt; it in the lives of their friends and family .&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;If &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;ever&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;y &lt;/span&gt;God-fearing Christian (there is no other kind) would stand up for God's Word and God's plan for psychological wholeness, the self-help industry would most certainly go broke!  &lt;a href="http://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Romans%203:23-24;&amp;amp;version=31;"&gt;Romans 3:23-24&lt;/a&gt; says more about self-improvement than 10,000 self-help books.   But until God's Truth is spoken and defended and accepted and one's attitude is changed, Satan wins the battle and God's Word is not only attacked, but dismissed.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;How many Christian friends do you know who are caught up in secular psychology?  Whose fault is this?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: right;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 102, 102); font-style: italic;"&gt;The psychologist?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 102, 102); font-style: italic;"&gt;The person's friends?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 102, 102); font-style: italic;"&gt;Family?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 102, 102); font-style: italic;"&gt;The church?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 102, 102); font-style: italic;"&gt;How about anyone who sees God's Truth attacked and remains silent!?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/SooOgrN_FWI/AAAAAAAAC78/tEtT1PWtkug/s1600-h/politicalprotest.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0pt 0pt 10px 10px; float: right; cursor: pointer; width: 200px; height: 120px;" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/SooOgrN_FWI/AAAAAAAAC78/tEtT1PWtkug/s200/politicalprotest.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5371121460112725346" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;Let's talk politics.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: right;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 102, 102); font-style: italic;"&gt;Okay. . .  second thought, let's not.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;But surely you can fill in the blanks here.  To try and put GOD and the Truth of HIS Word into the confining and humanistic box of politics makes Him a very,&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;very&lt;/span&gt; small God.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;Yet . . . &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt; it is abundantly clear that our current political climate has made a mockery of God's Truth on everything from the value of human life itself to the work ethic of those who &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;are&lt;/span&gt; allowed to live.  Whose fault is this?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: right;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 102, 102); font-style: italic;"&gt;The politicians?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 102, 102); font-style: italic;"&gt;The President?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 102, 102); font-style: italic;"&gt;The church?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 102, 102); font-style: italic;"&gt;How about anyone who sees God's Truth attacked and remains silent?!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;When Ch&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;ristians choose&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt; to remain silent when  God's Word is attacked, we have effectively learned to accept and &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;tolerate&lt;/span&gt; the Enemy's lies and  Satan does indeed gain a foothold; and this primes the church for accepting the New Age Movement much more easily.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Sure . . . as "good Christians" we can pick and choose our causes.  We can rail against abortion or  pre-marital sex or witchcraft or even Mormonism or Catholicism.  Some of us even like to take on  "false versions" of the Bible in order to gain credibility as a "real Christian."  Our individuality does drive  us to hand-pick what we will defend from God's Word.  But this is NOT what the Gospel calls us to do!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;Christians &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;must "bark" when our Master is attacked.  On any subject. If we don't, then Satan wins another battle and God's Word is not only attacked, but eventually dismissed altogether.  And then . . . what's the point?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);font-size:130%;" &gt;"A dog barks when his master is attacked.&lt;br /&gt;I would be a coward if I saw that God's truth is attacked&lt;br /&gt;and yet would remain silent."&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: right;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 102, 102);font-size:85%;" &gt;~ John Calvin&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;"Therefore put on the full armor of God, so that when the day of evil comes,&lt;br /&gt;you may be able to stand your ground, and after you have done everything,&lt;br /&gt;to stand.  Stand firm then, with the belt of truth buckled around your waist. . . "&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;~Ephesians 6:13-14&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: right;"&gt;~ Esthermay V. 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The "Yada, Yada, Yada" episode.  Surely you remember it . . . .&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;George is -- as usual -- overanxious and sensitive.  He is concerned about his girlfriend's use of the phrase, "yada, yada, yada," as a way of getting past what to her are meaningless details.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Alas, Elaine steps in to reassure George . . .&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: right; color: rgb(102, 102, 102);"&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;George&lt;/span&gt;: &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt; You don't think she'd yada yada sex?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;Elaine&lt;/span&gt;: &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;I've yada yada'd sex.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;George&lt;/span&gt;: &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;Really?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;Elaine&lt;/span&gt;: &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;Yeah, I met this guy. We went out to dinner.  I had the lobster bisque.  We went back to his place. Yada, y&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;ada, yada. I never heard from him again.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;Jerry&lt;/span&gt;: &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;But you yada yada'd over the best part.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;Elaine&lt;/span&gt;: &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;No. I mentioned the bisque.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/SoCH4u3ghKI/AAAAAAAAC5U/ew-5IsqEvEo/s1600-h/yadayadayada.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0pt 0pt 10px 10px; float: right; cursor: pointer; width: 200px; height: 151px;" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/SoCH4u3ghKI/AAAAAAAAC5U/ew-5IsqEvEo/s200/yadayadayada.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5368440164548904098" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;Needless to say,&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt; Seinfeld fans everywhere have forever secured "Yada, Yada, Yada" in their unconscious thesaurus as a synonym for &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;sex.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Kinda' ironic since the Hebrew word "yada" refers to "knowing" another so  intimately and completely that it is a Jewish idiom for sexual intercourse.  We read in Genesis 4:1 that "&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;Adam knew&lt;/span&gt;" ("yada") &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;Eve his wife; and she&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt; conceived and bare Cain....&lt;/span&gt;"&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;Forgive my sacrilege,&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt; but this is precisely how too many Christians have come to describe the most important, personal and relational aspect of being a Christian -- Salvation.   For the most part, we "yada, yada, yada" over the actual salvation experience, racing right past (or skipping altogether) the acceptance of our depravity before a Holy God and the cultivating of an intimate and deep relationship with the only ONE that can save us from our sin and depravity.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;A great number of churches today confuse human intellect and the ability to &lt;u style="font-style: italic;"&gt;act&lt;/u&gt; like a Christian and &lt;u style="font-style: italic;"&gt;think&lt;/u&gt; like a Christian and &lt;u style="font-style: italic;"&gt;perform&lt;/u&gt; like a Christian for the real thing!  The defining characteristic of a Christian is not necessarily a lifestyle (or &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;lack of &lt;/span&gt;a certain [undesirable] lifestyle), but a relationship with Christ Jesus as Savior.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Our ability to rationalize and convince others we are a "Christian" by the way we &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;act&lt;/span&gt; and &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;think &lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;and &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;s&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;peak &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;and &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;behave &lt;/span&gt;and &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;dress &lt;/span&gt;and &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;vote&lt;/span&gt; and how we spend our &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;time&lt;/span&gt; and &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;money&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt; is a hilarious substitute for the real thing.  A substitute with eternal consequences.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);font-size:130%;" &gt;French philosopher&lt;/span&gt; René Descartes coined the phrase, &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;Cognito, ergo sum&lt;/span&gt;, translated: &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;I think, therefore I am.  &lt;/span&gt;Yeah, I've seen the various humor-indulged versions: &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: right;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 102, 102);"&gt;I think, therefore I&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 102, 102);"&gt; imac,  &lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic; color: rgb(102, 102, 102);"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I think, therefore I vote Repub&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic; color: rgb(102, 102, 102);"&gt;lican, &lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 102, 102);"&gt;etc.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Funny.  But while our ability to think and reason and behave does indeed set us apart from the rest of Creation and make us unique among other human beings, a biblical understanding that we are created in the image of God makes us relational beings as well!  Like our Creator, we have been created in such a way that we require both human and Divine connection.   So much so that lack of connectedness (or &lt;span style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;"&gt;loneliness&lt;/span&gt;) truly is a critical state of existence!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/SoCThaRFB5I/AAAAAAAAC5c/0f_ChXIGQpc/s1600-h/separated_sm.png"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0pt 10px 10px 0pt; float: left; cursor: pointer; width: 148px; height: 142px;" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/SoCThaRFB5I/AAAAAAAAC5c/0f_ChXIGQpc/s200/separated_sm.png" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5368452958021552018" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;A&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;nd . . . &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic; color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;[This&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic; color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt; is key:]&lt;/span&gt; a complete and full understanding of our condition before God shows us that it is not fellow human beings that we are disconnected from, but &lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102); font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;"&gt;God Himself!!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: left;"&gt;Hence:  The entire unfolding of the Plan of Salvation beginning in the Book of Genesis when human beings became &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;lost&lt;/span&gt; and &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;alone&lt;/span&gt; and &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;cut-off&lt;/span&gt; and &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;secluded&lt;/span&gt; and &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;forlorn&lt;/span&gt; and &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;abandoned&lt;/span&gt;. . . . &lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 102, 102);"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: right;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 102, 102);"&gt;Hey!  All synonyms for . . .  &lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic; color: rgb(102, 102, 102);"&gt;lonliness!&lt;br /&gt;...So basically, &lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0);"&gt;loneliness &lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic; color: rgb(102, 102, 102);"&gt;defines the human condition!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);font-size:130%;" &gt;“R&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;ather than turn from loneliness,&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;what if &lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;we turned toward it?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;Could it be that loneliness is not a curse. . .&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;but a gift?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;A gift from God?”&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: right;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 102, 102);"&gt;~Max Lucado&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: left;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/SoDnayAZBuI/AAAAAAAAC5s/HMrVSIVHv_Q/s1600-h/handofgod.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0pt 0pt 10px 10px; float: right; cursor: pointer; width: 200px; height: 123px;" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/SoDnayAZBuI/AAAAAAAAC5s/HMrVSIVHv_Q/s200/handofgod.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5368545203111659234" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;Is loneliness a "gift"&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt; from the Creator sent that we might find a greater gift? The gift of Genuine Salvation? Salvation by Grace Alone? Salvation apart from our own ability to do anything?  Even our ability to think and reason and rationalize . . . and perform?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;I think so . . .&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I also think that the pseudo-loneliness that we feel when we are physically apart from -- or without -- friends and loved ones is &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;greatly &lt;/span&gt;diminished when we can truly rest in the arms of our Savior.  We all know "lonely" people who have found immense joy in their Salvation.  Joy that quashes human "loneliness." These people are not lonely - they are &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;alone&lt;/span&gt;.  There is a big difference.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: right;"&gt;Then . . .&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;To confirm it -- this:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I read this Status Update on my Facebook over the weekend and I just had to wrinkle my forehead a bit at its implications . . .&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: left;"&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/SoB0PDowP_I/AAAAAAAAC5E/pXjJ-AERK8I/s1600-h/facebook-logosquare.png"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0pt 10px 10px 0pt; float: left; cursor: pointer; width: 65px; height: 65px;" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/SoB0PDowP_I/AAAAAAAAC5E/pXjJ-AERK8I/s200/facebook-logosquare.png" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5368418557848731634" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold; color: rgb(0, 0, 153);"&gt;Facebook Friend&lt;/span&gt; lol oh!  I mean L-O-N-E-L-Y.  So &lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 102, 102);font-size:85%;" &gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;[bleep]&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt; lonely. I'm hyper bored and so lonely  layin in bed watchin tv and doing computer. FB is all I have.  i should sleep but it’s too early.  I’m just so lonely it hurts feels like i ant gonna find any friends ever.  It hurts&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: left;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 102, 102);"&gt;Sat at 7:41pm&lt;/span&gt; &lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 102, 102);"&gt;·&lt;/span&gt; &lt;span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 153);"&gt;Comment&lt;/span&gt; &lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 102, 102);"&gt;·&lt;/span&gt; &lt;span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 153);"&gt;Like&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: left;"&gt;I think my Facebook Friend has recieved the gift of lonliness, but hasn't yet unwrapped it . . . .&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: right;"&gt;~ Esthermay V. Bentley-Goossen&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;font-size:85%;" &gt;© 2009 The Heart of a Pastor's Wife&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:78%;"&gt;[This article also submitted for outside publication]&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: left;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;This installment of InOtherWords is hosted by &lt;a href="http://writingcanvas.wordpress.com/"&gt;Loni&lt;/a&gt; on her blog, &lt;a href="http://writingcanvas.wordpress.com/"&gt;Writing Canvas&lt;/a&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/17856112-1137803302515930178?l=theheartofapastorswife.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://theheartofapastorswife.blogspot.com/feeds/1137803302515930178/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=17856112&amp;postID=1137803302515930178' title='17 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/17856112/posts/default/1137803302515930178'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/17856112/posts/default/1137803302515930178'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://theheartofapastorswife.blogspot.com/2009/08/loneliness-and-yada-yada-yada.html' title='Loneliness . . .&lt;br&gt;&lt;/br&gt;. . . and &lt;i&gt;&quot;Yada, Yada, Yada&quot;&lt;/i&gt;'/><author><name>Esthermay Bentley-Goossen</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/17353385912611151311</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='32' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-rXkJTzkh05w/Twy4o_DKmAI/AAAAAAAAEms/F5ct_u5V6dY/s220/profile%2Bpicture.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/SoB-5CfCutI/AAAAAAAAC5M/8nOpXFzMwEM/s72-c/loneliness2.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>17</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17856112.post-1850361895090629022</id><published>2009-06-29T20:27:00.006-04:00</published><updated>2009-06-29T20:35:50.715-04:00</updated><title type='text'>I'll Be Back . . . This Blogger has. . . </title><content type='html'>&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;Gone Fishing!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/SklcInaupMI/AAAAAAAACvU/b2u2qO2vTdI/s1600-h/GoneFishingDog.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 320px; height: 249px;" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/SklcInaupMI/AAAAAAAACvU/b2u2qO2vTdI/s320/GoneFishingDog.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5352910935196345538" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;Summer in Minnesota is so short . . . &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;I'll be back blogging soon enough.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;Have a GREAT SUMMER, Friends!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/17856112-1850361895090629022?l=theheartofapastorswife.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://theheartofapastorswife.blogspot.com/feeds/1850361895090629022/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=17856112&amp;postID=1850361895090629022' title='9 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/17856112/posts/default/1850361895090629022'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/17856112/posts/default/1850361895090629022'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://theheartofapastorswife.blogspot.com/2009/06/ill-be-back-this-blogger-has.html' title='I&apos;ll Be Back . . . &lt;br&gt;&lt;/br&gt;&lt;i&gt;This Blogger has. . . &lt;/i&gt;'/><author><name>Esthermay Bentley-Goossen</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/17353385912611151311</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='32' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-rXkJTzkh05w/Twy4o_DKmAI/AAAAAAAAEms/F5ct_u5V6dY/s220/profile%2Bpicture.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/SklcInaupMI/AAAAAAAACvU/b2u2qO2vTdI/s72-c/GoneFishingDog.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>9</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17856112.post-1391600679424943967</id><published>2009-05-19T00:00:00.009-04:00</published><updated>2009-05-19T03:22:53.779-04:00</updated><title type='text'>In Other Words . . .  So What if I Fall?The Heart of Diety Never Takes His Eyes Off of Me . . .</title><content type='html'>&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/ShI7JYs_GoI/AAAAAAAAChc/JZJan7E98s8/s1600-h/land.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0pt 10px 10px 0pt; float: left; cursor: pointer; width: 200px; height: 150px;" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/ShI7JYs_GoI/AAAAAAAAChc/JZJan7E98s8/s200/land.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5337393540823456386" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;font-size:100%;" &gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;“What if I stumble, what if I fall?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;What if I lose my step and I make fools of us all?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;Will the love continue when my walk&lt;br /&gt;becomes a crawl?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;What if I stumble, and what if I fall?”&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: right;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51);"&gt;Chorus from the song, "&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic; color: rgb(51, 51, 51);"&gt;What if I stumble?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51);"&gt;"&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51);"&gt;Artist: &lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic; color: rgb(51, 51, 51);"&gt;DC Talk&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51);"&gt; / Album: &lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic; color: rgb(51, 51, 51);"&gt;Intermission&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;It's a phenomenon I've noticed&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt; often in Contemporary Christian Music: &lt;br /&gt;So much use of the word "I."&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Why so much focus on ME?   So what if I fall?   It's a given that I will.  And yes, His Great Love will go on even when my walk becomes a crawl.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;See, there is not a soul since the beginning of the world that has not stumbled.  We all fall and make fools of&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt; all &lt;/span&gt;mankind.  It's our nature.  Yet God sees each and every one.  Every time. Everywhere. He's the Creator!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;font-size:130%;" &gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;It is a land the Lord your God cares for; the eyes of the Lord our God are continually on it from the beginning of the year to its end.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51);font-size:85%;" &gt;- Deuteronomy 11:12&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;What land?  What year?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt; It was around the year 1400 B.C. It was the Land of &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;Milk and Honey&lt;/span&gt;: The Promised Land. And in the context of this passage in Deuteronomy, the Israelites are being equipped to set out and possess the land. They did not yet physically control the land – their right to the territory hadn’t yet materialized. Yet they already seemed to have power over this land through eyes of faith.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: right; color: rgb(51, 51, 51);"&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;I'm fairly certain they were &lt;/span&gt;&lt;u style="font-style: italic;"&gt;not&lt;/u&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt; listening to DC Talk on thier IPods.&lt;br /&gt;They were not worried about "falling."&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;And guess what? This same beautiful illustration is -- should be -- ours in 2009: God’s caring and attentive eyes are always looking upon us. And we - like the Israelites - can put our concerns and uneasiness into God’s hand of infinite grace and possess strength to face the yet-unseen future.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;“The eyes of the Lord…”&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt; What precisely does that mean? Surely it is more than just Omniscience. I don't know for certain. But let’s just envision the delight and enchantment in the eyes of a loving and devoted parent as they watch their young child achieve something for the very first time.   Let's say: &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;walking&lt;/span&gt;!  (Lots of stumbling and falling here.)  Do you see in your mind's eye the deep love of God’s eyes as He watches His creation stumble and fall . . . and learn?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;This &lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic; color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;looking-after&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt; is not delegated&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt; to some other heavenly creature.  The Bible does not tell us that the eyes of the&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt; angels&lt;/span&gt; are watching over us.  God Himself watches us! The heart of Deity looks after us! And he never stops watching after us. This special watch-care is unbroken. It’s continuous. This unwearied power of God toward His people has been uninterrupted since the creation of the world! No human effort, no lyricist, no gifted writer, no dramatist could ever sufficiently make plain or explain God’s watch-care over His own.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;He watches each of us with personal interest and He absolutely sees us stumble and fall-- knowing full well that the ensuing bruises only teach us better how to walk when we get up and continue on . . . .&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);font-size:180%;" &gt;It’s time we switched&lt;/span&gt; to the flip side of all the songs and lyrics that focus on "&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;I&lt;/span&gt;."  We need to take an honest look at &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;our&lt;/span&gt; &lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102); font-weight: bold;"&gt;eyes&lt;/span&gt;.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;If God is ceaselessly and unwarily watching us, should not our eyes be upon Him? Constantly?!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/ShI5xpTM27I/AAAAAAAAChU/lPwWiS9rWTA/s1600-h/fall.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0pt 0pt 10px 10px; float: right; cursor: pointer; width: 200px; height: 143px;" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/ShI5xpTM27I/AAAAAAAAChU/lPwWiS9rWTA/s200/fall.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5337392033450220466" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;Sad thing is&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt; I’m afraid we don’t even come close. We get caught up in our days -- setting our sights on the temporal and the frivolous – and we don’t look for Him or see Him at all.  And that's when we ask,&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center; color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;"What if I stumble, what if I fall?"&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: right;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;~ Esthermay V. Bentley-Goossen&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:georgia;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:georgia;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:100%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;font-size:85%;" &gt;© 2009 The Heart of a Pastor's Wife&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;This installment of &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;InOtherWords&lt;/span&gt; is hosted by &lt;a href="http://mipasmonologue.blogspot.com/"&gt;Miriam&lt;/a&gt; on her blog, &lt;a href="http://mipasmonologue.blogspot.com/"&gt;Miriam Pauline's Monolouge&lt;/a&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/17856112-1391600679424943967?l=theheartofapastorswife.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://theheartofapastorswife.blogspot.com/feeds/1391600679424943967/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=17856112&amp;postID=1391600679424943967' title='21 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/17856112/posts/default/1391600679424943967'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/17856112/posts/default/1391600679424943967'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://theheartofapastorswife.blogspot.com/2009/05/so-what-if-i-fall-heart-of-diety-never.html' title='In Other Words . . .  So What if I Fall?&lt;br&gt;&lt;/br&gt;The Heart of Diety Never Takes His Eyes Off of Me . . .'/><author><name>Esthermay Bentley-Goossen</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/17353385912611151311</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='32' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-rXkJTzkh05w/Twy4o_DKmAI/AAAAAAAAEms/F5ct_u5V6dY/s220/profile%2Bpicture.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/ShI7JYs_GoI/AAAAAAAAChc/JZJan7E98s8/s72-c/land.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>21</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17856112.post-8219075074907152680</id><published>2009-05-06T06:35:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2009-05-06T11:32:15.697-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Problems or Pearls . . .</title><content type='html'>&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: right;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://photos1.blogger.com/blogger/3030/1443/1600/oyster.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0px 10px 10px 0px; float: left;" alt="" src="http://photos1.blogger.com/blogger/3030/1443/320/oyster.jpg" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;T&lt;/span&gt;he little pearl oyster receiving accidentally into its shell a rough fragment of rock or sand tries in vain to expel the intruding and irritant substance and only suffers in the struggle until rasped and bleeding it gives up in agony and helplessness. Then a new force comes into play. From its peculiar physiological system the little mollusk sends forth a crystal fluid which covers and coats the rough piece of rock with a soft crystalline cushion and as this grows and hardens it becomes a beautiful pearl. It ceases to irritate and soothes and rests the wounded side of the little creature until the curse has become a blessing, and some days later the pearl fisher discovers the hidden treasure, opens the shell and takes forth a gem of purest luster and boundless value which is worn in the coronets of kings and adorns the highest rank and grandest occasions. So someday our sorrows, irritations and wrongs, having first been sweetened by the Holy Spirit into heavenly virtues, will become the jewels of an immortal crown and will shine in the diadem of Jesus and adorn our brow forever!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: right;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;~ A. B. Simpson&lt;em&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:georgia;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:100%;"&gt;&lt;div align="justify"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;A.B. Simpson’s words&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt; are tender and poignant. The pearl oyster embodies so many human problems, sorrows, and emotional suffering. Like the oyster, we encounter “irritants,” but we have a tendency to try and avoid them. We’re human – it’s inborn.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Christian counselors will tell you that the basis of almost all mental illness is the tendency to &lt;em&gt;avoid &lt;/em&gt;problems and the emotional suffering inherent in them. It was renowned physician Carl Jung who said, “Neurosis is always a substitute for legitimate suffering. “&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;The tragedy,&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt; of course, is that the substitute for our suffering ultimately becomes more painful that the original suffering we are trying to avoid! Does this explain why the wisest saints among us are often the people who endure pain rather than escape it? These saints are men and woman who are “acquainted with grief.” I believe this describes Job. How about our Savior Jesus Christ?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;“He is despised and rejected of men; a man of sorrows,&lt;br /&gt;and acquainted with grief." &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 102, 102);font-size:85%;" &gt;&lt;span&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:georgia;"&gt;~ Isaiah 53:3&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;em style="color: rgb(102, 102, 102);"&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;em style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;em style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;“…yet learned he obedience by the things which he suffered.” &lt;/em&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 102, 102);font-size:85%;" &gt;~ Hebrews 5:8&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;Are you trying to avoid &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;problems and the suffering that comes with them? Maybe you have several dozen problems today. If you listen to the voices around you, you’ll search for a substitute – an escape route. You’ll miss the fact that your problems are God-appointed – fashioned to stretch you and challenge you and deepen your walk with Him. Growth and wisdom come with each irritating-piece-of-sand-kind-of-a-problem. And what emerges is an exquisite gem of purest luster and boundless value!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:100%;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:100%;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div align="right"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:georgia;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:100%;"&gt;- Esthermay V. Bentley-Goossen&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;font-size:85%;" &gt;© 2009 The Heart of a Pastor's Wife&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/17856112-8219075074907152680?l=theheartofapastorswife.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://theheartofapastorswife.blogspot.com/feeds/8219075074907152680/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=17856112&amp;postID=8219075074907152680' title='9 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/17856112/posts/default/8219075074907152680'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/17856112/posts/default/8219075074907152680'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://theheartofapastorswife.blogspot.com/2009/05/problems-or-pearls.html' title='Problems or Pearls . . .'/><author><name>Esthermay Bentley-Goossen</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/17353385912611151311</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='32' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-rXkJTzkh05w/Twy4o_DKmAI/AAAAAAAAEms/F5ct_u5V6dY/s220/profile%2Bpicture.jpg'/></author><thr:total>9</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17856112.post-5680711871526349151</id><published>2009-05-05T00:40:00.002-04:00</published><updated>2009-05-05T19:18:22.380-04:00</updated><title type='text'>In Other Words: Find me Faithful. . . </title><content type='html'>&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/SgC_qY-yROI/AAAAAAAACd0/9CNK6mjKrek/s1600-h/prayinghands.JPG"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0pt 10px 10px 0pt; float: left; cursor: pointer; width: 200px; height: 122px;" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/SgC_qY-yROI/AAAAAAAACd0/9CNK6mjKrek/s200/prayinghands.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5332472693787870434" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);font-size:180%;" &gt;“M&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);font-size:130%;" &gt;ordecai understood that it is not failure that brings despair, but unfaithfulness and idleness.” &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: right;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;~Dorothy Patterson,  &lt;/span&gt;Editor&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;Women’s Devotional Bible Devotion: &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;Service Through Providence&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;I recently celebrated&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt; a birthday; and like most people my age, I no longer count years.  Not so much because the numbers is too high, but because the years don't seem to match-up with my successes.  While I have succeeded at things that I had never set out to accomplish, I have also failed at many more.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Yet, &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;despair&lt;/span&gt; is the very last word I would use to describe my life!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;Faithfulness.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;  Now there's a word I&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt; might&lt;/span&gt; use. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;And let me think . . . &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;idleness.&lt;/span&gt;  Hmmmmm. . . .   Here's a word with which I'm really not familiar.  Perhaps Mordecai was on to something here. . .&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;I don't write this post to flatter myself. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt; Not at all.  I write because there is much truth to be found in Ms. Patterson's quote.    It is not physical or earthy accomplishments -- or the lack of them -- that determine our state of mind.  And I think most of us would have to agree:  Faithfulness is a good thing.   Faithfulness (i.e., faithfulness to God, our Creator) is a sustaining force that overcomes any physical or earthly pursuit.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;Unfaithfulness&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt; in even its slightest form is hateful to God.  Unfaithfulness often stems from unbelief; and unbelief destroys the soul.  It hinders God's work in us.  Which, of course, leads to &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;despair&lt;/span&gt;!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;But what is &lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic; color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;faithfulness&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt; to God?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Some think of faithfulness as simply living without lust and getting victory over sinful habits. Others think it means being constant in Bible reading, prayer, giving of tithes, and church attendance. Still others think of it as going about doing good, or keeping pure by avoiding all that is evil and wicked. But these things can never make us faithful to God.  Never.  These are &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;works&lt;/span&gt;.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102); font-style: italic;font-size:130%;" &gt;". . . not by works, so that no one can boast."&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;~ Ephesians 2:9&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;These are wonderful things indeed and are certainly commanded in God's Word - and we will do them if we are faithful. But they in themselves are not the essence of faithfulness. You see, faithfulness to God is impossible unless it springs from a trusting, believing heart!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102); font-style: italic;"&gt;"Take heed, brethren, lest there be in any of you an evil heart of unbelief, in departing from the living God."&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 102, 102);"&gt;~Hebrews 3:12&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;This verse is not written to unbelievers - but to Believers!  The writer of Hebrews was saying, &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;"You! Christians:  Beware.  Watch out.  Make sure you don't have an evil heart of unbelief."&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;Unbelief must have been &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;a problem back in 80 A.D.  And unbelief is most definitely a problem in 2009 A.D.  We are surrounded on all sides by unbelief in the world today.  Our culture is steeped in skepticism and unbelief.  And you'd be lying to yourself to think that unbelief does not also live in Christian circles.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;I want to be&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt; the kind of Christian who does not need the reminder of Hebrews 3:12.  I want to be the kind of Christian who believes God's Word is sufficient for every human need.  I want to be the kind of Christian who believes that God's Word will guide and sustain me regardless of the future.   I want to be the kind of Christian whose faithfulness knows nothing of idleness - neither idle talk nor idle thoughts.  I want to be found faithful -- even in my failures.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;"So then &lt;/span&gt;&lt;em style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;faith comes by hearing, and hearing&lt;/em&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt; by the &lt;/span&gt;&lt;em style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;word of God&lt;/em&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;"&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 102, 102);"&gt;~ Romans 10:17&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt; &lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 102, 102);"&gt;“Mordecai understood that it is not failure that brings despair, but unfaithfulness and idleness.” &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: right;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;And I understand that my faithfulness to God's Word&lt;br /&gt;is my greatest insurance policy against despair. . . . &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: right;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;~ Esthermay V. Bentley-Goossen&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:georgia;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:georgia;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:100%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;font-size:85%;" &gt;© 2009 The Heart of a Pastor's Wife&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;This installment of InOtherWords is hosted by &lt;a href="http://patriciamariewarren.blogspot.com/2009/05/im-hosting-in-other-words-serving-no.html"&gt;Patricia&lt;/a&gt; on her blog, &lt;a href="http://patriciamariewarren.blogspot.com/2009/05/im-hosting-in-other-words-serving-no.html"&gt;Typing One Handed&lt;/a&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/17856112-5680711871526349151?l=theheartofapastorswife.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://theheartofapastorswife.blogspot.com/feeds/5680711871526349151/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=17856112&amp;postID=5680711871526349151' title='10 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/17856112/posts/default/5680711871526349151'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/17856112/posts/default/5680711871526349151'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://theheartofapastorswife.blogspot.com/2009/05/in-other-words-find-me-faithful.html' title='In Other Words: &lt;br&gt;&lt;/br&gt;&lt;i&gt;Find me Faithful. . . &lt;/i&gt;'/><author><name>Esthermay Bentley-Goossen</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/17353385912611151311</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='32' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-rXkJTzkh05w/Twy4o_DKmAI/AAAAAAAAEms/F5ct_u5V6dY/s220/profile%2Bpicture.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/SgC_qY-yROI/AAAAAAAACd0/9CNK6mjKrek/s72-c/prayinghands.JPG' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>10</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17856112.post-7540803519866268842</id><published>2009-04-21T00:00:00.007-04:00</published><updated>2009-04-21T01:38:59.074-04:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='In Other Words'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Romans 8'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Suffering'/><title type='text'>God's Purpose, Platitudes &amp; Silver Linings ♫ ♪ Que Sera Sera  ♪ ♫ . . .</title><content type='html'>&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/Se09F4X4MOI/AAAAAAAACbk/MD6s1ItS_HQ/s1600-h/hopeless.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0pt 10px 10px 0pt; float: left; cursor: pointer; width: 200px; height: 140px;" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/Se09F4X4MOI/AAAAAAAACbk/MD6s1ItS_HQ/s200/hopeless.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5326981105490342114" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;“G&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;ive yourself permission not to know and be satisfied knowing the One who does.”&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 102, 102);"&gt;~ by Joyce Meyer,  &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;I Dare You&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;Because&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt; ". . . we know that God causes all things to work together for good to those who love God, to those who are called according to His purpose.”&lt;/span&gt; (Romans 8:28) In context, the Apostle Paul wrote these words to Christians in Rome who had to have been beside themselves wondering whether God was really even hearing their prayers in the midst of some very real suffering and affliction.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;Doesn’t every Christian&lt;/span&gt; sometimes wonder that same thing? Yet, Romans 8:28 is very clear: in &lt;span style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;"&gt;everything&lt;/span&gt; God works for good.  Paul wanted the believers to give themselves permission not to know -- not to understand their suffering -- and simply be satisfied knowing the One who does know and does understand?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Period.  End of explanation.  But I’d be quite a foolish teacher and writer to stop there.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;So here we go:&lt;/span&gt;  It would do us well to skip verse 28 entirely until we fully understand verse 29. When you start with Romans 8:28 -- or worse yet, use it as a solo verse --  you run the risk of turning profound Biblical truth into a trite piece of conventional wisdom.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/Se1DlGfxgFI/AAAAAAAACbs/nNLRwvJM_dU/s1600-h/every-cloud-large.gif"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0pt 0pt 10px 10px; float: right; cursor: pointer; width: 160px; height: 128px;" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/Se1DlGfxgFI/AAAAAAAACbs/nNLRwvJM_dU/s200/every-cloud-large.gif" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5326988238927265874" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;I’ve heard many Christians mumble Romans 8:28 as a capsule of encouragement for life’s problems – sort of a theological version of the proverbial saying that &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;“in every&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt; cloud there’s a silver lining.” &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;To reduce Romans 8:28&lt;/span&gt; to conventional wisdom would be to do a terrible injustice to Paul’s teaching and to rob God’s Word of its truth. Open the door with me to a better understanding:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;Romans 8:29:&lt;/span&gt; &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;“For those whom he foreknew he also predestin&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;ed to be conformed to the image of his Son…”   &lt;/span&gt;See, God is at work among us -- He has been for centuries -- and He is in absolute control.  He &lt;u&gt;will&lt;/u&gt; bring about His intended purpose.  The eternal plan &lt;u&gt;will&lt;/u&gt; unfold.  But make no mistake; this does not mean that God plays with our lives like puppets for His Divine amusement. Neither does it mean that God is “letting be what will be.” (♫ ♪ Que Sera Sera ♫)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;Not at all.&lt;/span&gt; God has an eternal plan and He is working to bring about his saving purpose -- that is, to conform Christians to the image of his Son Jesus.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/Se1FC16vivI/AAAAAAAACb0/ukHDSmwouHM/s1600-h/deathtoself.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0pt 10px 10px 0pt; float: left; cursor: pointer; width: 200px; height: 120px;" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/Se1FC16vivI/AAAAAAAACb0/ukHDSmwouHM/s200/deathtoself.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5326989849384684274" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;Think about the life of Jesus.&lt;/span&gt; He died a cruel death between two criminals for me.  And for you.    And &lt;u&gt;THAT&lt;/u&gt; is the journey on which the sovereign God is taking us . . . a &lt;b&gt;&lt;i&gt;Death to Self&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;/i&gt;.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;Becoming in Christ’s image&lt;/span&gt; is by no means a glorious thing -- only light and love and good thoughts (&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;good grief!&lt;/span&gt;).  Rather becoming in Christ's image is something that happens in the everyday depths near which we always always find ourselves: stressed out, sick, facing tragedy, suffering, confused, brokenhearted, hopeless, helpless . . . .&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;True: &lt;/span&gt;There's really not a lot of optimism here.  It’s not as if &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;“all things work together for good”&lt;/span&gt; means that there is some small increment of good that is always being worked out in spite of appearances. &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;(A silver lining behind every cloud . . . )&lt;/span&gt;  That would be false hope. God’s Word does not do that.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;When we start with Romans 8:29 and know that it is the image of Christ to which we are being conformed, it keeps us from reducing 8:28 to the idea that there is a hidden good in our present suffering and the evil that surrounds us.  It prevents that &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;“every cloud has a silver lining” &lt;/span&gt;kind of thinking.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/Se1GcN8muZI/AAAAAAAACb8/Brd9ngDtXx4/s1600-h/beachphoto.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0pt 0pt 10px 10px; float: right; cursor: pointer; width: 144px; height: 200px;" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/Se1GcN8muZI/AAAAAAAACb8/Brd9ngDtXx4/s200/beachphoto.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5326991384843303314" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;God’s eternal purpose&lt;/span&gt; is infinitely wider and deeper than silly platitudes that everything will be all right. God’s eternal purpose is not separate from but &lt;u&gt;encompassing of&lt;/u&gt; our suffering and confusion. God’s eternal purpose uses even the worst that sin, death, and Satan have to give us in order to bring about His eternal purpose.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;What sustains us in our present suffering and confusion is to know our prospect of a future glory and to know for certain that God is fulfilling His eternal purpose in our lives yet today. . .  but in His time.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;“G&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;ive yourself permission not to know and be satisfied knowing the One who does.”&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 102, 102);"&gt;~ by Joyce Meyer,  &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;I Dare You&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: right;"&gt;~ Esthermay Bentley-Goossen&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;© 2009 &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;The Heart of a Pastor's Wife&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: left;"&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: left;"&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://theheartofapastorswifeprintables.blogspot.com/2009/04/gods-purpose-platitudes-silver-linings.html"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0pt 0pt 10px 10px; float: left; cursor: pointer; width: 40px; height: 30px;" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/Sce5lsfxCeI/AAAAAAAACNk/T69Y1QM0Oh8/s200/printer.gif" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5316421942384855522" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://theheartofapastorswifeprintables.blogspot.com/2009/04/gods-purpose-platitudes-silver-linings.html"&gt;Printable  Version&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;This installment of InOtherWords is hosted by &lt;a href="http://mamaslittletreasures.typepad.com/mamaslittletreasures/2009/04/im-clueless-and-sometimes-thats-ok.html"&gt;Nina&lt;/a&gt; on her blog, &lt;a href="http://mamaslittletreasures.typepad.com/mamaslittletreasures/2009/04/im-clueless-and-sometimes-thats-ok.html"&gt;Mama’s Little Treasures&lt;/a&gt;.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/17856112-7540803519866268842?l=theheartofapastorswife.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://theheartofapastorswife.blogspot.com/feeds/7540803519866268842/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=17856112&amp;postID=7540803519866268842' title='22 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/17856112/posts/default/7540803519866268842'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/17856112/posts/default/7540803519866268842'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://theheartofapastorswife.blogspot.com/2009/04/gods-purpose-platitudes-silver-linings.html' title='God&apos;s Purpose, Platitudes &amp; Silver Linings&lt;br&gt;&lt;/br&gt; ♫ ♪ Que Sera Sera  ♪ ♫ . . .'/><author><name>Esthermay Bentley-Goossen</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/17353385912611151311</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='32' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-rXkJTzkh05w/Twy4o_DKmAI/AAAAAAAAEms/F5ct_u5V6dY/s220/profile%2Bpicture.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/Se09F4X4MOI/AAAAAAAACbk/MD6s1ItS_HQ/s72-c/hopeless.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>22</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17856112.post-1036559906049156124</id><published>2009-04-18T00:00:00.007-04:00</published><updated>2009-04-18T01:25:26.459-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Whisperer, Gossip, Blabbermouth . . . Not So Pretty!</title><content type='html'>&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/SdVwqzQp67I/AAAAAAAACU8/6sLXWxLurNE/s1600-h/gossip2.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0pt 10px 10px 0pt; float: left; cursor: pointer; width: 200px; height: 200px;" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/SdVwqzQp67I/AAAAAAAACU8/6sLXWxLurNE/s200/gossip2.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5320282415424990130" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt; &lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;The tongue&lt;/span&gt; also is a fire, a world of evil among the parts of the body. It corrupts the whole person, sets the whole course of a life on fire, and is itself set on fire by hell. All kinds of animals, birds, reptiles and creatures of the sea are being tamed and have been tamed by man, but no man can tame the tongue. It is a restless evil, full of deadly poison. With the tongue we praise our Lord and Father, and with it we curse men [and women], who have been made in God’s likeness. Out of the same mouth come praise and cursing. My brothers [and sisters], this should not be. Can both fresh water and salt water flow f&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;rom the same spring?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: right;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 102, 102);"&gt;~ James 3:6-11 (NIV)&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt; &lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;For a long as I can remember, &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;I have avoided deep relationships with other women. Women can be the cruelest of creatures. Really I think it dates back to Genesis Chapter 3. There is something in us that broke that day. Something we continually have to struggle against. It seems to be in the very core of our being to pit one another against each other. And what is so very sad is that we see it in churches as readily as the secular workplace.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;Women have always been&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt; the most deadly critics of other women. They know how to wound with precision. They know how to judge. They know how to look another woman over from head to toe, inside and out, and then make a diagnosis of all the ills they have found. Why do we do that? Is it so that we don’t have to look at ourselves? Is it because we are jealous creatures? Is it because we have not learned how to love one another? 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Well, you know&lt;/i&gt;'/><author><name>Esthermay Bentley-Goossen</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/17353385912611151311</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='32' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-rXkJTzkh05w/Twy4o_DKmAI/AAAAAAAAEms/F5ct_u5V6dY/s220/profile%2Bpicture.jpg'/></author><thr:total>10</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17856112.post-981956650087378646</id><published>2009-04-14T12:00:00.008-04:00</published><updated>2009-04-14T16:23:37.989-04:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='In Other Words'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Grace'/><title type='text'>It's Not About My Failures.  In Fact . . . It's Not About My Performance At All!</title><content type='html'>&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/SeS4A6ae_9I/AAAAAAAACZU/AQJQPBcWuUM/s1600-h/scratching-head.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0pt 10px 10px 0pt; float: left; cursor: pointer; width: 125px; height: 130px;" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/SeS4A6ae_9I/AAAAAAAACZU/AQJQPBcWuUM/s200/scratching-head.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5324582985278619602" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);font-size:180%;" &gt;"G&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;od’s promises are never affected by our failures.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;He can use us at any age."&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 102, 102);"&gt;~ Michael Youssef&lt;br /&gt;from &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;Leading the Way&lt;/span&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;It' s interesting. . .&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt; When I read a quote like this, my mind immediately begins functioning in the realm of performance.  After all, the very definition of "failure" implies  performance . . . .&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I'm thinking of all the different "religious" activities that Believers can perform in the various stages of life using their gifts, talents, resources. . .&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;At age eighteen:&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: right; color: rgb(102, 102, 102);"&gt;God's Word tells us,&lt;br /&gt;"Don't let anyone look down on you because you are young. . . " &lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;(I Timothy 4:12)&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;. . .  We use our youthful energy and excitement to engage in spiritual activities and programs that we know will advance His Kingdom.  Regardless of our failures, God uses our performance.  We are in His favor.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;At ag&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;e forty:&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: right; color: rgb(102, 102, 102);"&gt;God's Word tell us,&lt;br /&gt;"Therefore go and make disciples of all nations. . . " &lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;(Matthew 28:19)&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;. . . We use our education to instruct others and we tithe regularly, knowing that our money will help advance His Kingdom.  Regardless of our failures, God uses our performance.  We are in His favor.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);font-size:180%;" &gt;At age seventy:&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: right; color: rgb(102, 102, 102);"&gt; God' Word tells us that our&lt;br /&gt;“age should speak; advanced years should teach wisdom.” &lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;(Job 32:7)&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;. . .We use our lifetime of education and wisdom to witness to everyone we meet and we pray hard, knowing that our works will help advance His Kingdom.  Regardless of our failure, God uses our performance.  We are in His favor.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/SeS5UnODxwI/AAAAAAAACZk/3CKaT6rOYQM/s1600-h/aging.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 200px; height: 104px;" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/SeS5UnODxwI/AAAAAAAACZk/3CKaT6rOYQM/s200/aging.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5324584423235241730" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;However, &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;from God's perspective (and what He tells us in His Word), our performance at any age is irrelevant.  Probably laughable in His eyes -- if not pitied.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;Why&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt; do we do this?  Why does my own thinking go immediately towards the idea of performance?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;An excerpt from &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;The Journal of John Woolman &lt;/span&gt;(1720-1772) answers the question:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;"&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;But many others, having their religion chiefly by education and not being enough &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;acquainted with that cross which crucifies to the world, do manifest a temper distinguishable from that of an entire trust in God."&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Most of us are legalistic by nature, we innately think so much performance by us earns much favor and blessing from God.  After all, this is how society works.  Is the Christian life any different?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/SeS4MoSNF0I/AAAAAAAACZc/sUzftgN1ApU/s1600-h/bible_open_glasses.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0pt 0pt 10px 10px; float: right; cursor: pointer; width: 200px; height: 150px;" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/SeS4MoSNF0I/AAAAAAAACZc/sUzftgN1ApU/s200/bible_open_glasses.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5324583186570483522" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;P&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;eter had this attitude&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt; when he said to Jesus in Matthew 19:27, &lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;"We have left everything to follow you. Therefore what shall we have?"&lt;/span&gt; Peter had already added up his merit points, and he wanted to know how much reward they would buy. Jesus answer to him was, &lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;"many who are first will be last, and the last first."&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);font-size:180%;" &gt;Galatians 3:3&lt;/span&gt; tells us this:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;"Are you so foolish? After beginning with the Spirit, are you now&lt;/span&gt; &lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;trying to attain your goal through human effort?"&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;E&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;phesians 2:8-10&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt; teaches us this:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;For by grace you have been saved through faith, and that not of yourselves;&lt;br /&gt;it is the gift of God. . . "&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102); font-weight: bold;"&gt;"God's promises are never affected by our failures."&lt;/span&gt;  Absolutely!  But if we base His promises on performance -- regardless of our success or failure rate -- His promises can never ring true in our lives.  Ever!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold; color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;"He can use us at any age."&lt;/span&gt;  Absolutely!  But God uses us based on our readiness to accept His Grace -- Not our readiness to perform.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;Do you understand grace?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;A professor at a Christian college in Missouri once gave his students a penetrating, unforgettable picture of grace.  A student from his class wrote this in an e-mail:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/SeS_RYpSjMI/AAAAAAAACZ0/RhLrONLc52c/s1600-h/student1.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0pt 10px 10px 0pt; float: left; cursor: pointer; width: 200px; height: 116px;" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/SeS_RYpSjMI/AAAAAAAACZ0/RhLrONLc52c/s200/student1.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5324590964853083330" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;In the spring of 2002,&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt; I left work early so I could have some uninterrupted study time before my final exam in the Youth Ministry class at Hannibal-LaGrange college in Missouri. When I got to class, everybody was doing their last-minute studying. The teacher came in and said he would review with us before the test. Most of his review came right from the study guide, but there were some things he was reviewing that I had never heard. When questioned about it, he said they were in the book and we were responsible for everything in the book. We couldn't argue with that.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;Finally&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt; it was time to take the test.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;"Leave them face down&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt; on the desk until everyone has one, and I'll tell you to start," our professor, Dr. Tom Hufty, instructed.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;When we turned them over,&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt; to my astonishment every answer on the test was filled it. My name was even written on the exam in red ink. The bottom of the last page said: &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;"This is the end of the exam. The reason you passed the test is because the creator of the test took it for you.All the work you did in preparation for this test did not help you get the A. You have just experienced . . . Grace."&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Dr. Hufty then went around the room and asked each student individually, &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;"What is your grade? Do you deserve the grade you are receiving? How much did all your studying for this exam help you achieve your final grade?"&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);font-size:180%;" &gt;Then he said,&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;"Some things you learn from lectures, some things you learn from research, but some things you can only learn from experience. You've just experienced grace. One hundred years from now, if you know Jesus Christ as your personal Savior, your name will be written down in a book, and you will have had nothing to do with writing it there. That will be the ultimate grace experience."&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);font-size:180%;" &gt;"G&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;od’s promises are never affected by our failures.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;He can use us at any age."&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 102, 102);"&gt;~ Michael Youssef&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: right;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;"&gt; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:100%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);font-size:130%;" &gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;"G&lt;/span&gt;od uses us based on our readiness to accept His Grace&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);font-size:130%;" &gt;-- Not our readiness to perform."&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: right;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 102, 102);"&gt;~Esthermay Bentley-Goossen&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;© 2009 &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;The Heart of a Pastor's Wife&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;This installment of InOtherWords is hosted today by &lt;a href="http://www.karijofluffy.blogspot.com/"&gt;Karen&lt;/a&gt; on her blog, &lt;a href="http://www.karijofluffy.blogspot.com/"&gt;In Love W.I.T.H. Jesus&lt;/a&gt;.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/17856112-981956650087378646?l=theheartofapastorswife.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://theheartofapastorswife.blogspot.com/feeds/981956650087378646/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=17856112&amp;postID=981956650087378646' title='19 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/17856112/posts/default/981956650087378646'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/17856112/posts/default/981956650087378646'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://theheartofapastorswife.blogspot.com/2009/04/its-not-about-my-failures-in-fact-its.html' title='It&apos;s Not About My Failures.  &lt;i&gt;In Fact . . . &lt;br&gt;It&apos;s Not About My Performance At All!&lt;/i&gt;'/><author><name>Esthermay Bentley-Goossen</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/17353385912611151311</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='32' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-rXkJTzkh05w/Twy4o_DKmAI/AAAAAAAAEms/F5ct_u5V6dY/s220/profile%2Bpicture.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/SeS4A6ae_9I/AAAAAAAACZU/AQJQPBcWuUM/s72-c/scratching-head.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>19</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17856112.post-8024742301259214249</id><published>2009-04-12T00:01:00.004-04:00</published><updated>2009-04-12T01:10:44.847-04:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='My Family'/><title type='text'>Resurrection PowerI Can Only Imagine . . .</title><content type='html'>&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;Jesus said,&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51);font-size:130%;" &gt;"I am the resurrection and the life:&lt;br /&gt;he that believeth in me, though he were dead, yet shall he live."&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-style: italic;"&gt;~ John 11:25&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;embed src="http://www.tangle.com/flash/swf/flvplayer.swf" flashvars="viewkey=5336ad53b3325914caea" wmode="transparent" quality="high" name="tangle" allowscriptaccess="always" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" pluginspage="http://www.macromedia.com/go/getflashplayer" width="330" align="middle" height="270"&gt;&lt;/embed&gt;&lt;/center&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/SeFrYKoKTnI/AAAAAAAACYk/FG1-x09sAQA/s1600-h/GrandmaW2.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 193px; height: 200px;" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/SeFrYKoKTnI/AAAAAAAACYk/FG1-x09sAQA/s200/GrandmaW2.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5323654297442471538" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;O Glorious Easter morning,      &lt;br /&gt;Christ's work on earth complete.  &lt;br /&gt;He left us Blessed Hope,  &lt;br /&gt;That in  Heaven we'll with Him meet&lt;br /&gt;And side by side, our Loved Ones greet.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic; color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;I Can Only Imagine!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: right;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;~Esthermay&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/17856112-8024742301259214249?l=theheartofapastorswife.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://theheartofapastorswife.blogspot.com/feeds/8024742301259214249/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=17856112&amp;postID=8024742301259214249' title='10 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/17856112/posts/default/8024742301259214249'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/17856112/posts/default/8024742301259214249'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://theheartofapastorswife.blogspot.com/2009/04/resurrection-power-i-can-only-imagine.html' title='Resurrection Power&lt;br&gt;&lt;/br&gt;&lt;i&gt;I Can Only Imagine . . .&lt;/i&gt;'/><author><name>Esthermay Bentley-Goossen</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/17353385912611151311</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='32' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-rXkJTzkh05w/Twy4o_DKmAI/AAAAAAAAEms/F5ct_u5V6dY/s220/profile%2Bpicture.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/SeFrYKoKTnI/AAAAAAAACYk/FG1-x09sAQA/s72-c/GrandmaW2.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>10</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17856112.post-8721975068503165208</id><published>2009-04-11T18:20:00.003-04:00</published><updated>2009-04-11T18:26:03.473-04:00</updated><title type='text'>YOUR Ransom, MY RansomPaid in Royal Blood . . . </title><content type='html'>&lt;center&gt;&lt;embed src="http://www.tangle.com/flash/swf/flvplayer.swf" flashvars="viewkey=60a4abe1835b317a98aa" wmode="transparent" quality="high" name="tangle" allowscriptaccess="always" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" pluginspage="http://www.macromedia.com/go/getflashplayer" width="330" align="middle" height="270"&gt;&lt;/embed&gt;&lt;/center&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/17856112-8721975068503165208?l=theheartofapastorswife.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://theheartofapastorswife.blogspot.com/feeds/8721975068503165208/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=17856112&amp;postID=8721975068503165208' title='4 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/17856112/posts/default/8721975068503165208'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/17856112/posts/default/8721975068503165208'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://theheartofapastorswife.blogspot.com/2009/04/your-ransom-my-ransom-paid-in-royal.html' title='YOUR Ransom, MY Ransom&lt;br&gt;&lt;/br&gt;&lt;i&gt;Paid in Royal Blood . . . &lt;/i&gt;'/><author><name>Esthermay Bentley-Goossen</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/17353385912611151311</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='32' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-rXkJTzkh05w/Twy4o_DKmAI/AAAAAAAAEms/F5ct_u5V6dY/s220/profile%2Bpicture.jpg'/></author><thr:total>4</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17856112.post-7452298047235970899</id><published>2009-04-07T00:15:00.014-04:00</published><updated>2009-04-07T02:07:06.367-04:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='In Other Words'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Heaven'/><title type='text'>Christ in Me . . . In Other Words . . . </title><content type='html'>&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/SdrFk1d_1eI/AAAAAAAACV8/tqtzznAcxgQ/s1600-h/heaven.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0pt 10px 10px 0pt; float: left; cursor: pointer; width: 200px; height: 144px;" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/SdrFk1d_1eI/AAAAAAAACV8/tqtzznAcxgQ/s200/heaven.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5321783146310522338" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;"H&lt;/span&gt;eaven must be in me, before I can be&lt;br /&gt;in heaven."&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 102, 102);"&gt;~ Charles Stanford&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: right; color: rgb(153, 153, 153);"&gt;. . . a truly astounding and beautiful claim.    And at the same time, a rather profound sadness surrounds&lt;br /&gt;Mr. Stanford's verse.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;Scripturally speaking,&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;  the Bible does not talk about heaven being in us - rather, &lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;&lt;u&gt;Christ&lt;/u&gt;&lt;/span&gt; being in us. . .&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;I have been crucified with Christ and I no longer live, but &lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102); font-style: italic;"&gt;&lt;u&gt;Christ lives in me&lt;/u&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;. The life I live in the body, I live by faith in the Son of God, who loved me and gave Himself for me.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 102, 102);"&gt;~ Galatians 2:20&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;To them God has chosen to make known among the Gentiles the glorious riches of this mystery, which is &lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102); font-style: italic;"&gt;&lt;u&gt;Christ in you&lt;/u&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;, the hope of glory.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 102, 102);"&gt;~ Colossians 1:27&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: right;"&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;Do you not know that your bodies are members of &lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;&lt;u&gt;Christ himself&lt;/u&gt;&lt;/span&gt;?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 102, 102);"&gt;~ I Corinthians 6:15&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;A growing number&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt; of Christians prefer to just leave Jesus Christ out of any discussion of  heaven.  We prefer to dwell on &lt;span style="font-style: italic; color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;God's Love&lt;/span&gt; and &lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102); font-style: italic;"&gt;Hope of Heaven&lt;/span&gt; &lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;. . .  &lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102); font-style: italic;"&gt;Street of Gold . . . . &lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;  Why is it so hard to acknowledge JESUS CHRIST?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/SdraBlbgq6I/AAAAAAAACWE/OPui7ghZVHk/s1600-h/touched_by_an_angel.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0pt 0pt 10px 10px; float: right; cursor: pointer; width: 200px; height: 159px;" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/SdraBlbgq6I/AAAAAAAACWE/OPui7ghZVHk/s200/touched_by_an_angel.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5321805630453885858" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;Remember&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt; the television series &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;Touched by An Angel&lt;/span&gt;?  Nice show.  One of the cleaner story lines you'd find on television at the time.  But for all the talk about God and &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;God's Love&lt;/span&gt; and Heaven --  not once did any character on that show ever mention the name of Jesus Christ.  I wonder why.  . . .  The power is in the name of Jesus!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;. . . that at the &lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102); font-style: italic;"&gt;&lt;u&gt;name of Jesus&lt;/u&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt; every knee should bow, in heaven and on earth and under the earth.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 102, 102);"&gt;~ Philippians 2:10&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Too many Christians today simply overlooked Jesus and his disgustingly brutal murder on a cross -- the whole concept of sin and righteousness is sorely lacking.   We appear to have little sense that Jesus is ALIVE and active and living in us here and now today as a prelude to heaven.  (Then again, maybe He's not.)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: right; color: rgb(102, 102, 102); font-style: italic;"&gt;(. . . and maybe this is why we're so weak:  No power.)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;In many churches,&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt; Jesus is treated in the same way the British treat their monarchs. -- They strip the monarch of all political power and they do not expect the sovereign to do anything except look good.  They treat the monarchs with great respect and reverence.  They pay plenty of lip service, but they really don't expect anything from the monarch. This is the way Christians all too often treat the Lord Jesus.    We forget that He is in charge of the universe!  We forget that&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;"&lt;span style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;"&gt;Christ &lt;/span&gt;must be in me, before I can be in heaven."&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt; &lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;Heaven is a free gift.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt; Heaven is not something you work for or deserve. Heaven is not something we can dream about and internalized and thereby arrive when we stop breathing earth's air.  The Bible says:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/SdrfkzOOvGI/AAAAAAAACWM/pM9zr2dLVMI/s1600-h/JesusKnocks.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0pt 10px 10px 0pt; float: left; cursor: pointer; width: 143px; height: 200px;" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/SdrfkzOOvGI/AAAAAAAACWM/pM9zr2dLVMI/s200/JesusKnocks.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5321811733009841250" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;For the wages of sin is death; but the gift of God is &lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102); font-style: italic;"&gt;&lt;u&gt;eternal life&lt;/u&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;,&lt;br /&gt;through Jesus Christ our Lord.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 102, 102);"&gt;~ Romans 6:23&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;Here I am! I stand at the door and knock. If anyone hears my voice and opens the door, I will come in. . . . &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 102, 102);"&gt;~ Revelation 3:20&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: right; color: rgb(102, 102, 102);"&gt;Is Christ is YOU?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;"&lt;span style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;"&gt;Christ&lt;/span&gt; must be in me, before I can be in heaven."&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 102, 102);"&gt;~ Paraphrase of the Entire New Testament Gospel&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: right;"&gt;~ Esthermay Bentley-Goossen&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;© 2009 &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;The Heart of a Pastor's Wife&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;This Chapter of InOtherWords is hosted by &lt;a href="http://shortybearsplace.blogspot.com/"&gt;Denise&lt;/a&gt; on her blog, &lt;a href="http://shortybearsplace.blogspot.com/"&gt;ShortyBear's Place&lt;/a&gt;.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/17856112-7452298047235970899?l=theheartofapastorswife.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://theheartofapastorswife.blogspot.com/feeds/7452298047235970899/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=17856112&amp;postID=7452298047235970899' title='20 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/17856112/posts/default/7452298047235970899'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/17856112/posts/default/7452298047235970899'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://theheartofapastorswife.blogspot.com/2009/04/christ-in-me-in-other-words.html' title='Christ in Me . . . &lt;br&gt;&lt;/br&gt;&lt;i&gt;In Other Words . . . &lt;/i&gt;'/><author><name>Esthermay Bentley-Goossen</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/17353385912611151311</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='32' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-rXkJTzkh05w/Twy4o_DKmAI/AAAAAAAAEms/F5ct_u5V6dY/s220/profile%2Bpicture.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/SdrFk1d_1eI/AAAAAAAACV8/tqtzznAcxgQ/s72-c/heaven.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>20</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17856112.post-5000751787022470955</id><published>2009-04-06T12:37:00.009-04:00</published><updated>2009-04-06T15:57:49.573-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Is God's Word Relevant Today?</title><content type='html'>&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/SdpNqrd1M7I/AAAAAAAACV0/x_dO5JeLQWc/s1600-h/Bible3.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0pt 10px 10px 0pt; float: left; cursor: pointer; width: 143px; height: 200px;" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/SdpNqrd1M7I/AAAAAAAACV0/x_dO5JeLQWc/s200/Bible3.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5321651305309352882" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;God's Word:&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center; font-style: italic;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;. . . All those who were in distress or in debt or discontented gathered around him, and he became their leader.  About four hundred men were with him.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;~ I Samuel 22:2&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102); font-weight: bold;"&gt;~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;Headline: &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: right;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://news.aol.com/political-machine/2009/03/30/glenn-beck-rising/"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102); font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;"&gt;Glen Beck Rising&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic; color: rgb(102, 102, 102);"&gt;by David Knowles&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://news.aol.com/political-machine/2009/03/30/glenn-beck-rising/"&gt;AOL News&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: right;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102); font-weight: bold;"&gt;"Forget about Rush Limbaugh&lt;/span&gt;, Rachel Maddow, Keith Olbermann, Bill O'Reily, Sean Hannity, Ann Coulter and all the other headline grabbers. They've got nothing on FOX News's latest &lt;a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=m9JE5SBm9UU&amp;amp;feature=related"&gt;populist superstar&lt;/a&gt;, Glenn Beck. Though Beck has not yet overtaken O'Reilly and Hannity in the ratings game, he's gaining fast, with an average audience of 2.3 million viewers on the network whose VP for programing recently described as the "&lt;a href="http://www.drudge.com/news/119188/exec-fox-news-voice-opposition"&gt;voice of opposition&lt;/a&gt;" to the Obama administration. And if it's one thing that Beck has got down pat, it's voicing opposition. . . . "&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://news.aol.com/political-machine/2009/03/30/glenn-beck-rising/"&gt;(Read More. . . )&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;object width="425" height="344"&gt;&lt;param name="movie" value="http://www.youtube.com/v/rM4xqnukQrM&amp;amp;hl=en&amp;amp;fs=1"&gt;&lt;param name="allowFullScreen" value="true"&gt;&lt;param name="allowscriptaccess" value="always"&gt;&lt;embed src="http://www.youtube.com/v/rM4xqnukQrM&amp;amp;hl=en&amp;amp;fs=1" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" allowscriptaccess="always" allowfullscreen="true" width="425" height="344"&gt;&lt;/embed&gt;&lt;/object&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;Comments?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/17856112-5000751787022470955?l=theheartofapastorswife.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://theheartofapastorswife.blogspot.com/feeds/5000751787022470955/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=17856112&amp;postID=5000751787022470955' title='15 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/17856112/posts/default/5000751787022470955'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/17856112/posts/default/5000751787022470955'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://theheartofapastorswife.blogspot.com/2009/04/is-gods-word-relevant-today.html' title='Is God&apos;s Word Relevant Today?'/><author><name>Esthermay Bentley-Goossen</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/17353385912611151311</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='32' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-rXkJTzkh05w/Twy4o_DKmAI/AAAAAAAAEms/F5ct_u5V6dY/s220/profile%2Bpicture.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/SdpNqrd1M7I/AAAAAAAACV0/x_dO5JeLQWc/s72-c/Bible3.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>15</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17856112.post-5127738172262800079</id><published>2009-04-03T00:00:00.001-04:00</published><updated>2009-04-03T14:58:05.682-04:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Worship'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Leadership'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='I Corinthians'/><title type='text'>Restoring the Heart of Worship . . . Whom Are You Following?</title><content type='html'>&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/SdVjwEC5WJI/AAAAAAAACT8/YRBRgTEVsGA/s1600-h/johnpiper.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0pt 10px 10px 0pt; float: left; cursor: pointer; width: 200px; height: 166px;" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/SdVjwEC5WJI/AAAAAAAACT8/YRBRgTEVsGA/s200/johnpiper.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5320268212178868370" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);font-size:130%;" &gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;"I&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_0"&gt;mitate&lt;/span&gt; me, just as I also imitate Christ."&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 102, 102);"&gt;~ 1 Corinthians 11:1&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;We all have someone&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt; -- or several people -- in our lives to whom we look to for guidance in one way or another.  Whether it be guidance in our career, our parenting, our hobbies, or (most importantly) our spiritual growth - we all have someone we admire and learn from...&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: right;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic; color: rgb(102, 102, 102);"&gt;Besides my husband,&lt;br /&gt;I happen to enjoy the ministry and teaching of &lt;/span&gt;&lt;a style="font-style: italic; color: rgb(102, 102, 102);" href="http://www.desiringgod.org/"&gt;John Piper&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic; color: rgb(102, 102, 102);"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;And when the Apostle Paul &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;wrote to the Corinthians, he knew this. He knew that people imitate those whose guidance they seek.  People do emulate their leaders and Paul knew that the people in Corinth were trying to be like him and heed his teachings. For this very reason, Paul wanted to make one thing clear: &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;that he should not be followed in word or in deed unless he was in accordance with what Jesus Christ would do or say.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;In the context&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt; of I Corinthians Chapter 11, Paul was witnessing and speaking about the worship of the church.  It had become a chaotic and charismatic exhibition that did not edify the church body at all. So it is in this last part of the Book of I Corinthians, that Paul sought to restore the proper order to worship.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;To very-much simplify his teaching: True worship has &lt;u&gt;nothing&lt;/u&gt; to do with attending a church service and &lt;u&gt;everything&lt;/u&gt; to do with a personal response to God’s work in our individual lives.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/SdVko9_uzNI/AAAAAAAACUE/S4cEPsukIjA/s1600-h/charismaticworship.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0pt 0pt 10px 10px; float: right; cursor: pointer; width: 200px; height: 114px;" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/SdVko9_uzNI/AAAAAAAACUE/S4cEPsukIjA/s200/charismaticworship.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5320269189807525074" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;In today’s world,&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt; Paul’s teaching suggests that worship on a Sunday morning is an end result of our walking with God Monday through Saturday. It has absolutely nothing to do with what today’s church refers to as &lt;span style="font-style: italic; color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;"Worship Style."&lt;/span&gt;  Let me repeat that:  Worship is &lt;u&gt;not&lt;/u&gt; synonymous with music.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;We don't have to look far to discover how sensitively God measures the worship of Himself. In Genesis, Cain was rejected by God and turned over to his degenerate and murderous heart all because his worship was wrong—in both motive and in method.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/SdVlfHaPMkI/AAAAAAAACUM/jhNMEyKR6uM/s1600-h/Nadab.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0pt 10px 10px 0pt; float: left; cursor: pointer; width: 176px; height: 200px;" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/SdVlfHaPMkI/AAAAAAAACUM/jhNMEyKR6uM/s200/Nadab.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5320270120047555138" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;A bit further&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt; we find &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_1"&gt;Nadab&lt;/span&gt; and &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_2"&gt;Abihu&lt;/span&gt; severely judged with instant death for offering "strange fire" at the altar—an offense so serious to God that the brothers' father Aaron was not even allowed to mourn their death.  Instead, God commanded Aaron to mourn his sons' great sin.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;And then there is &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_3"&gt;Uzzah&lt;/span&gt;, killed in an instant for touching the ark of God. And add Eli who, along with his entire &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_4"&gt;descendency&lt;/span&gt;, was condemned for honoring his worship-despising sons rather than honoring God.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;In all actuality&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt; the entire decline and subsequent captivity of Israel and Judah were primarily due to rampant false worship among these chosen nations.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/SdVmD4XYAfI/AAAAAAAACUU/E7WCMIAOI1M/s1600-h/jesus-cleanses-the-temple.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0pt 0pt 10px 10px; float: right; cursor: pointer; width: 200px; height: 133px;" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/SdVmD4XYAfI/AAAAAAAACUU/E7WCMIAOI1M/s200/jesus-cleanses-the-temple.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5320270751664177650" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;Looking further,&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt; we see Jesus Himself never more visibly full of animated wrath than in His "cleansing" of the temple—the place of His Father's worship, now corrupted by those who valued other things more highly.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;All of these examples, reveal to us that worship—including how, why, and whom we worship—very nearly tops the list of things God holds dreadfully important.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;And yet,&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt; we live in an age and culture whose church is as confused and varied in its choices for worship as it is over carpeting its rooms and painting its walls!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;For many churches, designing worship has become most closely associated with that which will best suit the attendees or best attract the hesitant church-goer or best reach the youth of society, rather than that which is most pleasing to God.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/SdVmxrmZq6I/AAAAAAAACUc/xistgmWYjeA/s1600-h/Is+it+worship.JPG"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0pt 10px 10px 0pt; float: left; cursor: pointer; width: 200px; height: 150px;" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/SdVmxrmZq6I/AAAAAAAACUc/xistgmWYjeA/s200/Is+it+worship.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5320271538511522722" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;What are the motives&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt; and methods that govern what we do in worship today?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;► &lt;/span&gt;Are they Scriptural or are they merely self-seeking?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;► &lt;/span&gt;Does our worship emphasize the way in which we appear to men, or is it solely concerned with how we appear to God?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;► &lt;/span&gt;Does our worship tend to secularize the sacred in an effort to bring God down to man's level?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;► &lt;/span&gt;Is our worship intended to soften nonbelievers into "liking" Christians and Christianity?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;► &lt;/span&gt;Is our worship based on a philosophy that follows "the tradition of men" and "the basic principles of the world"?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;► &lt;/span&gt;Is our worship designed in such a way as to make the nonbeliever feel comfortable, accepted, pleased, even entertained?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;► &lt;/span&gt;Does our worship seek the participation of those who neither know God nor love Him?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: right; color: rgb(102, 102, 102); font-style: italic;"&gt;Remember: Worship is not for the unbeliever.&lt;br /&gt;Worship is the believer's response to God.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;► &lt;/span&gt;Is our worship exclusively led by, and does it exalt, those whom the world considers successful, attractive, "together," happy?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;► &lt;/span&gt;Is our worship Christ-like?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;► &lt;/span&gt;Whom are you following?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: right; font-style: italic;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 102, 102);"&gt;In posing these questions,&lt;br /&gt;I hope each of us can search our own motives&lt;br /&gt;and ideas about worship and respond honesty.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;I like this about Paul:&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt; He humbly recognized his faults (&lt;a href="http://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Romans%207:14-25&amp;amp;version=31"&gt;Read Romans 7:14-25&lt;/a&gt;) but still took great care to do the right thing and he wanted to make sure that first and foremost people were following Jesus. That is the essence of what Paul wanted. He wanted people to follow Jesus.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I want to be like Paul. If what I say or do does not line up with what God says in His Word, than I don't want to be followed, read or looked to as a leader. Period.  Always test for yourself what you read, hear, or see by the truth of God's Word.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: right; font-style: italic; color: rgb(102, 102, 102);"&gt;And never apologize for standing against or even walking away&lt;br /&gt;from what does not match up with Scripture.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;Open your own Bible&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt; and read about the false worship in the Old Testament. Read Paul’s instructions to the Corinthians about the heart of true worship in I Corinthians.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/SdVo0Y3ZfDI/AAAAAAAACU0/Y7HRthbyVaw/s1600-h/Follow+Me.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0pt 10px 10px 0pt; float: left; cursor: pointer; width: 200px; height: 166px;" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/SdVo0Y3ZfDI/AAAAAAAACU0/Y7HRthbyVaw/s200/Follow+Me.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5320273784045403186" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;Following Jesus takes work. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;Following Jesus is more than going to church and getting an emotional high with hands raised while singing a favorite praise song.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Sure, that may be part of worship -- a part that cannot take place fully without some relationship with God. However, the heart of worship is more than an emotional response to an inspirational message or song or a specific style of worship designed by a local church to evoke a reaction in its hearers.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;True worship&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt; is defined by how we live our everyday lives.  &lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102); font-weight: bold;"&gt;True worship &lt;/span&gt;is seeking God through the pages of the Bible even when we don't feel like it. &lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102); font-weight: bold;"&gt;True worship&lt;/span&gt; is reading a passage of Scripture and applying it to our lives even though we don't like how that particular passage of Scripture makes us feel. &lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102); font-weight: bold;"&gt;True worship&lt;/span&gt; is a life of surrender -- following the true Leader -- no matter the cost.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;Put yourself in the Apostle Paul’s shoes:&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt; Would someone following you be following God as well? How many times per week do you examine your life in light of what the Bible says?  How about your favorite Bible teachers/preachers?    Does their teaching line up with God's Word?  Or do you simply take them at their word?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;em style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;"Imitate me, just as I also imitate Christ."&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 102, 102);"&gt;~ 1 Corinthians 11:1&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: right;"&gt;~ Esthermay Bentley-Goossen&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;© 2009 &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;The Heart of a Pastor's Wife&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: right;"&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: right;"&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://theheartofapastorswifeprintables.blogspot.com/2009/04/restoring-heart-of-worship.html"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0pt 0pt 10px 10px; float: right; cursor: pointer; width: 40px; height: 30px;" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/Sce5lsfxCeI/AAAAAAAACNk/T69Y1QM0Oh8/s200/printer.gif" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5316421942384855522" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt; &lt;a href="http://theheartofapastorswifeprintables.blogspot.com/2009/04/restoring-heart-of-worship.html"&gt;Printable  Version&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/17856112-5127738172262800079?l=theheartofapastorswife.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://theheartofapastorswife.blogspot.com/feeds/5127738172262800079/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=17856112&amp;postID=5127738172262800079' title='14 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/17856112/posts/default/5127738172262800079'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/17856112/posts/default/5127738172262800079'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://theheartofapastorswife.blogspot.com/2009/04/restoring-heart-of-worship-whom-are-you.html' title='Restoring the Heart of Worship . . . &lt;br&gt;&lt;/br&gt;Whom Are You Following?'/><author><name>Esthermay Bentley-Goossen</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/17353385912611151311</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='32' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-rXkJTzkh05w/Twy4o_DKmAI/AAAAAAAAEms/F5ct_u5V6dY/s220/profile%2Bpicture.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/SdVjwEC5WJI/AAAAAAAACT8/YRBRgTEVsGA/s72-c/johnpiper.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>14</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17856112.post-2097739857100605216</id><published>2009-04-01T11:40:00.009-04:00</published><updated>2009-04-01T12:46:00.527-04:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Salvation'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Spurgeon'/><title type='text'>April . . .</title><content type='html'>&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/SdOLm2JYt8I/AAAAAAAACTU/Q79lwZ-EwHM/s1600-h/to+open.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0pt 10px 10px 0pt; float: left; cursor: pointer; width: 200px; height: 171px;" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/SdOLm2JYt8I/AAAAAAAACTU/Q79lwZ-EwHM/s200/to+open.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5319749084340860866" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;"I&lt;/span&gt;t is time to seek the Lord."&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 102, 102);"&gt;~ Hosea 10:12&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;This month of April&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt; is said to derive its name from the Latin verb &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;aperio, &lt;/span&gt;which signifies &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;to open, &lt;/span&gt;because all the buds and blossoms are now opening, and we have arrived at the gates of the flowery year.&lt;div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;Reader,&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt; if you are yet unsaved, may your heart, in accord with the universal awakening of nature, be opened to receive the Lord.  Every blossoming flower warns you that &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102); font-weight: bold;"&gt;it is time to seek the Lord&lt;/span&gt;; &lt;/span&gt;be not out of tune with nature, but let your heart bud and bloom with holy desires.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;Do you tell me&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt; that the warm blood of youth leaps in your veins? then, I entreat you, give your vigour to the Lord.  It was my unspeakable happiness to be called in early youth, and I could fain praise the Lord every day for it.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;Salvation is priceless,&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt; let it come when it may, but oh! an early salvation has a double value in it.  Young men and maidens, since you may perish ere you reach your prime, &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;"&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102); font-weight: bold;"&gt;It is time to seek the Lord&lt;/span&gt;."&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;Ye who feel the first signs of decay,&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt; quicken your pace:  that hollow cough, that hectic flush, are warnings which you must not trifle with; with you it is indeed time to seek the Lord.  Did I observe a little grey mingled with your once luxurious tresses?  Years are stealing on apace, and death is drawing nearer by hasty marches, let each return of spring arouse you to set your house in order.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;Dear reader, &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;if you are now advanced in life, let me entreat and implore you to delay no longer.  There is a day of grace for you now -- be thankful for that, but it is a limited season and grows shorter every time that clock ticks.  Here in this silent chamber, on this first [day] of another month, I speak to you as best I can by paper and ink, and from my inmost soul, as God's servant, I lay before you this warning, &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;"&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102); font-weight: bold;"&gt;It is time to seek the Lord&lt;/span&gt;." &lt;/span&gt;Slight not that work, it may be your last call from destruction, the final syllable from the lip of grace.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 102, 102);"&gt;~Charles H. Spurgeon&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span&gt;From the Devotional Classic &lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;"&lt;a href="http://www.christianbook.com/html/static/75532.html?promo=4524&amp;amp;ad=5206"&gt;Morning and Evening&lt;/a&gt;"&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: right;"&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://theheartofapastorswifeprintables.blogspot.com/2009/03/31-biblical-virtues-to-pray-for-your.html"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0pt 0pt 10px 10px; float: right; cursor: pointer; width: 40px; height: 30px;" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/Sce5lsfxCeI/AAAAAAAACNk/T69Y1QM0Oh8/s200/printer.gif" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5316421942384855522" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a href="http://theheartofapastorswifeprintables.blogspot.com/2009/04/i-t-is-time-to-seek-lord.html"&gt;&lt;u&gt;Printable Version&lt;/u&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/17856112-2097739857100605216?l=theheartofapastorswife.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://theheartofapastorswife.blogspot.com/feeds/2097739857100605216/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=17856112&amp;postID=2097739857100605216' title='13 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/17856112/posts/default/2097739857100605216'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/17856112/posts/default/2097739857100605216'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://theheartofapastorswife.blogspot.com/2009/04/april.html' title='April . . .'/><author><name>Esthermay Bentley-Goossen</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/17353385912611151311</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='32' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-rXkJTzkh05w/Twy4o_DKmAI/AAAAAAAAEms/F5ct_u5V6dY/s220/profile%2Bpicture.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/SdOLm2JYt8I/AAAAAAAACTU/Q79lwZ-EwHM/s72-c/to+open.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>13</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17856112.post-7645499419419522167</id><published>2009-03-31T00:00:00.003-04:00</published><updated>2009-04-04T01:15:39.091-04:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='In Other Words'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='II Corinthians 1'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Counseling'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Job'/><title type='text'>Weep With Those Who Weep . . .In Other Words . . .</title><content type='html'>&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/ScwuHyh_eJI/AAAAAAAACQM/xjxztCjhTEo/s1600-h/verydepressed.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0pt 10px 10px 0pt; float: left; cursor: pointer; width: 196px; height: 200px;" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/ScwuHyh_eJI/AAAAAAAACQM/xjxztCjhTEo/s200/verydepressed.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5317675971376019602" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;"F&lt;/span&gt;or most of this century we have wrongly defined soul wounds as psychological disorders and delegated their treatment to trained specialists.  Damaged psyches aren't the problem. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;The problem is d&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;isconnected souls."&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 102, 102);"&gt;~Larry Crabb&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;font-size:85%;" &gt;&lt;a style="color: rgb(102, 102, 102);" href="http://www.christianbook.com/Christian/Books/product?item_no=45297&amp;amp;netp_id=355233&amp;amp;event=ESRCN&amp;amp;item_code=WW&amp;amp;view=covers#curr"&gt;"Connecting" - &lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a style="color: rgb(102, 102, 102);" href="http://www.christianbook.com/Christian/Books/product?item_no=45297&amp;amp;netp_id=355233&amp;amp;event=ESRCN&amp;amp;item_code=WW&amp;amp;view=covers#curr"&gt;Healing for Ourselves and Our Rel&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;font-size:85%;" &gt;&lt;a style="color: rgb(102, 102, 102);" href="http://www.christianbook.com/Christian/Books/product?item_no=45297&amp;amp;netp_id=355233&amp;amp;event=ESRCN&amp;amp;item_code=WW&amp;amp;view=covers#curr"&gt;ationships&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;"Counseling" &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;is an often-used word today, but what do we really understand of it from a Biblical perspective?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;The Book of Job&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt; is rich with lessons on suffering, but one of the greatest lessons&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;&lt;/span&gt; that we can apply to the church body is that of how to counsel and how &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;not&lt;/span&gt; &lt;/span&gt;to counsel those who are hurting.   There are a great number of counselors that actually do more harm than good!   If you've studied the Book of Job, you know that Job had to take some time to "recover" from his friends’ “counseling” techniques.  And that recovery only came after Job forgave and prayed for his counselors. (Job 42:10)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt; &lt;a style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/ScwysVMAbQI/AAAAAAAACQk/pn4GG0w_NGs/s1600-h/jobsfriends.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0pt 0pt 10px 10px; float: right; cursor: pointer; width: 200px; height: 143px;" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/ScwysVMAbQI/AAAAAAAACQk/pn4GG0w_NGs/s200/jobsfriends.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5317680997200850178" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;Let's revisit Job's counselors.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt; They started out with wonderful technique:  They wept. They mourned. They sat with Job in the dirt, in shocked grief -- speechless, for seven long days.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102); font-style: italic;"&gt;When they saw him, they began to weep aloud…&lt;br /&gt;they sat on the ground with him for seven days and seven nights. No one said a word to him, because they saw how great his suffering was.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 102, 102);"&gt;Job 2:12-13&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: right; font-style: italic; color: rgb(102, 102, 102);"&gt;Job's "counselors" might have done well to just&lt;br /&gt;pack up their stuff and leave at this point because . . .&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;Sadly, &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;like so many of us today, they became impatient and instead of filling their divinely appointed role of comforter, they chose the world’s preferred alternative of claiming godlike knowledge. They focused their efforts on becoming superior-advice-giving-therapists, rather than comforting and counseling their friend as a peer.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt; &lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;Like Job's friends,&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt; we also tire of being in the dirt with our hurting, depressed, and often-irritable sisters and brothers. We want to dust ourselves off and show that we’re above that sort of thing.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;We refer our hurting friends to secular therapists and best-seller books. We rely less and less on God and our divinely appointed role as comforters and defer to a therapeutic culture -- A culture that looks beneath &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;every&lt;/span&gt; hurt, &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;every&lt;/span&gt; pain and &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;every&lt;/span&gt; struggle in life and finds some psychological disorder that needs repair  -- and more often than not: a pill.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: right; font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102); font-weight: normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;What’s really going on &lt;/span&gt;(in far more cases than we'd care to admit) &lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;is a soul crying out for what only Jesus Christ can provide. We need to quit relying on professionals to fix damaged “psyches” because . . . &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/ScwyyiPE6DI/AAAAAAAACQs/oKj71n3XAK0/s1600-h/praying2.JPG"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0pt 10px 10px 0pt; float: left; cursor: pointer; width: 200px; height: 134px;" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/ScwyyiPE6DI/AAAAAAAACQs/oKj71n3XAK0/s200/praying2.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5317681103782602802" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;The real problem &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;is &lt;span style="font-weight: bold; color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;disconnected human souls&lt;/span&gt;. See . . .  the church body is designed to “grow and build itself up in love, as each part does its work.” &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;(Ephesians 4:16)&lt;/span&gt; Just as spiritual gifts are to be used for the entire church body – so is its capacity to listen, understand, empathize, and nourish.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;It works like this: If you’ve ever received comfort from God – no matter how small - you have something in you that could deeply impact someone else who is hurting.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102); font-weight: bold;"&gt;. . . the God of all comfort, who comforts us in all our troubles, so that we can comfort those in any trouble with the comfort we ourselves have received from God.  &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 102, 102);"&gt;~II Corinthians 1:4&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;You &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;-- as part of the Body of Christ -- are able to comfort and encourage the lonely, revitalize the discouraged, and introduce hope into the lives of people who feel rejected and useless. Even if you yourself feel rejected and useless.  Look at Jesus' life on earth for inspiration. He is – after all - the Wonderful Counselor. (Isaiah 9:6) . . .&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;He was the Son of the God of the Universe!  -- yet he was humiliated his entire life. He was despised and rejected.&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt; (Isaiah 53:3)&lt;/span&gt; He was physically vulnerable, weak, tempted, subject to pain, and as the final disgrace, rejected by God. &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;(Matt. 27:46)&lt;/span&gt; We see him tired, thirsty, in tears, impoverished, ridiculed. Scripture stresses that the thing that equipped Jesus for his ministry was that he became like those he was called to help.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/Scw5FWaZHlI/AAAAAAAACQ0/4XGkpd5jP1A/s1600-h/weeping.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0pt 0pt 10px 10px; float: right; cursor: pointer; width: 200px; height: 150px;" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/Scw5FWaZHlI/AAAAAAAACQ0/4XGkpd5jP1A/s200/weeping.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5317688024096120402" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;Today, we’ve somehow established&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt; that only those exalted to godlike status holding PhD’s or M.A.'s or LMFT's are empowered to minister and counsel. Nothing could be further from the truth! Even, the most renowned Christian counselors have said that they are only able to truly help people when they put aside their academic training and rely upon the Lord to direct them. And isn’t this what each of us is called to do?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;Much heartache &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;could be averted in the body of Christ if we could learn to “weep with those who weep.” (&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;Romans 12:15)&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;. . . Not necessarily shedding liquid tears, but unashamedly embrace the pain of others, and let it be obvious that “if one part of the body suffers, every part suffers with it.” &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;(I Cor.12:26)&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;It’s a huge shift in thinking,&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt; but the greatest need for the hurting and depressed in our community is not to have more counseling centers or psychotherapists or support groups, but a church body where Christ is exalted and ordinary people learn to shepherd the hurting because, Biblically speaking, simply being a friend, confidant, and sympathizer, is a lofty role that not even the angels or God Himself can fully fill.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/SdEXORlbN-I/AAAAAAAACS8/a7Wqy-QZP2o/s1600-h/friendscoffee2.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0pt 10px 10px 0pt; float: left; cursor: pointer; width: 200px; height: 150px;" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/SdEXORlbN-I/AAAAAAAACS8/a7Wqy-QZP2o/s200/friendscoffee2.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5319058168907249634" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;Only we, &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;for example, can give a hug or share coffee with a hurting friend. People in pain need to know that they are not alone - they need people with whom they can relate. They don’t need advice as much as they need company and comfort.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: left;"&gt;Advice is cheap.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102); font-weight: bold;"&gt;Comfort is precious.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: right;"&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://writingcanvas.wordpress.com/"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0pt 0pt 10px 10px; float: right; cursor: pointer; width: 80px; height: 109px;" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/SdEtfZdh-AI/AAAAAAAACTE/_XRetRkUTck/s200/InOtherWords.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5319082652335208450" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;~ Esthermay Bentley-Goossen&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;© 2009 &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;The Heart of a Pastor's Wife&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;script type="text/javascript" src="http://www.blenza.com/linkies/autolink.php?owner=theheartofapastorswife&amp;amp;postid=26Mar2009a&amp;amp;meme=iow"&gt;&lt;/script&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: right;"&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: right;"&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://theheartofapastorswifeprintables.blogspot.com/2009/04/weep-with-those-who-weep.html"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0pt 0pt 10px 10px; float: right; cursor: pointer; width: 40px; height: 30px;" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/Sce5lsfxCeI/AAAAAAAACNk/T69Y1QM0Oh8/s200/printer.gif" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5316421942384855522" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt; &lt;a href="http://theheartofapastorswifeprintables.blogspot.com/2009/04/weep-with-those-who-weep.html"&gt;Printable  Version&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/17856112-7645499419419522167?l=theheartofapastorswife.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://theheartofapastorswife.blogspot.com/feeds/7645499419419522167/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=17856112&amp;postID=7645499419419522167' title='20 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/17856112/posts/default/7645499419419522167'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/17856112/posts/default/7645499419419522167'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://theheartofapastorswife.blogspot.com/2009/03/weep-with-those-who-weep-in-other-words.html' title='Weep With Those Who Weep . . .&lt;br&gt;&lt;/br&gt;In Other Words . . .'/><author><name>Esthermay Bentley-Goossen</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/17353385912611151311</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='32' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-rXkJTzkh05w/Twy4o_DKmAI/AAAAAAAAEms/F5ct_u5V6dY/s220/profile%2Bpicture.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/ScwuHyh_eJI/AAAAAAAACQM/xjxztCjhTEo/s72-c/verydepressed.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>20</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17856112.post-5367856248987383408</id><published>2009-03-28T18:24:00.006-04:00</published><updated>2009-03-28T21:21:47.264-04:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='God&apos;s Word'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Saturday Selah'/><title type='text'>Good Enough Christianity . . .</title><content type='html'>&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/Sc6jj6TywmI/AAAAAAAACS0/Yh0BcqSQ4Vc/s1600-h/goodenough.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0pt 10px 10px 0pt; float: left; cursor: pointer; width: 148px; height: 200px;" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/Sc6jj6TywmI/AAAAAAAACS0/Yh0BcqSQ4Vc/s200/goodenough.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5318368047314158178" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;"Good-Enough Parenting"&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt; is a phrase familiar to developmental and child psychologists.  The idea is this:  &lt;span&gt;No parent can be perfect so we should stop trying.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;We should stop&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt; reading &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;Parenting &lt;/span&gt;Magazine.  We should stop making bunny-shaped pancakes.  We should stop beating our heads against that &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;Pottery Barn &lt;/span&gt;furniture that never did come together correctly after we took it out of the box . . . . and just be real.  We'd do a better job of parenting if we'd just leave our terror driven, self-hating perfectionism behind and be happy with being &lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 102, 102);"&gt;(hold your breath)&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: right;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;. . . &lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;average&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;But does thi&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;s apply to being a Christian?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Will the pursuit of "Good-Enough Christianity" get us farther along the path of spiritual maturity than aiming for "Perfect Christianity?"&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: left;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;My husband and I&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt; have been reading Devotional Classics together for several weeks now over our morning coffee.  We've  been immersed in the writings of authors such as C.S. Lewis, Bernard of Clairvaux, George A. Buttrick, Martin Luther, John Bunyan, Dietrich Bonhoeffer, John Chrysostom, Jean-Nicholas Garou, Charles Spurgeon . . .  &lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 102, 102); font-style: italic;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: right;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 102, 102); font-style: italic;"&gt;I think you get the point.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: left;"&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/Sc6N3lnr-oI/AAAAAAAACSE/FaNRwdjiDzk/s1600-h/Bible.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0pt 0pt 10px 10px; float: right; cursor: pointer; width: 200px; height: 150px;" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/Sc6N3lnr-oI/AAAAAAAACSE/FaNRwdjiDzk/s200/Bible.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5318344196102027906" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;Why are we reading these authors?  &lt;span style="font-style: italic; color: rgb(102, 102, 102);"&gt;You should not have to ask, but just in case you're wondering . . . &lt;/span&gt;it's because these Christian authors actually believed God's Word to be inerrant and sufficient and infallible and inspired and the absolute final authority on all things!  And, frankly, there aren't all that many authors today who write from this perspective.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;I&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;f you hadn't already &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;observed this phenomena, our culture subscribes to an anti-authority mentality which contributes to an &lt;u&gt;anti-Bible&lt;/u&gt; mentality. God's Word has been depreciated by rationalism, existentialism, egoism, relationalism, ritualism, liberalism, intellectualism, mysticism, socialism, and probably a few other&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;-isms&lt;/span&gt; as well.&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/Sc6Szetg7cI/AAAAAAAACSc/rBcaIBWApy0/s1600-h/isthischurch.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0pt 10px 10px 0pt; float: left; cursor: pointer; width: 200px; height: 120px;" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/Sc6Szetg7cI/AAAAAAAACSc/rBcaIBWApy0/s200/isthischurch.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5318349623086083522" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;These  Christian writers&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt; of previous centuries would have been appalled by "Christians" today who blindly believe that God's Love will carry them to heaven simply because they've avoided the big, bad sins like embezzlement and murder.  They would be sickened by the mass number of "Christians" who attend church for no other reason than to socialize.   They would be horrified to see that "worship" was now defined by a certain style of music.  They would be dismayed to know that most Christians only view Christianity as another of the world's many &lt;span style="font-style: italic; color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;Religions&lt;/span&gt;.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;These great Christian writers and preachers of yesterday would be aghast to realize that an immesurable number of Christians really are living a "good-enough" Christian life if only because they've never actually read their Bibles!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;I&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;f St. John of the Cross&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt; had seen people today living a "good-enough" Christian life, he would have cried out,&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center; color: rgb(51, 102, 102); font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;"&gt;"Oh soul created for this greatness and summoned to it -- what are you doing?"&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;Christianity is not&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt; about public or even private devotion.  The Christian is the person who has seen his wretched and prideful state before God and chooses instead to acknowledge God's will.  Such people consider God in EVERYTHING they do and live out EVERY aspect of their lives in accordance with God's Perfect Will.  And -- &lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;Yes!&lt;/span&gt;  They strive for &lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;perfection&lt;/span&gt; in their lives.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Listen to the words of William Law:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center; font-weight: bold; font-style: italic; color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/Sc6S3VvKfvI/AAAAAAAACSk/QeJG5GXdtc0/s1600-h/WilliamLaw.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0pt 0pt 10px 10px; float: right; cursor: pointer; width: 135px; height: 200px;" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/Sc6S3VvKfvI/AAAAAAAACSk/QeJG5GXdtc0/s200/WilliamLaw.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5318349689396559602" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;The simple point is this:  either Christianity prescribes rules to live by in our daily lives, or it does not.  If it does, then we must govern all of actions by those rules if we are to worship God.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;. . . Our blessed Savior and his Apostles were very intent on giving us teachings that relate to daily life.  They teach us:&lt;br /&gt;to renounce the world and be different in our attitudes&lt;br /&gt;and ways of life;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;to renounce all its goods, to fear non of its evils, to reject its joys, and have no value for its happiness;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;to be as newborn babes who are born into a new state of things;&lt;br /&gt;to live as pilgrims in spiritual watching, in holy fear, and heavenly aspiring after another life;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;to take up our cross daily, to deny ourselves,&lt;br /&gt;to profess the blessedness of mourning, to seek the blessedness of poverty of spirit;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;to forsake the pride and vanity of riches, to take no thought for the morrow, to live in the profoundest state of humility, to rejoice in worldly sufferings;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;to reject the lust of the flesh, the lust of the eyes, and the pride of life;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;to bear injuries, to forgive and bless our enemies,&lt;br /&gt;and to love all people as God loves them;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;to give up our whole hearts and affections to God, and to strive to enter through the straight gate into a life of eternal glory.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Isn't it strange that people place so much emphasis upon going to church when there is not one command from Jesus to do so, and yet neglect the basic duties of our ordinary life which are commanded in every page of the Gospels?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center; color: rgb(102, 102, 102);"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;~ William Law &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;(1686 - 1761)&lt;br /&gt;From "A Serious Call to a Devout and Holy Life"&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/Sc6V3ocz2mI/AAAAAAAACSs/RbkWbBDIRnI/s1600-h/openyourbible.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0pt 10px 10px 0pt; float: left; cursor: pointer; width: 200px; height: 150px;" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/Sc6V3ocz2mI/AAAAAAAACSs/RbkWbBDIRnI/s200/openyourbible.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5318352992954735202" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;If every Christian&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt; were to read the New Testament from its beginning to its end, we would find our course of life condemned in every page of it.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;We would then conclude -- with pride -- that the Christian life is impracticable and unattainable in today's world and that the Bible does nothing but condemn and judge.  We would also settle once and for all that those Christians who do believe the Bible to be the inspired, infallible, and inerrant Word of God are delusional.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;So then . . . we become content to live out "good-enough" Christianity because the Christianity of the New Testament is hopelessly out of reach in today's world and just flat-out absurd.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;No Christian can be perfect&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt; so we should stop trying.  We should just live like the rest of the world.  God's Word is desperately behind the times and can't possibly be relevant to our lives today.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: right;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;Right?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;~Esthermay Bentley-Goossen&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;© 2009 &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;The Heart of a Pastor's Wife&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/17856112-5367856248987383408?l=theheartofapastorswife.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://theheartofapastorswife.blogspot.com/feeds/5367856248987383408/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=17856112&amp;postID=5367856248987383408' title='11 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/17856112/posts/default/5367856248987383408'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/17856112/posts/default/5367856248987383408'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://theheartofapastorswife.blogspot.com/2009/03/good-enough-parenting-is-phrase.html' title='Good Enough Christianity . . .'/><author><name>Esthermay Bentley-Goossen</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/17353385912611151311</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='32' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-rXkJTzkh05w/Twy4o_DKmAI/AAAAAAAAEms/F5ct_u5V6dY/s220/profile%2Bpicture.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/Sc6jj6TywmI/AAAAAAAACS0/Yh0BcqSQ4Vc/s72-c/goodenough.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>11</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17856112.post-6631827894261578922</id><published>2009-03-24T01:01:00.004-04:00</published><updated>2009-03-24T13:40:14.171-04:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Salvation'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='In Other Words'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Galatians 6'/><title type='text'>A Fellowship of Burdens . . . Or a Fellowship of Joy?</title><content type='html'>&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/ScgJbj-67fI/AAAAAAAACOI/tiHHSheuJ1Y/s1600-h/aloneinchurch.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0pt 10px 10px 0pt; float: left; cursor: pointer; width: 200px; height: 150px;" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/ScgJbj-67fI/AAAAAAAACOI/tiHHSheuJ1Y/s200/aloneinchurch.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5316509729231138290" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;T&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);font-size:130%;" &gt;o ease another’s heartache&lt;br /&gt;is to forget one’s own. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 102, 102);"&gt;~ Abraham Lincoln&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;On Mondays &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;I often wonder how many church members come to church so burdened by the cares of life that they aren’t even really present at worship.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);font-size:180%;" &gt;The me&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);font-size:180%;" &gt;ssage of God’s Word&lt;/span&gt; does not penetrate their hearts, because it doesn’t make its way past their conscious hearing.  They are simply consumed by their burdens.  The burdens they carry grow out of finances, marriage, friendships, problems at work, a child who is rebellious or who is running from God, an ongoing health issue, a death in the family – the list of potential problems people face is endless.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;I wonder&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt; if it's possible for a church – a body of believers – to reach a point where there are more burdened people than there are people willing to bear the burdens?  Some churches have become nothing more than a fellowship of burdens!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;We've made a verb of fellowship so that we can now "fellowship" over coffee! . . .  when the &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;koinonia&lt;/span&gt; is nothing more than a burden-comparison-session.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: right;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic; color: rgb(102, 102, 102);"&gt;What happened to the Joy of fellowship?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;After all -- depending on whom you listen to -- the whole world is a financial, relational, moral and political disaster! Everyone is burdened by something or someone!!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;In the New Testament, the word "fellowship" (Greek&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt; koinonia&lt;/span&gt;) is a very strong word that reminds us that we SHARE together in God's grace --  NOT our common burdens!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: right; color: rgb(102, 102, 102); font-style: italic;"&gt;The New Testament Church understood Joy.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);font-size:130%;" &gt;“Bear ye one another’s burdens, and so fulfill the law of Christ.”&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 102, 102);"&gt;~ Galatians 6:2&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/ScgOdJM0tZI/AAAAAAAACOQ/g-4qjkZYC6g/s1600-h/burdened.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0pt 0pt 10px 10px; float: right; cursor: pointer; width: 200px; height: 200px;" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/ScgOdJM0tZI/AAAAAAAACOQ/g-4qjkZYC6g/s200/burdened.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5316515253959570834" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;The word “burden”&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt; in Galatians 6:2 comes from the Greek word βάρος (baros).  It refers to a weight that is heavy or crushing.  Spiritually speaking, a "burden" is anything that threatens to crush our Joy!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;In terms of perceivable burdens in a church body, we do tend to think of "burdens" as sickness, unemployment, loss of a loved-on, loneliness, rejection, etc.   And we see the people who bear these burdens as victims -- which isn't necessarily wrong.  If we are full of Christ we will most definitely be about the business of bearing these burdens.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;Throughout the New Testament&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt; we are given instructions on how to conduct ourselves among fellow-believers. The Christian family isn't about criticizing or condemning, but about encouraging and restoring one another. . .&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: right;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;. . . and there isn't a counselor or mental-health professional&lt;br /&gt;anywhere who would disagree that encouraging and&lt;br /&gt;helping to restore others takes our mind off&lt;br /&gt;of ourselves and our own problems. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;T&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);font-size:130%;" &gt;o ease another’s heartache is to forget one’s own. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 102, 102);"&gt;~ Abraham Lincoln&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;There is, however,  &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;a greater heartache -- a far more overwhelming and crushing burden -- that too many Christians overlook.  Immediately before telling the Galatians to &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;"bear one another's burdens" in &lt;/span&gt;Galatians 6:2, Paul describes this greater burden and how to help a person bear it:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center; color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;"Brethren, if a man is overtaken in any trespass, you who are spiritual should restore him in a spirit of gentleness."&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 102, 102);"&gt;~ Galatians 6:1&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;A person&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt; who is sinning&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;  needs help!  The Bible tells us that those who are spiritual should "restore him."   The sad part is that way too many Christians wrongly label this Biblical mandate as "judging."&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: right;"&gt;They say, &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;"That's none of my business.  I don't want to be burdened by that.&lt;br /&gt;It's not my problem. I'm not going to judge that person."&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt; &lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;Sorry.  &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;That position is just not Biblical.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;Ultim&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;ately,&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt; Christ has already taken on the burden of sin.  We can not carry this burden for someone else.  &lt;span style="font-weight: bold; color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;HOWEVER,&lt;/span&gt; as Christians, it &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;is &lt;/span&gt;our responsibility to admonish and warn each other about attitudes, habits, actions, etc. which are wrong and then point each other to Christ. The Bible is clear on this! . . .&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: right; font-style: italic;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 102, 102);"&gt;. . . and what greater Joy than to point someone to Christ?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 102, 102);"&gt;In doing so, aren't we also&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic; color: rgb(102, 102, 102);"&gt; taking the focus&lt;br /&gt;off of ourselves and our own problems&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 102, 102);"&gt;?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Problems that may not have as great an eternal consequence??&lt;br /&gt;If you've ever led someone to Christ, you understand that . . .&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;. . . T&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);font-size:130%;" &gt;o ease another’s heartache is to forget one’s own. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 102, 102);"&gt;~ Abraham Lincoln&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/SchgTkAeYXI/AAAAAAAACOY/F8Jl3Du0x1w/s1600-h/maninpew.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0pt 10px 10px 0pt; float: left; cursor: pointer; width: 200px; height: 138px;" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/SchgTkAeYXI/AAAAAAAACOY/F8Jl3Du0x1w/s200/maninpew.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5316605249310318962" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;On Mondays &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;do you sometimes feel overwhelmed thinking about the "burdens" of those who surround you in church?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Are they burdened by the economy?&lt;br /&gt;Are they burdened by a broken relationship?&lt;br /&gt;Are they burdened by physical illness?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Or are they burdened by sin?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: right; font-style: italic; color: rgb(102, 102, 102);"&gt;A burden easily disguised.&lt;br /&gt;A burden with eternal consequence.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;Whatever their particular burden, &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;it is our responsibility as Christians to show genuine care -- restoring them to a strong trust in God's all-sufficient grace.  Our fellowship &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;(koinonia)&lt;/span&gt; with each other is based on our common &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;koinonia&lt;/span&gt; with Jesus Christ.  (I John 1:6-7)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;. . . remembering the words the Lord Jesus himself said:&lt;br /&gt;"It is more blessed to give than to receive."&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 102, 102);"&gt;~ Acts 20:35&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: right;"&gt;~Esthermay Bentley-Goossen&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;© 2009 &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;The Heart of a Pastor's Wife&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: right;"&gt;&lt;span style=""&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://theheartofapastorswifeprintables.blogspot.com/2009/03/fellowship-of-burdens.html"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0pt 0pt 10px 10px; float: right; cursor: pointer; width: 40px; height: 30px;" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/Scft1ThPDwI/AAAAAAAACOA/5zSiSo1MHYw/s200/printer.gif" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5316479385162682114" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a href="http://theheartofapastorswifeprintables.blogspot.com/2009/03/fellowship-of-burdens.html"&gt;&lt;u&gt;Printable Version&lt;/u&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;span style=""&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;This installment of InOtherWords is hosted by &lt;a href="http://susan2956.blogspot.com/"&gt;Susan&lt;/a&gt; on her blog, &lt;a href="http://susan2956.blogspot.com/"&gt;Forever His&lt;/a&gt;.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/17856112-6631827894261578922?l=theheartofapastorswife.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://theheartofapastorswife.blogspot.com/feeds/6631827894261578922/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=17856112&amp;postID=6631827894261578922' title='19 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/17856112/posts/default/6631827894261578922'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/17856112/posts/default/6631827894261578922'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://theheartofapastorswife.blogspot.com/2009/03/fellowship-of-burdens-or-fellowship-of.html' title='A Fellowship of Burdens . . . Or a Fellowship of Joy?'/><author><name>Esthermay Bentley-Goossen</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/17353385912611151311</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='32' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-rXkJTzkh05w/Twy4o_DKmAI/AAAAAAAAEms/F5ct_u5V6dY/s220/profile%2Bpicture.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/ScgJbj-67fI/AAAAAAAACOI/tiHHSheuJ1Y/s72-c/aloneinchurch.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>19</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17856112.post-8142084124637626579</id><published>2009-03-23T11:00:00.008-04:00</published><updated>2009-03-23T20:33:08.147-04:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Facebook'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Family'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Children'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='prayer'/><title type='text'>31 Biblical VirtuesTo Pray for Your Children. . .</title><content type='html'>&lt;div style="text-align: right;"&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://theheartofapastorswifeprintables.blogspot.com/2009/03/31-biblical-virtues-to-pray-for-your.html"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0pt 0pt 10px 10px; float: right; cursor: pointer; width: 40px; height: 30px;" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/Sce5lsfxCeI/AAAAAAAACNk/T69Y1QM0Oh8/s200/printer.gif" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5316421942384855522" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/ScV4apmHj3I/AAAAAAAACMA/-x1plj8BR1s/s1600-h/Project365+364.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 10pt 10px 10px 10pt; float: left; cursor: pointer; width: 200px; height: 150px;" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/ScV4apmHj3I/AAAAAAAACMA/-x1plj8BR1s/s200/Project365+364.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5315787334418403186" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a href="http://theheartofapastorswifeprintables.blogspot.com/2009/03/31-biblical-virtues-to-pray-for-your.html"&gt;&lt;u&gt;Printable Version&lt;/u&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;As parents, &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;the time we spend praying for our children is likely the most precious of the day  -- and its value is IMMEASURABLE!!! I don't think we can come close to what God expects from us as parents in this area -- especially in our society. Disruptions (especially as mothers) come on levels that we don't even recognize as "disruptions."&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;Many months ago,&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt; I participated in a Baby Dedication with my husband and I presented a young mother in our church a list of &lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;31 Biblical Virtues to Pray for Your Child&lt;/span&gt;. After the service, another mother asked if I would share these with her.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;Unfortunately, &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;I got &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;disrupted&lt;/span&gt; &lt;span style="font-size:78%;"&gt;&lt;span&gt;(I'm a mom, remember?)&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt; and I forgot to pass them on. . .&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;I was reminded&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt; of my absentmindedness this past week when the lady who'd asked for the list became my newest Facebook Friend. She didn't remind me -- it just occurred in one of those &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;wide-eye'd "oh-my-goodness" &lt;/span&gt;moments when I saw her picture on Facebook.  So, I now pass them along to her and everyone else as well. (Sorry it took so long, Rebecca!)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: right; color: rgb(102, 102, 102); font-style: italic;"&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/ScWZHkcxxyI/AAAAAAAACNI/iNUutUwWlcE/s1600-h/family.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 10pt 10px 10px 10pt; float: left; cursor: pointer; width: 176px; height: 200px;" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/ScWZHkcxxyI/AAAAAAAACNI/iNUutUwWlcE/s200/family.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5315823290503251746" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;Pictured throughout this post are our five children:&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;Sharon (24),&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;Tim (22),&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;Alisa (17),&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;Selah (5),&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;and Shepard (4) .&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;We pray for them daily!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;31 Biblical Virtues&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;to Pray for Your Children&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: right;"&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://theheartofapastorswifeprintables.blogspot.com/2009/03/31-biblical-virtues-to-pray-for-your.html"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0pt 0pt 10px 10px; float: right; cursor: pointer; width: 40px; height: 30px;" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/Sce5lsfxCeI/AAAAAAAACNk/T69Y1QM0Oh8/s200/printer.gif" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5316421942384855522" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a href="http://theheartofapastorswifeprintables.blogspot.com/2009/03/31-biblical-virtues-to-pray-for-your.html"&gt;&lt;u&gt;Printable Version&lt;/u&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;► Salvation&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;“Lord, let salvation spring up within my children, that they may obtain the salvation that is in Christ Jesus, with eternal glory.”&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: right;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 102, 102); font-style: italic;"&gt;Isaiah 45:8&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 102, 102); font-style: italic;"&gt;II Timothy 2:10&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/ScV-TQJwh-I/AAAAAAAACM4/fWBmixXWwzc/s1600-h/ChristmasCard+039.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 10pt 10px 10px 10pt; float: right; cursor: pointer; width: 200px; height: 150px;" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/ScV-TQJwh-I/AAAAAAAACM4/fWBmixXWwzc/s200/ChristmasCard+039.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5315793804399249378" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;► Growth in Grace&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;“I pray that my children may grow in the grace and knowledge of our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ.”&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: right;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 102, 102); font-style: italic;"&gt;II Peter 3:18&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;► Love&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;“Grant, Lord, that my children may learn to live a life of love, through the Spirit who dwells in them.”&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: right; color: rgb(102, 102, 102); font-style: italic;"&gt;Galatians 5:25&lt;br /&gt;Ephesians 5:2&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/ScV9K6CWU0I/AAAAAAAACMg/xujPIs1nO8g/s1600-h/timothy.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 10pt 10pt 10px 10px; float: left; cursor: pointer; width: 200px; height: 178px;" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/ScV9K6CWU0I/AAAAAAAACMg/xujPIs1nO8g/s200/timothy.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5315792561512010562" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;► Honesty &amp;amp; Integrity&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;“May integrity and honesty be their virtue and their protection.”&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: right; color: rgb(102, 102, 102); font-style: italic;"&gt;Psalm 25:21&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;► Self Control&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;“Father, help my children not to be like many others around them, but let them be alert and self-controlled in all they do.”&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: right;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 102, 102); font-style: italic;"&gt;I Thessalonians 5:6&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;► Love for God's Word&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;“may my children grow to find Your Word more precious than much pure gold and sweeter than honey from the comb.”&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: right; color: rgb(102, 102, 102); font-style: italic;"&gt;Psalm 19:10&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;► Justice&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;“God, help my children to love justice as You do and act justly in all they do.”&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: right; color: rgb(102, 102, 102); font-style: italic;"&gt;Psalm 11:7&lt;br /&gt;Micah 6:8&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/ScV9qJDuwtI/AAAAAAAACMo/_oC9pZ5zkkY/s1600-h/Project365+306.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 10pt 10pt 10px 10px; float: right; cursor: pointer; width: 200px; height: 150px;" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/ScV9qJDuwtI/AAAAAAAACMo/_oC9pZ5zkkY/s200/Project365+306.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5315793098120282834" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;► Mercy&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;“May my children always be merciful, just as their Father is merciful.”&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: right; font-style: italic;"&gt;Luke 6:36&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;► Respect &lt;span style="font-size:100%;"&gt;(for Self, Others &amp;amp; Authority)&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;“Father, grant that my children may show proper respect to everyone, as Your Word commands.”&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: right; color: rgb(102, 102, 102); font-style: italic;"&gt;I Peter 2:17&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;► Biblical Self-Esteem&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;“Help my children develop a strong self-esteem that is rooted in the realization that they are God’s workmanship, created in Christ Jesus.”&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: right; color: rgb(153, 0, 0); font-style: italic;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 102, 102);"&gt;Ephesians 2:10&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/ScV99QepG4I/AAAAAAAACMw/vd3jKERhMEw/s1600-h/sharontim.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 10pt 10pt 10px 10px; float: left; cursor: pointer; width: 200px; height: 182px;" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/ScV99QepG4I/AAAAAAAACMw/vd3jKERhMEw/s200/sharontim.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5315793426529721218" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;► Faithfulness&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;“Let love and faithfulness never leave my children, but bind these twin virtues around their necks and write them on the tablets of their hearts.”&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: right; color: rgb(102, 102, 102); font-style: italic;"&gt;Proverbs 3:3&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;► Courage&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;“May my children always be strong and courageous in their character and in their actions.”&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: right; color: rgb(102, 102, 102); font-style: italic;"&gt;Deuteronomy 31:6&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;► Purity&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;“Create in them a pure heart, O God, and let that purity of heart be shown in their actions.”&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: right;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 102, 102); font-style: italic;"&gt;Psalm 51:10&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;► Kindness&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;“Lord, may my children always try to be kind to each other and to everyone else.”&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: right; font-style: italic;"&gt;I Thessalonians 5:15&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/ScV664IdbkI/AAAAAAAACMQ/bBFXR_G4_UE/s1600-h/sharon.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 10pt 10px 10px 10pt; float: right; cursor: pointer; width: 166px; height: 200px;" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/ScV664IdbkI/AAAAAAAACMQ/bBFXR_G4_UE/s200/sharon.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5315790087099608642" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;► Generosity&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;“Grant that my children may be generous and willing to share, and so lay up treasure for themselves as a firm foundation for the coming age.”&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: right; color: rgb(102, 102, 102); font-style: italic;"&gt;I Timothy 6:18-19&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;► Peace-Loving&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;“Father, let my children make every effort to do what leads to peace.”&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: right; color: rgb(102, 102, 102); font-style: italic;"&gt;Romans 14:19&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;► Joy&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;“May my children be filled with the joy given by the Holy Spirit.”&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: right; color: rgb(102, 102, 102); font-style: italic;"&gt;I Thessalonians 1:6&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;► Perseverance&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;“Lord, teach my children perseverance in all they do, and help them especially to run with perseverance the race marked out for them.”&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: right; font-style: italic;"&gt;Hebrews 12:1&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;► Humility&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;“God, please cultivate in my children the ability to show true humility toward all.”&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: right; color: rgb(102, 102, 102); font-style: italic;"&gt;Titus 3:2&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/ScV_BQu7WrI/AAAAAAAACNA/BHWIjJTQkBQ/s1600-h/tooth.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 10pt 10px 10px 10pt; float: left; cursor: pointer; width: 158px; height: 200px;" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/ScV_BQu7WrI/AAAAAAAACNA/BHWIjJTQkBQ/s200/tooth.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5315794594829130418" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;► Compassion&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;“Lord, please clothe my children with the virtue of compassion.”&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: right; color: rgb(102, 102, 102); font-style: italic;"&gt;Colossians 3:12&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;► Responsibility&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;“Grant that my children may learn responsibility, for each one should carry his own load.”&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: right;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(102, 102, 102); font-style: italic;"&gt;Galatians 6:5&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;► Contentment&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;“Father, teach my children the secret of being content in any and every situation, through Him who gives them strength.”&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: right; color: rgb(102, 102, 102); font-style: italic;"&gt;Philippians 4:12-13&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;► Faith&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;“I pray that faith will find root and grow in my children’s hearts, that by faith they may gain what has been promised to them.”&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: right; color: rgb(102, 102, 102); font-style: italic;"&gt;Luke 17:5-6&lt;br /&gt;Hebrews 11:1-40&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;► A Servant's Heart&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;“God, please help my children develop servants’ hearts, that they may serve wholeheartedly, as if they were serving the Lord, not men.”&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: right; color: rgb(102, 102, 102);"&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;Ephesians 6:7&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/ScV5oIncGhI/AAAAAAAACMI/N5WI7sjyyJg/s1600-h/alisa.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 10pt 10px 10px 10pt; float: right; cursor: pointer; width: 200px; height: 150px;" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/ScV5oIncGhI/AAAAAAAACMI/N5WI7sjyyJg/s200/alisa.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5315788665595370002" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;► Hope&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;“May the God of hope grant that my children may overflow with hope and hopefulness by the power of the Holy Spirit.”&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: right; font-style: italic;"&gt;Romans 15:13&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;► Willingness &amp;amp; Ability to Work&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;“Teach my children, Lord, to value work and to work at it with all their hearts, as working for the Lord, not for men.”&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: right; color: rgb(102, 102, 102); font-style: italic;"&gt;Colossians 3:23&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"&gt;► Passion of God&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;“Lord, please instill in my children a soul that ‘followeth hard after Thee’ &lt;span style="font-style: italic; color: rgb(102, 102, 102);"&gt;(Psalm 63:8)&lt;/span&gt;, one that clings passionately to you.”&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_4ZMlp3IpkLE/ScV7uv5G8bI/AAAAAAAACMY/tgsLiz7GBx0/s1600-h/tim.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 10pt 10pt 10p
